Love's Bittersweet Sting...?
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Love's Bittersweet Sting...?
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To make a long story short, I was wondering if anyone could relate to this & I was wondering how long it generally takes to get over someone...
there was this guy I was involved w/ last fall & he graduated & is going to medical school this fall..but I've still seen him every now & then on campus, (except now that the year's ending it's become less & less, thank God)
To make a long story short, anytime I feel lonesome/lonely...he is the first thing that pops into my mind...I am graduating next May & I am pretty much 85% over him but the reason I think I still think about him occasionally (more than likely, he comes into my mind like a bittersweet afterthought--if you can imagine that...) We almost had something physical, he was my first real kiss & we almost got to that point of no return. I know he's not good for me because in the end, he stated that he just wanted to "hook up since he was leaving..." & I think he could sense that I wanted something more long-term, because he was always telling me how "nice and sweet and cute" I was...
Anyways, how long does it take to generally get over a brief, flash-in-the-pan relationship? I am generally a very emotional, sensitive person...I keep my emotions under wraps unless I'm with people I am extremely close to, (when I say this I mostly mean crying, just unleashing the emotions...)
Thankfully, I've been keeping myself busy with all things school related but I know he's not thinking about me & I can't wait for the day when I finally don't think about him, not ever...
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Bonnie
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Depends on the person. Some take longer than others. You're having those sweet thoughts about what could have been .. what was almost. They're sweet and you'll probably wonder and think about them for your whole life. We often think of our first loves in particular because that was a truly special time. |
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Bio hopeful
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you will think about him until you find someone else. Weird but true |
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Zinger
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Never...
And you'll take out your rage on every new guy in your life, going forward.
(its called baggage)
And people wonder why divorce rates are so high. |
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