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Ladies what should I do?
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Me & my wife of 10 yrs have been having problems concerning another man. For 3 months we where separated because she told me didn't love me anymore. I later found out she was talking to another man from work at the time. Then she calls me and says she missed me and wanted to talk,we got back together going on 3 months now. She told me she wasn't talking to him anymore but I found out she was again. She told me she wasn't going to lie to me anymore and admitted he calls her at work. He knows we are together again but that doesn't seem to matter. My wife has been unusually open and more honest about it which is not like her and says she doesn't like to see me hurt over this. We agreed to give our relationship more time and work before we call it quits. I knew when we got back together I'd have to deal with this. She says they just talk, never kissed held hands nothing.. I don't be leave it ofcourse, but anyways for some stupid reason when she stopped dening it I felt there was a breakthrew in our relationship...What should I do ?
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ablex
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See a counselor together. They are professionals trained in exactly this sort of thing. I think you'll get far better advice from a counselor than from a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Good luck. |
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CE
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maybe try counseling together. Maybe there's something she's needing in you that you don't realize and she's trying to fulfill it with someone else? (even though it's totally wrong).
Also, when ppl say that they aren't in love anymore... argh it drives me crazy. Are we 14 years old or what???????? |
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Bibi
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find someone that loves you and respects you |
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pixie
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Figure out if you can trust her or not, if you can't then you need to seek counseling or call it quits, if you can then you should be able to work through things. |
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rachel2009
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Wait. So she is NOT cheating, and is completely faithful physically, but disloyal to you in time and emotion.
It is loyalty to a marriage to talk to your husband, not vent and talk extensively to other men. That is just the way it is.
Marriage is a commitment of emotion as well as physical connection. She is only giving you half of a healthy marriage.
Explain this to her. |
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Shannon T
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she might be in love with him but is unwilling to get out of her comfort zone(you) and is settling on having you both since nobody is making her choose. |
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cwood
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She either needs to stop talking to him or let you go.
When you're separated, that's one thing. But now you're back together. She either needs to give your relationship 100% or get out. |
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Katie M
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She's not giving your marriage a chance. She told you she wouldn't talk to this other guy and now yo find out she's talked to him at work. She hasn't earned your trust so don't give it to her. I would leave because I wouldn't want to waste anymore time with a liar. How do you know when she's telling the truth? She's made it clear she has problems being 100% honest.
There are other women out there who won't cheat or lie. You won't find them if you're still with the person who you KNOW lies and cheats. Good luck. |
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