Ladies: How is the dating scene?

Every day some filipina, mexican and/or white chic (usually filipina) ask me
If I have a girlfriend or why I am not engaged?
And when I give them the spill that basically I don't want to get robbed by a chic that will eventually get old, fat and mean (I tell them in a nice way)

They either say: You have not met the right one or they just look down and have this kind of sad worried look.

So are yours sins catching up with you?
Did you really think that men were going to just marry you regardless of how much you abused the fact that women are in power socially during their 20's?
Every evil game you played, you assumed you would constantly be able to get away with it?
Really?

Wildflower

Um, no... They are probably feeling sorry for you and your cynical view of women and relationships.. I bet they think otherwise that you are a really nice guy and feel bad that you feel the way you do. If they do feel that way, I imagine they are trying to imagine what must have happened to make you so jaded and are feeing empathy for the pain you must have had. It may be a totally wrong assumption on their part.. nevertheless, realize that for the most part, they make those statements out of compassion and your negative reaction to it is almost one of paranoia instead of understanding.

Julie H

The dating scene is great for me. I have a steady boyfriend and he is wonderful and I wouldn't change a thing about him. By your questions you are so shallow, I can't even believe it. You date someone for companionship and friendship, love comes later. Everyone will get old including you. When I see your questions with such attitude, I always think "This is a guy that was really hurt by some girl." Am I right?

Garnet Glitter

Well, the only guy I date is my husband........evil games? I don't play games, never have and I'm too old to change.

I feel sorry for you......your attitude will prevent you from meeting a really nice gal.....so, if this 'concerns' you so much, stay alone and unattached for the rest of your life.....it makes no real difference to anyone....
.......and I've seen many a old mean 'fat' man as well-you are not immune to becoming that, either, especially growing old. You'll be there sooner than you think, too. With no companion and no family either, and whatever you have you can't take with you when you go. With no heirs the State gets everything......if that's what you want, okay...no one's business but yours.
Really. lol

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