Just married, still lusting for someone else?
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Just married, still lusting for someone else?
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i really need to get this off my chest.
a few years ago i messed around with my best friend's boyfriend. yes i know...horrible, it was a horrible mistake, and yes i was young and drunk and i could tell you every excuse in the book but...we were insanely attracted to each other. it was just one of those forces of nature things.
Anyway to make a long story short i'm married now. very, very happily married. i love my husband so much and am very attracted to him he satisfies me very much in bed. but my best friend still comes over, with her bf, (yes they're still together) and i am still very much attracted to him.
i would never ever do anything behind my husband's back, just wanted to know if anyone's been in this situation before, and how you dealt with it.
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BK 2008
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Maybe you need to figure out why your so attracted to this other man. Is it because he's not really available? Why did you marry your husband if you had such strong feelings for someone else? If you really love your husband very much, as you say, you will focus on your marriage and let go with anyone from the past. Does your BF know you slept with her boyfriend? They probably wouldn't be together if she did and your friendship could be over too. Keep your distance from this other man. Start a list (mental) of all of his faults - I'm sure he has plenty) He won't be as attractive then. |
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J C
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You won't be married long. |
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Debbie
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Let it go. Your married. |
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China Doll 3
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Get over it, and love your husband. |
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Samiam
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Your truely need to get over it and show your husband all the attention your showing this other guy..... You should be on the floor kissing your best friends feet for her excepting your apoligie and continuen being your friend... cuz i couldnt do it.... If i was her i would never bring my boyfriend around you...... Bein attracted to someone is one thing,,, but acting out on those attractions is another..... To keep things drama free i think when you and your bestie hang out YOU should make sure her boyfriend isnt gonna be there so you get no silly thoughts!!!! |
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amare
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You need to keep your distance from this guy and focus on your marriage. |
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