Ladies, a question...?

No salacious details, just the facts and a question:

I've been married a while and recently had a long-time mutual (woman) friend of ours come to town for a visit. She stayed with us for a couple of days.

Short and sweet: Wife went to bed, friend stayed up to watch a movie with me and ended up on the sofa by me. We had a throw over us and were goofing, catching up on old times and watching the movie.

I admit I had a h.o; but didn't say or do a darned thing about it. She brushed it as she straightened out the throw, and IMMEDIATELY, casually took care of it manually, under the throw. It was almost a subconscious act for her.

Neither of us said a word, she looked straight ahead and it was over before I realized it happened. She got up, washed her hands and sat right back down with me like nothing happened. She left a few days ago and NEVER alluded to it.

I love my wife and have never fooled around on her. And, I want to be honest: I am in no way saying I regret what happened. My question to you ladies is simple: Have you, or could you "take care" of somebody and be so damned casual about it? That makes no sense to me.
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Whew! I feel sorry for some boyfriends/husbands out there! Loosen up, ladies ... it was just a casual hand-j*b!

â™¥Ti Amoâ™¥

I think maybe she forgot where she was or she just couldn't resist after brushing up against you. I do not know how she could be so casual about it but I would not worry about it. I also think that it is not something to talk about again.

ZaZa [Lily is here!]

No, I have not. And I could not. And you SHOULD regret what happened. What if a friend of yours "took care of your wife" real quick?

Peggy

She's not a friend to either of you. What the hell were you doing under the same throw as her anyway?

nahnah03

no i could not do that. i love my husband and respect him too much to do something like that. how can you not regret it? she should know about it. that's crazy. apparently the other woman has no respect for you or your wife.

Angel

wth where u doing under the blanket w/ her? IT TAKES 2 TO TANGO! pathetic!!

Medusssa

Perhaps your wife is sick of you & paid the friend to do it. Just kidding! And so are you, you have quite an imagination.

answer machine

not if I were married and my wife was sleeping upstairs that's pretty shitty. Why can't she be casual about it? You are.

Captain Obvious

No... i can promise you this: in her mind, it was not casual. Youve fallen for her bait - she wanted you to think of it that way and to keep wondering about her. It makes the situation so much more exciting.

As a woman who is newly married - I honestly say that a quesiton like this makes me feel very emotional. If you were my husband and did something like that, my heart would be completely broken.... you have no idea. I feel like crying just thinking about it right now!

How would you feel if the situation were reversed?
Your wife and a guy friend under the blanket. He accidentally feels her and then manually 'takes care' of her while you are in bed?

And what really shocks me - is that you were so fine with it... God, i pray that my husband never does anything like that to me. It would kill me inside.

btw - dont be surprised if this woman emails you in a few months and wants to get together. shes a manipulator, this one. take it from me!

You were way wrong,it is not okay and you could have just ruined your marriage. She is no friend to you or your wife and you should never let her near your family again. And there is no way that I could do that for a guy and not be attracted to him, but she sounds like a ho so maybe she can be that casual about it.

jay

That`s not normal. She was casual about it because she knew she could do it with you. And you went for it like a dog. This will hit you back, you just wait tightly under a throw...

THE BLONDE WITCH PROJECT

your long-time mutual friend jacks you off.........and she so damned casual about it.....wtf......what about you?......I guess you had no part to play in this.......give me a break....I know you couldn't help getting a hard on but you could have gone on to bed or stopped her when she started spanking your monkey.......the two of you should be ashamed of yourselves.......such wonderful friends you are to your wife.........

stormy2u2001

And here is your Second Nominations!!!!!

ruth

No. There are women who get paid to do that. I'm in a different profession.

angelslove692001

You are a cheater plain and simple, you should tell her and hopefully she'll leave you..She needs a man not a cheating dog.

nikkithebadest

No I couldn't do that.

Sha Re'

No, that was definitely a violation. But now you are in an impossible situation. if you tell your wife, then she feels betrayed by you and the friend. If you do not tell the wife, you and the "friend" have a secret bond, that can potentially be used against you in the future. Next time you have company like that, it would be best if you just go to bed when your wife does, tired or not. I wish you the best.

To answer your question, No, I have never been that casual, and definitely not with the husband of a friend.

Nena S

Wow!

With "friends" like this woman...Who needs enemies ?!?!?
SHEESH !!!

IF she has ANY class at all- (I don' think she does after what she did, BTW)- she won't call or visit you and your wife anymore !!!

Hopefully, she won't tell your wife about this, either. IF she does, sounds to me like you will have some explaining to do.....

candymom419

omg, that is so freakin scary. and she is absolutely clueless, your wiife. and stories like this, you wonder why woman dont trust their husbands.

i nominate you as well, what is that fourth now?

svgsmom

Nope, that is disgusting, and so are you frankly. Your poor wife has no clue what a waste of her time and life she is spending with you.

felixthecat

It makes no sense to me either -- No, I could never do what she did...Truth be told, I very much doubt that I would have stayed up alone with you once your wife went to bed - it just wouldn't feel right...her going to bed would have been my cue to excuse myself.

"Arkie Mom"

I am not casual or would initiate something like that. For some crazy reason if I had had such a brief similar encounter with another man that I at least liked I probably wouldn't regret it either and I very much love my husband, too. Thumbs down anyone? Bring it on I don't care!

Angel Y

I hope she tells your wife. That would serve you right if she left you. She obviously trusted you a little too much or she wouldn't have went to sleep. I feel bad that she will probably one day find out what a betraying little sneak you are and then you will have to probably deal with a lot of hurt from her. The fact that you don't even regret what you did makes you look no better than a pig.

Darcher

your a scummy little worm , I hope your wife finds out and "serves" you divorce papers, If I knew her I would tell her myself!

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