Ive been married three times and alas failed what is wrong with me?

olderbutwiser

My first thought is you're rushing it between divorces, without giving yourself time to heal first. You don't want to be lonely, and the first person that shows you much attention, you fall in love, and want to get married. It's only natural to not want to be lonely, and to have someone in your life, but if you rush it, it usually will not work. Good Luck, and slow down!

Nexus6

Maybe you're not the sort of person who can settle down with someone.

jamand

Probably nothing - but we don't know you so - how can we answer

khepo

May be you didnt meet your own kind, or else its your destiny to remain single.

Suthern R

Take a look at all of your ex's and see if perhaps they do not all share the same personality traits. We as people tend to migrate towards the same kinds of people all the time. Perhaps you are attracted to one type of person and when you marry them, you find the same kind of faults that just wear you down. Have all your divorces been over similar issues? Maybe you keep picking from the same pot and need to look in a different pot for a different type?

Lydia

Time for heavy counselling. Don't date anyone til things get resolved.

Chianti Man

Nothing Sal! XXX Stay single and have some fun..... XXX

Misty

Was there a commonality with the reasons your marriage failed? Take a look back with pen and paper. Be honest as you write to the best of your knowledge why the relationships went sour. You might notice that you were always looking at men that you should not have been looking at in the first place. Or, that you have behaviors, character that men find difficult to live with. Maybe you are not ready to give or change any of them ways. There is nothing wrong with being single for a while. were you getting married due to religious reasons? Maybe, what you need to do for a while is to be by yourself either to work on bettering yourself or until you know what you want in a married relationship. Whatever you do, Don't Rebound! Take your time!

Take Care!

NY Yanks Girrl

you need to ask yourself why did all 3 marriages fail? Was it something you coulda fixed? What was the root of the problems???

ANDREW H

You nag too much & are too demanding.

You should be more considerate with your partner & be prepared to change.

Change your lifestyle & grow up just like me.

I cannot understand you because you look so nice, stay that way & he will stay with you.

You are lousy in bed

Why not me

You are very special & unigue person, that reguires the same in a spouse. Don't give up just yet, the one for you is out there.

Roxy

Maybe you're in love with being in love, and when the novelty wears off, you get bored and seek a new challenge? Maybe you enjoy the whole 'wedding thing'? Maybe it's the men you picked?

springer

Why not try being on your own for a while. Stop jumping into marriage as the answer. You can make it on your own without someone. Try you may find out you can do it on your own and like it. Stop jumping from bed to bed , stop jumping from relationship to relationship, looking for love. Love yourself for at least 5 years before jumping into bed or a relationship with someone else. Live does go on without messing up someone elses life as well as your own. Learn to live on your own and love yourself.

wolfman

Im married to my fourth wife and have been for the past ten years and im extremely happy. There is nothing wrong with you. Next time ..take your time. Let the relationship mature. If He or She is the right one believe me you will know. And by the way don't be so quick to say you failed. There are two people in a marriage.

bina64davis

Who said it's your fault? Maybe you are just choosing the wrong person and THINK you are in love when you are really just in lust?

byebye

maybe its them.why did they end was it your fault or theres.have a relationship instead of marriage

Lola

you should ask- what is wrong with those men?

outspokenchick2004

That my dear is a question you should be asking yourself and not us! I would revisit your reasons why the marriages failed each time. Is there some connection? Did you divorce the other person or did they divorce you? If there is a connection in each one, perhaps therapy for yourself is a good idea. It can never hurt.

laplandfan

Maybe you rushed into marriage?
Were you truly 'in love'?
It may not be your fault.
Did you give up to easily? Was divorce too easy?

The Lovely Lily Lange

it's either you or the person(s) you married.... to general of a question for us perfect strangers to answer.
but, id say 3 strikes and you're out.

steinerrw

What is WRONG with you?

cardgirl2

This calls for some heavy duty therapy. I would go to a therapist and find out what you are doing wrong. Maybe you are picking the wrong type of woman, or maybe you are serious personality flaws that are making your marriages fail. Without knowing you personally, there is no way you could be analyzed. You need therapy. Also a bit of advice, don't go into a new relationship right away. First try and heal, and then see a therapist and move on. It takes at least a year.

Tapestry6

No matter who you marry you bring your own baggage with you so you can't get away from yourself.
You could be marrying the same type that you really can't get along with for a long time or you could be marrying for the wrong reasons. Or you could just not be the marrying type why don't you stay single for awhile and be the best you can be on your own.

krash

I know how you feel. I have only been married twice, but was engaged and living together with the third when it went south. I have gotten to the point where I read books to try to figure this out. Also don't really want to jump back into any more relationship either. When ever you figure this one out, let me know so I can have some peace too : )

farleyjackmaster

Perhaps you should take some time out from relationships and get to know you. x

srracvuee

dont ask us ask yourself you might find the reason as unreasonable

bluemist

.It's not you it's the people you chose

Katia Koolez

nothing is wrong with you, you don't need a spouse to make you whole but do not give up I'm sure there is a special someone who is waiting for you. those three marriages made you who you are today and possibly prepared you for your true lover!

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