Ladies question...?
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Ladies question...?
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Do you think asking your significant other to keep shaved "downstairs" is inappropriate?
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Sandra G
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Not really. My husband does me...but also be considerate and do the same. Now you also might want to consider the fact that completely shaved can cause razor burn...and keeping trimed would be great for the both of you...not to mention cleaner. |
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City Gurl
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i wouldnt flat out ask her...just tell her that u like a clean work space :) but u have to be willing to tidy up down there too.. |
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gloria b
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Totally bald is the way to go!! ; ) |
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shine_radiantstar
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It's not inappropriate to ask, but then allow her the choice. It is, after all, her body. If she wants to please you... she just might.. |
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Poppet
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You can ask. That's fine. Requiring it is inappropriate. |
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Jaycee
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No. Not at all.
As someone's significant other.
You would want to make the "other" happy right?
In all areas.
In everyday life, and in bed.
The other partner shouldn't be offended.
Cause they would wanna make you happy right? |
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alex t
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well when addressing a specific person like a girl or women in general i think that it might offend them and they will most likely get upset or that phrase could get you in to a lot of trouble with the people you cross in the future i would suggest that you be care full what you say around other people or do not say that phrase at all!!!!! |
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April First
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asking yes, suggesting nicely would be OK. Now if you have ever shaved down there, do you know what it feels like when it starts to grow back? Not fun!! |
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Taz
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No its not inappropriate to ask- but remember its how you ask or say things that make the difference in everything. |
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RevaGanapathy
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See the opinion and thought is different for different person and asking such a thing to significant other shaved downstairs depend on the person and it also rely's on the significant |
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6@5^&%
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Nope I have to constantly ask my husband all the time |
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Liz P
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Yes, but you have to know how she will respond. If you will insult her, than don't do it. Remember it will be inconvenient for her to keep it up and it will itch. It will also likely not grow back the same. |
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Addie
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I wouldn't flat out ask her "Hey, keep it shaved" because that's pretty abrasive. Just tell her you really like it shaved and show her how much you like it when she does. You must also be willing and open to her grooming requests for you, too. |
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Stacy L
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well just bring up the subject..start talking about it.. and if you two really have a rock solid relationship like a good long term one i think you could get away asking her. just say im sorry honey, but pleasee ha i dont think it is that out of line |
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Haley
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It depends on what you mean by inappropriate. If they are asking you your preference or if you are thinking it might be "dirty", no that is not a problem. If you are asking if it would anger her if you made that request, then yes, you should handle the request carefully. Try and find out her opinions on it and you can let her know your preferences. I certainly wouldn't make any demands or request it in such a way that it seems like you will be unhappy if she doesn't. |
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sexy chocolate 5
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No not at all |
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YUMMY1
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not at all |
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Kis
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nah!
I dont think so !
I think that is clean! |
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Dani Marie
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shouldn't be required to. But if you prefer it then you should ask. If she hates doing it and you hate doing the downstairs deed because of it that is your choice to make too. |
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laurabird
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yes, but suggesting it in a playful manner wouldn't hurt. |
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writeaway
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No, but asking is the key here. If a woman does not shave, that's her perogative. It's her body, it's her call. But if you ask nicely, and be specific about why you want her to shave, she may be so turned on, she'll do it for you. |
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Caro
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a question is never inappropriate. However imposing may hurt your relationship. If she has shaved there before for you, she is likely to do it again.
A good suggestion if you are concerned about hurting her feelings is to ask her indirectly, meaning "have you ever shaved down there before?" or "is it uncomfortable to shave down there?"
I may add shaving down there is a ROYAL pain in the neck, you may want to consider ask her to keep it trimmed down |
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Marci S
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well i think no |
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~*~Spinner Rocks!~*~
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no. but i dont think there is anythin is wrong with hair. i would be a little shocked if my significant other were to ask me that but i would be greatful they did rather than a stranger at the beach |
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isla
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if the you love the person why not? if it pleases him. |
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Hazy Daisy
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No, it's not inappropriate, but one thing is, that does take alot of work. So it would all depend on current lifestyles...I know having a kid, somedays I barely get a change to shave my legs let alone anything else. Atleast, it could be kept nice and tidy, if anything. |
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mrsclh
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No, I dont. You should offer to touch her up down there, that would be a very good move on your part. |
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Hmm?
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not if you will too |
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