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Ladies: have you ever not returned the favor? Guys: has that ever happened to you?

There is a girl I have dated for a couple weeks, and I recently spent the night with her for the first time. However it did not go the way I had hoped for: we first messed around for a while, then I went down on her. She asked me not to stop until she had an orgasm. Then once she climaxed she said she was done! I was really turned on, but she didnt want to do anything about it. So I started an argument and I ended up leaving. Now I don't know if I should call her again - Im pretty angry, but I also cant stop thinking about her. Anyone ever experience a situation like this? advice?


    




CindyLu
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Why did you start a fight? counterproductive wasn't it?


squirrely
Can you honestly say you've never done this to a woman?


DJ
So you're upset? That's funny because men have been quitting a little too early with women for centuries, and we haven't been pouting about it.


Scorpio
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You are the one out of line here. If you care for her, then you should place her needs above yours without any expection of returned "favors". Go take a cold shower and get over it. You are acting extremely immature.


BabeHeart
Not every time a couple is together will both be mutually satisfied. I think getting into a fight the first time y'all fooled around was rather juvenile.

Do what you want to do...but be aware she may indeed be a selfish lover all the time, and not just that night. It's not worth fighting about though...if you're not well matched with someone you bid them "adieu" and move on.


Champagne
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You started an argument ?

jeez - get over it. It sounds as though you have no intimacy in your relationship


Maggie
Maybe she wanted you to not be able to stop thinking about her. It worked, didn't it! I'll have to remember that one.


Sarah
i'm soz but your indecision that you have to come here and ask questions on a website in order to make your mind up is totally pathetic. basically you're not smitten with her and you can't make up your mind. as maggie said, you didn't get what you wanted so you made a scene. typical boy really typical. selfish selfish selfish. in case you didn't realise it love actually means only thinking of your partner. period.

sarah


Angel
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hahaha mug thats what happens if you dont play fair lolololol


kissame
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well i cant speak for her but maybe she didnt return the favor because you went down on her after dating her for a couple of weeks. man thats a act of commitment and you were moving rather fast. so maybe she liked the pleasure but she wants nothing more from you. if you did that for her in a few weeks time, how many other partners have let you down? but anyhow, normally you cant resist returning the favor, especially when its good!! so call her up and ask her what that move was all about, and only if she welcomes you over then go! but if not then let her go on about her business. i betcha next time you ll get yours first, huh?


X.Emily.X
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To be fair, i dont think ive ever been that tight to a bloke. I think shes a bit mental, but if shes worth it, then ring her...I think you may have over reacted by storming out etc though, so even if its not to get back with her, at least you can apoligise and not split on bad terms.


Anji
She is selfish! Run for the hills, man!


U Know
Maybe all she want was for someone to go down on her. Men have been saying that all they want is "head", so maybe she is the same way. That was wrong, but if it was good....She'll be callin' you back for some more. You just have to let her know that you need pleasure also, that is if you want to continue you to deal with her.


sisterof_thedarkmoon
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I have to say that 'Maggie' is right. You've been 'had' hook line and sinker and she IS on yer mind aint she? Call her! maybe she's waiting for you to move in on the game.
Personally i have my own little quote yeah? it goes like this "I don't care a hoot what you say about me, i just LOVE the fact that i'm on your mind!" Sounds like your lady is much the same and good for her. so if you want a little more of what she's shown you, Go get it! Good luck.


Sláinte from Mel 1 xx
Well shes definitely a woman who knows what she wants and that is good, men have been doing it for years and think is fine to be selfish but women know what they want now.. Maybe she was just tired after her orgasm. You acted abit childish I think as you should have talked to her instead of arguing. I think a man should pleasure a woman first to get her in the mood but maybe she just not that into you and just wanted her pleasure. It does seem abit strange that so unless you ring her to talk to her you will never know. Wish you luck and talk to her instead of arguing. Act mature.


Zaferus
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Did you go home and tell your wife about it?

This IS Marriage & Divorce after all...


AngeG
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Don't call her, you'll being doing her a big favour - Tommy Tanker!


newcastle
okay i could understand your frustration. Well, I would agree with your feeling of calling her and starting all over again if you want.


Lily
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eww she sounds selfish! don't bother or you will be more disappointed!


sunshinegirl802
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did u talk to her about it? maybe she had a reason. why dont u give her a 2nd chance. its only a problem if its an ongoing thing. i can see being frustrated but you sound pretty pissed. . maybe a little too pissed?


Chuck T
don't call her she is obviously only concerned with herself...


allgiggles1984
give and take not just take take take. oh dear...depends how much u love her and howmuch she means to you. talk to her. communicate.


Tracy S
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She sounds very very selfish. Don't go down that road or you'll regret it, it could only get worse.





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