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Mom of 3
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VERY simple solution. www.cheaters.com They will figure it out for you. They are free. |
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Poopsy
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Do something to make him a bit jealous of you. Jealousy can be useful especially in these cases. |
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free_angel
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Network out your friends, especially those that have cameras. And check things out yourself. You're on a mission and need answers pronto. My friend did this, she bought one of those devices that you insert into telephones to tape/listen to conversations, she questioned neighbors, secretly followed him and caught her man cheating. |
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zeldieuk2002
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get a email account in a different name and send him a random email something like, my mate emma said thanks for the lift or whatever will be appropriate for his lifestyle
or borrow a friends mobile and text him to see if he replies and see what things he says, its a tricky situation, does he leave his phone near you when he has a bath/shower, quickly grab a look when he is, write down the numbers and call them and ask the women if they know a mr?
if he goes out to the pub with his mates, have a friend go in the pub to see what he is up to |
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Angel Eve
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I say just go with your gut. If you cant trust him, then you cant be with him. But if you want to catch him. Take a day off of work when you know he has something going on... Follow him. He will think you are at work, and then you can spy on him. My friend and I spied on her man once... We didnt see anything... but she told him that she hired someone and she had pictures of him with some girl and she wanted to know RIGHT NOW what was up... and he told her everything... She never had pics, she didnt have anything but a gut feeling.... he busted himself out. Good luck |
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nert
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This smacks of insecurity. He may be cheating, but "he keeps his mobile phone with him all times" - that's why they're called "mobile phones". He has text messages to a girl - are men in relationships not allowed female friends? I have plenty of plantonic friendships with females. Going through his mobile is inexcusable and an invasion of privacy. You obviously don't trust him, and without trust, there is no relationship. You may as well end it now. |
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malanina
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you could follow him when he is acting odd..try to check the cell phone again and if it is a text..text back and see what type of response that you get..look through the recent call list for sure to see who he is talking to..he probably is not intelligent enough to erase them.. |
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volcano
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Cant afford a private investigator. I say call cheaters. On him. Go to www.cheaters.com |
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notyours
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Even if you have no proof, you have suspicions. That should tell you that you don't trust him and that your relationship is in trouble, if not already over. Prepare yourself for the end. |
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jacemo
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submit you case to Cheaters the tv show or call a talk show |
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hellsbells
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Tell him how you feel.
Tell him that the only way to quell your paranoia is to walk through his wireless bill with him.
If he refuses to show you his bill, he's cheating for sure.
The best way to get over this is to get every fact. He won't mind...if he's truthful. If not, you will still need every fact to move forward, with him, or the next guy. |
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Dmh
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Be very unpredictable and he will slip up!!! |
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nwnativeprincess
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WHY SPEND YOUR TIME WORRING ABOUT IT? TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOURSELF, YOU CAN BE COMPLETE WITH OUT ALL THE HASSELS AND STRESSES. |
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BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN
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get a girl to holla at him |
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Clints_wench
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Take it from a person with experience.. if you are suspicious he is cheating more than likely he is. Sorry to say that but Good Luck in whatever you decide to do in your relationship.. |
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me
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if you ever get hold of his phone, make sure you set the messages to store all the outgoing messages he send out. |
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gadriel
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strange concept i know but why do you want to prove he is a cheat? i think that if you are 80% sure then you know something is not right in your relationship. i have been in your shoes and i wish i had not spent so much of my time worrying about what my husband was doing and who he was doing it with.my best advice would be to do the same thing back to him. that is keep your phone on you all the time even in the bathroom ,check it constantly, arrange some evenings out but be vague about who you going with,just act differently,change your clothes hair ,make-up..... if he notices and he becomes suspicious and questioning then you would have interested him enough to get his attention.if he doesnt notice or care then he would have strayed no matter what you do or try to prove.OR you could save all the stress and say that you need to go to Relate with him as there are some issues that you need to discuss them. talk about the secretive stuff that doesnt add up in front of a 3rd party.its the best way find out what going on as he will find it harder to lie or change the subject there.You need to be ready to deal with whatever news he may reveal. prepare for the worst but expect the best.good luck ,take care thinking of you..ps we are still together happily and our relationship is now much stronger. |
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Goddess of Money
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Usually men that cheat give the old line "I have to work late" so hide out near his place of employment and follow him. Be sure you are not seen by him.
Strange phone calls where someone phones, but doesn't answer.
Working too much over-time (if possible check his O/T on his next pay check.
Check your credit card statements very carefully for signs of dinners out, motels or hotels and even car rentals.
....I suggest, looking through your partners mobile phone book, missed calls, outgoing and recieved calls,
Also searching their name on internet(youll be suprised of what youll find)
another sign is if He'll avoid you around the house, closing doors, or secluding hiself in other rooms, or is more irritable when asked simple questions.
go through his entire workshop, drawers, car and anywhere else he could have hidden information.
check his mobile phone bills..
try to get access to his email inbox. offers a lot of clues!
hope this was helpful. |
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awommack
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ihope you best luck good keep phone for you |
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YORKSHIRESMILER
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ever thought of asking him |
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Why not me
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just ask if this is how u feel |
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Fred Flintstone
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Check the phone for messages that indicate time & place and then go along as well and catch him out!!!! |
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angela_barnes_beloved
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self respect is so attractive in a person i think u should ask urself, if checking someones phone all the time, is in someway mabye compromising urs??? is he worth all this misery?? |
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good tree
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It'll drive you mad! I get up in the night to check his phone but he has now put a PIN lock on it (he did have an affair so it's not all in my head.) He has changed the passwords on his email accounts, and keeps me in the dark about what he's doing on his laptop......I'm not stupid, but I can't prove it's still ongoing. I keep praying,, I know God will help. Without Him I would have gone mad already. Got our joint account set up online so I can keep tabs on that, and also our phone bill online so if he makes a call, I know very quickly. Search drawers for passwords written down, or watch him closely. And try to rebuild your marriage. |
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zoe and skylar's mommy
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well, sounds like his not a very good liar if his stories don't match up. lies get bigger and bigger til you can't remember what the first lie was. sounds like he's cheating, but you need to ask him. 90% sure he'll deny doing anything. |
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berry
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As it is you have enough evidence for me to confirm that he is cheating. If you have the courage, leave him, he is not good for you. |
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babygirl
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if you know that his work does not keep him late in the office, you ought to ask him but in a polite way why he is coming home late.
You should check your ways if there are things that you do that make him to look outside or behave they way he is behaving and amend your ways. |
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robcostabrava@yahoo.com
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hes cheating i know |
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Admiral
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Sounds like you already know the answer to this question. The true question is, what will you do about it? You already know he's cheating - ask him? if he denies it then you know that you're with someone who cannot be trusted. |
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Johny0555
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Follow him yourself. |
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Fluorescent
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You either trust him or you don't trust him. If you don't trust him you know that yourself and you do not require proof of his affair.
Ask him about it, tell him your concerns are serious and you are thinking of leaving him whether he confesses to the affair or not. Give him the options below and make sure that you go through with them.
If he denies everything you should just split up. If the trust is gone, the love is gone. Try to establish a policy of telling each other everything next time you are in a serious relationship with another man.
If he can come up with a good explanation for the anomalies you have witnessed, stay and try to sort out the mess you have made.
If he is having an affair and admits to it, it's your call whether you stay or go. |
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