Love isn't everything,isn't it?!!!!!!?

Ruby

real, true, pure, die hard love is everything!!!

ronidl76

No, love is NOT everything. Does love pay the bills? Does love put a roof over your head? He agreed with you to shut you up; it's what men do with nagging wives.

twhite

love is not everything, your husband is right.

Thrice

No, love is not always enough to keep a relationship successful. Trust me, I know.

Kalooka

He doesn't deny your emphasis that love is the most important thing in a relationship. as i understand from you, but i didn't understand what is the problem? you don't feel he is serious?
i can't understand what is the point of the debate you're raising with him? want to prove you are right? Yes, You are right!
May be you have to "listen" to what he has to say instead of forcing one face of the truth, let him express himself and explain to you how does he see it.
May be his point of view isn't wrong (in your opinion) after all.
And you both get along with this issue and move on on the next obstacle in the complex relationship of "marriage"!
I wish you and him and Maro all the happiness.

johanne

Why in the world do you have to have him agree with you. You might think that love is the most important thing, and he might not, doesn't mean anything. Trust sometimes can be just has important. So I think you are fishing for excuses...
Let it be.

Mister Bald

Love isn't a good enough reason to get married. I know that.

bic

love is not everything. there's compromise, compatibility, there's being able to support each other, there's loyalty, respect and financially being able to get along.

mediahoney

Love can motivate the best of us and the worst of us. Love can push us to fight for a basically good marriage, forgive our our children and sacrifice our health, safety and lives.

Love can also drive us to discount our good judgment, stay in abusive relationships, commit crimes, and protect those who are not worthy of our protection.

Love is not everything if there is no sound judgment involved.

fashiondivine01

I guess love isn't everything... but it does support other aspects of the relationship... such as trust, commitment... etc.

Shake-Zula

AH!
The 20 yr old me say- Love IS everything!

the 31 yr old me says- Love is not everything. it kind of becomes a matter of what one will put up with out of love.
there is respect
emotional stuff
mental stuff.. ect.

it is romantic to say that love is everything, but it doesnt stand in the practical real world.

and it always makes me sad to think of it that way, but that is what has been proven to me in my life

Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG

Love is important....but it's not everything. Trust, respect, and communication are also very important parts of having a sucessful relationship.

Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

ok,i think that love is the most important thing,but not everything...i find that example a lot,when a woman and her hubby get old,and love began to fade away,what can make them stay together?
i think it's fellowship(el 3eshra) that what will make them continue to respect each other and tolerate each other...and I'm with you against they saying that love doesn't pay the bills,
yes it does,what will make the man work to satisfy his family and pay the bills in the first place:love!

at last,believe me,that argument between man and woman will continue,as we have different opinions about love and intimacy..we are from Venus and they are from mars!

chizzy

Love isn't everything in a relationship, I'll say trust is.
U can trust ur husband to love u, but u can't love ur husband 2 trust u.
U get my point?.

BabeDoll

Love isn't everything, but it is especially important in a relationship. It doesn't mean that relationship will last forever though. You need compromise, trust, honestly, openness. Love is a main component, but it doesn't make people last.

crista1_3

Love is a wonderful thing and it makes the world a better place but sadly it is not everything

There are a lot of people who take advantage of love and they minipulate people because of it

As long as there is love there will always be things that threaten it

KAO

Compassion, understanding and sharing are important too

Answer Angel

The things that come with love are whats important. Such as: Trust, Loyalty, Companionship, Communictation, Honesty, Passion, etc....
If you do not have those things... you do not have love!
Good Luck

â™¥The Mrs.â™¥

I think respect is the most important thing. You can love someone all you want but if you cant show your love in a positive way then it means nothing.

Stefka

Why does he have to agree with you? Does it really matter? Do you think you are wrong if he doesn't think the same way you think? Is this "discussion" really worth the answer? How will the answer enhance or change your life?

To me, sometimes love isn't enough but that doesn't mean that those who disagree with me are wrong, they just think different because they are different.

no longer a user

Um, I don't really know if that is a yes or no question. I can say that in my opinion, and I am engaged to be married to the ultimate love of my life, that love is what is made after everything else that makes a relationship is acquired. Trust, honesty, loyalty, pride in who you are w/, similarities and differences and acceptance of each, committment to one another, desires, passions, shared dreams, writing new chapters together...yes, all of those things form a bond called love and it is the glue that holds you together. As couples, we experience good and bad and it's the love that gets us thru the bad times. Love is just a word to simply all the other things, it's the solid emotion based off of everything else I mentioned. Such an example being.."I love you" is easier than saying.."I admire, trust, desire you and will be loyal, honest and devoted to you..etc etc"....see what I am saying? Love is not just one feeling or doing...it is a combination of everything you build together as a couple. If you don't have those things, then you don't have love and therefore, should re-evaluate your current position, unless you're happy with the way things are then do whatever suits you. Good luck.

wgar88

Love isn't everything. You can love someone without trusting them and trust is a huge part of a relationship. That is just one example of many things that intertwine to form a strong bond and relationship.

love is the basis, if you dont have love you are in trouble, but, it wont pay the bills.

Konnie M

Is love everything? Probably not. I think people can live without it if it doesn't happen to them.
I don't think this is something you should argue with your husband about or even discuss to the point that he feels that he has to give in just to make you happy!
Let him have his point of view if it makes him happy, what harm is there in that? You know you love each other, and that should be what is the most important thing to you!

Lori

In a relationship...love is very important but without trust....it will never keep you together.

donmambo

Spaguetti without sauce is nothing!!!

Love without sauce is nothing too.

my favourite sauce=communication+comprehension+unders... help+other spices(exotic ones)

Ismaily Rules

I hate to disappoint you, but I agree with your hubby.
Moreover, to be honest, I don't think about stuff like that. I am a shallow minded person who abhors thinking and anything that requires excercising the brain. I am hopeful that I will get married to a girl as stupid as myself. Love, romanticism and emotions are words that do not exist in my dictionary.
Food, hanging out, antkha are words which occupy more than one entry in it.

acarisg

luv is a key factor but luv isnt the most important thing in a relationship...communication is also important...talking is how you figure out all your problems and disagreements...but trust is the most important...trust holds a relationship together...

mostassuradlyso

in marriage the serenity prayer works for most things and this is a good example. People think differently. Doesn't mean that one or the other is right it just means that they are different. Why would it be so important for your husband to think like you unless you are a control person. The prayer:

God, Grant me the Courage to change the things I can,
Bless me with the Humbleness to accept the things I cannot,
And show me the Wisdom to know the difference.
Amen.

â™¥sweetyâ™¥

i think that u r right love is everything love is life but u never can discuss this show to him this by actions men like to show that they r true and the smartest so tell him " yeah, honey love isn't every thing "

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