Ladies and Gents-What would you do if your wife or husband called you fat?

Bill F

A good retort would be, "I may be fat, but you're stupid, and I can diet."

Inexcusable - if I ever said that to my fiancee it would crush her, because she is at least 60 lbs overweight. But she's trying, and I would never do that. If she called me fat, I'd probably just try a little harder to lose some weight, but I'm only about 20 lbs over, too.

Billster

I'm gonna say he/she is fat too haha

debra_har

It's called passive aggressive abuse. He said it to hurt your feelings, no other reason. It's up to you how you handle it, but I assume this is not his only form of abuse. Or, it won't be.

Angie

I would probably cry...and then start going to the gym again.

During arguments people will say what they KNOW will hurt their spouse the most. So he must know you're sensitive about it.

You can either retaliate by gathering information about his feelings of inadequacies for the next fight...or you can just let it go and smile knowing you must have really made your point if he pulled that out.

Chris B

Simple find out the one thing he is insecure about and then rip off his arm and beat him with the bloody end!!

NinjaPiratesxo

Poke him in the eye.

s. baby

honestly, i wouldnt stress over it. your beautiful inside and out. be happy with who you are.

Heyyou

i'd be pissed
tell him he needs his jaw rocked.

Litsa B

It might hurt your feelings and I understand it is a very sensitive subject
but it is the truth and the truth always hurts.
Take it in a good way and see that maybe it bothers him too.
Don't hold it against him just prove him wrong.

john6302j@yahoo.com

id go get a pie and show her what fat is lol

ColdHardTruth

A slap across the face comes to mind.

trgger23

smack the **** out of him

HipChic

I would think he was being childish and a bully. You said he was mad at you for other stuff but then called you fat? Tell him to grow up! And really don't trust the judgment of an a#* that calls his wife names just to be mean.

Lauren S

first i would tell him how that made you me feel. If you are big he should be encouraging you to lose that 5, 20, or 50 lbs. Anger and liquor show the truth. he prob has been thinking that for a while and ur fight brought it out. lose your 20lbs or maybe not and act with confidence. If he still teases you then do not sleep with him for a while. I bet he will be all ova your fat ***. lol. ;

Lee

queef on there food behind their back before serving

sweet coco

i would be really upset too but dont let him beat you.....if u want to lose weight do it for yourself...if not then ignore him and show him how badly he hurt u....let him fend for himself for a while, dont do his washing and cooking etc for a bit, dont show him much love for a while.....let him c how much he needs u, then he'll realise it's what's on the inside that counts not the outside!! good luck huni xxx

Sweety

beat them up

Not

Tell her it's her cookin.

Steven~

LOL @ he got mad and said that!

me personally id wouldn't care at all. but to say that to a women is harsh since he purposely said it to hurt you

Angel's Wings

Let it go. He was just mad and spewing off vileness.

He may think you do need to lose weight. Sounds like you think that. So get busy and lose the weight...not for him though. Do it for yourself.

Best wishes

Connelinda

I'd tell him how much it hurt me; but it would also be the drive to push me even harder.

Tash

I would congratulate him for having eyes and being able to point out the obvious then he will feel bad... mind games... hahahaha

Peace

Kvornan S

Go on a diet

premiumgirl4u

I would be hurt. Tell him that my extra weight would come off by exercising and you would do it when you feel like it not when he tells you to.

Mrs. Heather Schabby

I'm sensitive, so I'd probably cry.

TmasterREY

he was just talking about the 20 pounds. They're fat, not you.

TigersHockey

haha. im 14 years old, my mom calls my dad fat all the time xD this isnt wrong, dont worry about it. it would hurt your feelings, but its fine, im sure he didnt mean anything.

Jewel*

He meant it??? I would tell him to not say another word to me for the rest of the day cause i'm fed up. My boyfriend calls me a fatty, but he's only kidding:)

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