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The Educ8r Thanks and so-Long
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And you finding time to come on yahoo!answers and get immature, childish answers from us. get real.
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Just like the one above. |
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curmudgeon
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why don't i believe a word of this. |
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Sheila
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wow-kick her out |
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boredme3d
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get a divorce
dont even think twice |
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Motherof2girls
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get a divorce. |
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Tony A
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Cut ties with your pig brother and file divorce papers on your soon to be ex wife. Make sure you get the kids. Fight tooth and nail for them, trust me, it'll be worth it. |
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vtx.1800retro
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beat the crap out of your brother, hes blood, divorce the wife, shes trash. Keep the kids and the house, make her pay you child support and alimony, and forget the 2 losers exist after that. |
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Max
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Are you #@$@@## joking, dude what do you think you should do? Think about this for a little while..........Do you by any chance have an attractive secretary? |
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minniemoe
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take the kids leave her a** in the dirt the same way she did you. |
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wicked.aliens
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Leave her!
keep the kids
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nzblondie19
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You are allowed to be angry that is the worst form of betrayal. I would take some time out for myself and go on a holiday to think things through. |
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mrs. MJ
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awwww it's sounds like it's been going on for a while......u should try marriage counseling and find out what is going on with your wife and why she cheated on u...and also get a paternity test on your kids to see if they are your brothers kids....if u are not happy then u should get a divorce |
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shipis
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I would consider this, your calmness, to be a sign that you're really not in love with this person like you thought. This does not mean that your brother can get in on the action just because. Just my opinion though |
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Hillary 2008
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WOW!!!
Do you think this something you can forgive?If you do,then do you think it's something you feel will happen again?Do you think this is the first time they were together.These are all questions you have to ask yourself. |
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Hopeful
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Well first off being calm when it happened does not mean that the anger will not come later - beaware of that and take control of it when it happens, also you probably where aware that something was going on - even in small instances. Take some time out to think that even if this had not happened would you really be wanting to stay married, maybe things were changing between you to, people can change over 18yrs and sometimes one of them gets left behind. Your kids should be fine either way if both of you are loving with them and they can have contact with either of you. I think this has happened to wake you up and think about YOUR life and what you want. Good luck |
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AlexB
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divorce and never talk to your brother again |
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Mrs. Duncan
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D-I-V-O-R-C-E . I would find a new family as well. |
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army_wife0301
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well ask yourself what you did to make her find another man to please her. Not showing her she is the world to you will make her cheat....it happens Try to mend the fences and get on with your life. |
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pepper
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It doesn't get much worse than that, does it?
The two people you probably trust most in the whole wide world, an earth-shattering experience.
Since you are calm - you could try talking to them both, together, at the same time. I would also suggest you seek an uninvolved individual (non family member, perhaps a professional) to talk to - this is a serious issue (and not an uncommon "crime of passion" defense).
I'm so sorry for you. 18 years is a very long investment. Whether or not you wish to continue with it will depend on wrapping your heart and mind around it and the underlying issues that created it. |
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littlexmissxkickbutt
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First of all.....ew.....FILE FOR DIVORCE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!! |
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notyou311
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Get a divorce. This isn't the first time she's done it. |
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Stedway
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From reading your post, it's obvious you have no dignity whatsoever , therefore do nothing and let those around do as they please.
Your lack of self-respect, is revolting. |
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TG
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You need to find some time to talk with your wife calmly and in private about what happened. Was this just a fling that didn't mean much to her? Was it a one time thing or more than that? Does she feel like the marriage is over? Is she bored, or feeling neglected? Was she drunk? Once you have some answers, think hard about what you want to do. Do you think you might be able to get over this? Is she willing to go with you to counseling? Do you both want the marriage to continue? 18 years is a big investment, and you have the kids to think about. Take your time to figure it out, and get some help if you need it. Good luck to you. |
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jojo
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tell the truth! I don't believe it really happened |
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Salvador D
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How serious are you about your dilemma? It seems that you posted your question to see if you got answers. Well, you are getting some answers...but only to find out that you should make better use of your time. We are here to actually help those in need. |
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99mom
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Ouch!! Tough one. Well obviously you've been betrayed by your wife and your brother so there are 2 relationships hurt. You need to find out if your wife has been messing around with anyone else. Is your brother married too? If so, there is another relationship in trouble. You have a tough road ahead. Either forgive but never forget or end the marriage. Then you have your relationship with your brother... If you do stay with your wife, you might always have trouble trusting her. |
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mmurray001
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MY heart goes out to you and this be trail of your wife and brother caught you off guard and i am pleased that you didn't do any thing foolish that would get you in to trouble. You have been married to this woman for 18 years and still didn't know that she had feelings for your brother. You have three children together think about them before you make a step. Are you still in love with this woman and if you are can you move on and repair your relationship with her. i know that it will be hard but ask god he will give you the strength to go on and ask him what to do. This is very hard decision to make the choice is yours.
may god bless you |
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switbaby9
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thats just completely unforgiveable!!!
how long has it been going on!?!? isnt that the first thing u want to know!?
for me, thats the borderline. my brother?!?! of all freakin people!!! well since im a gurl, it would be my sister. split up. period. |
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