Ladies, are grown women really this naive?

I was at an electronics store and a woman (MILF) walked up to me and started talking to me about all the different types of electronics as we waited for help. She talked to me for about an 1/2 hour and everyone in the area were looking at us because it seemed so blatant she was hitting on me. We actually wound up exchanging phone numbers under the guise of swapping business information.

I called her 3-4 days later and asked her if she wanted to meet me for a few drinks, she told me, I'd love to if I wasn't married. I was like WTF! What the hell are you doing walking up to strangers in a store and exchanging numbers with them if you're going to then pull out of your azz but I'm married! Is this chic that clueless or what was the deal?
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suzie, with all due respect, if it were meant to be a straight up business opp, and not anything else she would not have just walked up to me out of no where and started talking to me, it's not like I worked there, i had a muscle shirt on and a turned backwards baseball cap.

morbidlybeautiful

maybe she was just testing to see if she still has it.

Love my kittys

Maybe she wasn't hitting on you? Just making conversation. It sounds like you mistook her friendliness for something more than what it was.

Crazy notion, I know, but maybe all she really wanted was the business contact/electronics help?

Or maybe it was just for the attention. But either way, she got what she was after, so I don't see how that makes her the "clueless" one.

Brii

Her husband was probably listening to the conversation

rooney

You don't know the definition of naive, as a matter of fact YOU were the naive one.

David

It was a total ploy for the attention most women are starving for on a constant basis. She's probably got a shoebox full of guys #s that she takes out and looks at every once in a while to convince herself she's still hot.

Tina Marie

I have done that hundreds of times and no one ever called me.

Mrs.P

Could be that she was trying to see if she still had It?

shirleyjean89

sounds like she was just needing some attention...i know that that makes it sound like she was using you...but yeah...she just needed some attention and validation that she was still good enough to contact for a date...sorry it had to happen to you.

Logan

It could be she just needed electronics help! I am a systems engineer and did the very same thing in Best Buy. Someone was buying a PC and was given bad info, so I stepped in, corrected the info and when she asked for my card I gave it. She actually called me to hit on me, but that was not what I had in mind, so I simply told her that. Or maybe she wants you to know she is married and only available for romps in the sack. Why didn't you ask her her intentions?

Positive vibes

The 3+-4 day wait was the killer. You should have called the next day.

Carmen

I think that's so funny & typical of women with selfesteem issues. Not to say it was low or high, but clearly she has issues. By the way did you notice a wedding ring? Maybe she was just blowing you off? Or most likley just a wacky lady! You should put her # on as many bath room walls as possible and hope she gets a couple other calls! LOL that would be funny!

Kiss ME

She probably got all hot and worked up just for the fact that she was able to get your number. I am MILF, married and I would go out with you for drinks.

Jc J

dude, .... that was just her first reaction.... she wants a man to take charge... don't ask her to meet you.. tell her....

too bad buddy... try calling her one more time.. see if she softens up and get back to me.

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