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Secret Squirrel
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Am I the only one who read 'puppy' to mean dog'??? Lol |
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precious52801
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i true friend wouldn't have done what he did to you if it were me i would dump him and make friends that actually respect you |
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missy isa
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listen, it is ok to not want to hurt him, but I would not be his friend anymore. he needs to learn a lesson, otherwise he may do it again. it is likely he does not value your friendship as much as you and you definitely cannot trust him anymore. you have to live your life.
so sorry this happened, it is unbelievable. |
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Sir Vix A Lot
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compare notes |
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not a friend anymore........pete.......let it go... with her...
sorry for your feelings in all of this..........but neither are worth the effort.............just let it go..........and move on........ |
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progfest01
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Bit over the top i think,after all your best friend could have being guarding your wife.My best friend sleeps with my wife every night and i actually approve it.What are best friends for but to look after and protect.My best friend can do what he wants with my wife it does not bother me,i am not the jealous type.My best friend and me know where we both stand and there is no trouble,as long as i take him out for walks and feed him he is as happy as larry.We both love him. |
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bronzebabekentucky
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he's NOT a friend... |
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mimismom
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friends will be there forever, i'm not saying just forgive him it will take time to heal what he did, however your wife was the married one and knew better |
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-J
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I hate to say it man, but he's not your best friend if he slept with your wife. He was willing to throw away 10 years of friendship for a lay.
Its best that you just get away from the situation and move on. Cut your ties with all that mess. |
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free_angel
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Your best friend brought himself to hurt you and along with that hurt came distrust and disloyalty. With a friend like that, who needs an enemy? They were both responsible for their actions and you can't blame just one. |
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gentle_cute_man
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Like bronzebabe said he wasnt ur friend to begin with and your wife couldnt have been more cruel than sleeping with him..She must be knowing that she is pushing in double blade into you..first wife and then the best friend..
LIke someone famous once said..no stranger can hurt me..its my own people who do.... |
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sweetdivine
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They both don't deserve your love. They betrayed you once and they will do it again. A friend of ten years was supposed to know that doing something like that to you would break your heart. Dump him just like you dumped your wife. He's not a real friend and if you keep him as your friend again who knows how he's going to betray you again. If he comes up with that nonsence that she tempted him, it takes two to tango. Sorry about what happened I can imagine the pain you are going through. |
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pk80203
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dump the friendship because it wasn't there to start with. been there done that, so called best friend for over 35 yrs and caught her in bed with my husband, tried to stay friends with her but after week knew it would never be a friendship that was in the 80 and haven't spoken to either of them since |
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Dawn
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It shouldn't be an issue. Your wife betrayed you and you're getting rid of her. What do you want him around to screw your next girlfriend? |
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Louise G
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with friends like that who needs enemies |
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thomas p
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man or dog,,, it is always the woman's fault. |
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tantiprincess
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Why is everyone focusing solely on the best friend i honestly thought in relationships especially in marriage that most people would called their partner their best friend. All I can say is at the end of the day it is up to you how you approach the situation whether you wipe them from your life or try to talk it through with them both and move on with them both remaining in your life. Either way it takes two to stray or otherwise it can not be called a affair and how ever you react to her you should react to him the same way as they both where in on it. You can not stay with your wife and wipe the friend or visa verse, it takes two. You must remember they are both guilty and equally at fault with this. I wish you all the best with your decision regarding this and how you feel is the best for you with dealing with this. |
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CHRISTY B
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ok, now dear look at what you just wrote!!" I can't hurt my best friend" come on man, he damn sure wasn't thinking about your heart when he was in your bed with YOUR wife now was he???! If you can divorce your wife over it and not forgive her but, you can still be his friend something is wrong here either you didn't really love your wife or something. That just isn't fair...............to any of you! I would just walk away from them both they both betrayed you as a man so, why do you need them? Did it hurt you to find them in bed together?or just shocked? takes to tango she wasn't alone! but,neither was he......Good Luck! |
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cattyf
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Somebody who does that is not a friend and can never be trusted. Imagine how you would feel if you met someone else, could you trust your mate with her? |
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vclassi2
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Are you talking about a real person or an actual dog? |
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musiclover
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Get rid of him he OBVIOUSLY is was not and never will be a friend in the real sense of the word! |
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LordLogic
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pizz in his water bowl , and pray the real thing never happens to you |
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technocase
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Go to bed with is wife or girlfriend
and see how the puppy feels. |
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Factor X
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He is not ur friend cause if he was he would never betray u no matter how hard ur wife or ex wife tried to seduce him…that is not a friend. |
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charlotte e
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Your ex best-friend unless you can talk about what happened without fighting. Give yourself breathing space and find mates that aren't dogs. |
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God4real
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Maybe your friend feels bad about what happened. Talk it over with him. Life is too short to carry bad relationships around. forgive him and forgive your wife as well, even if you go on and divorce. You will feel better about yourself. |
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linusiwunna
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He is definitely not a best friend as you described him. He is a betrayer. Leave him before he hurts you the more. |
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