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Ladies.. keep the gray or color it?

The men in my family have always had a full head of hair, but we go gray early in life. I’ve escaped it for much of my life, but now it’s starting to take over. What do you think? Should I invest in a box of Just For Men or leave it alone? I’m not dating anyone at the moment and think it might be a good time to do it if I ever was.

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winnie (and everyone else), I'm 44


    




Leftfoot
Apparently I'm not alone in this from what I've just read - I really do like grey hair on a guy. Oddly enough I had this discussion with my SO just last night! He'd been ladling on the old Grecian 2000 for some time but now I hope I've managed to persuade him to stop. There's something very attractive about grizzled, lived-in looking men.....
Okay, I think several of your previous answerers put it better than that - "distinguished" (yes, much nicer!)
Get out there and dazzle them with your charm, Heybabe - which is considerable from what I've seen here onY/A.
They'll be beating a path to your door!


n9wff
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being a guy, sorry for crashing the party...

I let mine grow gray. Makes my wife look younger. Could care less at my age. It's a losing battle.


I♥YourHeart
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keep the gray, it makes you more distinguished


Ted M P
go with the Just for Men.... depending on what age bracket you want to hit on, ( start with the mid 20's and work your way up ), you'll feel and look younger.... good luck

ps follow the general rule set forth for women, whatever yo decide, make sure the carpet matches the drapes...


dsmiling62
GREY be natural. Once you dye your hair it is hard to stop, looks goofy as it all grows out. You have to maintain it constantly.


Noelle
omg! Don't dye your hair unless gay! It's a really gay thing to do. Gray hair at 44 isn't bad. My cousin is 33 and has some gray hair.


To Be
Well, you are lucky, you are a man- if a man is grey , he is distinguished, a woman is an old hag. Either way you are safe, it just depends if you are ready to accept it or not


J.J.
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I prefer it when my husband uses the Just for Men it makes him look alot younger. It is so simple to use compared to ladies hair dyes..and my hubby hates it because it takes too long.. Oh gee' 5 minutes...Its up to you..but Yes as a woman, I say go for it


THAkUtiE
whatever makes you happy is ALWAYS best.


Meg
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whats wrong with gray if you start dying it you have to do it once a month so don't start something if you don't want to keep doing it


onederful2nite
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Leave it alone......

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O
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gray


The End
**** it ...do as you want....at 44 your bills are paid and you own your home!


Maggie Babe
No way, dont dye it. It looks distinguished on men.
Besides, when men dye their hair, you can almost always tell and it doesnt look right.
Men get better looking with age, and their grey hair has something to do with that...trust me.


punxsutawney phil
As a guy. I found shaving it off altogether to be a good easy maintenance result.


♥ ♥HONESTY RULES♥♥
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Color it but don't do anything too drastic. Hair color usually will actually look way darker on you then it does on the box. Maybe go to a beauty supply store and ask for help? Or you can email me next week and I will talk you through it. A friend of mine did his and it was so dark that it looked fake. You don't actually want to LOOK like you color your hair:)


wi_saint
I think that if you are young, then dye it, but if you are above 40, then relax about it, and learn to look good with it.
Gray can be very distinguised looking.
If you are self-conscious about then dye it, but if you are not, then relax about it.
I met a wonderful woman with a lot of gray, and it didn't bother her...

I have been gray since I was 22. (now almost 40)
I started going gray on my chest, and it is now ALL white.
I have fairly heavy gray on the side of my head, and in my beard, but I keep everything short so it looks better.


wishnuwelltoo
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Well the Bible says you can't dye your hair, not one strand of gray, but I think if it makes you feel better than do it. My sister dyes her hair, and it makes her feel better.


Teresa G
Dye it but use your natural colour, there are products like ladygrecian for men that you apply daily to your hair and make the grays disappear.


winnie
Well, you don't say your age, so...
Anyway, If you're quite young, you may want to consider dying it. If you're in your 30's or so... well, gray hair can look quite distinguished. However, if it bothers you or you aren't comfortable with the gray, then go ahead and dye it. It's a personal choice, whatever you prefer! Good luck!

Edit: 44? I say stick with the gray, again, it's a distinguished look. If you dye it, you'll seem like you're trying to be younger than you are, 44 is not a bad age to start going gray. Personally, I like gray hair, I think it's a good look (umm hello George Clooney, lol). Again, all of this is assuming you're comfortable with it. Best to you!


BeatleFan
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my dad went gray at 43( my doing) and he doesn't dye it.

i think it looks distinguished.

for now, dye it, but when you hit 50, stop, cause everyone talks crap about older men who dye.


Krystal Diamond
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Maybe u should color it... if u want to look younger, or ur age. Do what makes u happy!


I love youuu
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depends on how old you are...if you're 30 or younger..I say dye it..


if you're in your 40s maybe you could pull off a little gray...go with what you think looks best


Vicky
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Some men look good in gray however, it also could make you look a lot older then you really are. So if you want to attract women especially a younger women, dye your hair ASAP...Good Luck!!


Gina
It sounds like you want to try the color. It isn't like it will last forever if you hate it, so why not. You are a guy...if it is totally hideous, you can always cut your hair really short or shave it off. It will grow back.





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