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MEN! If your wife asked if she could shower with you, would you say "i dont care" totally unenthused ?


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yeah, its been done before...and no im not a water hog. we normally cuddle under the water together. hes 22, lost his virginity to me, at 19...i just dont see him losing interest already. im not that bad looking am i/? lol


    




Very Lucky Dude
This is why I will never get married.....but no, I would have at least been more sweet or nice about it, but wow, if your husband really did that, then.....wow, he's pretty selfish


knappie_39
Ummm, no. My first response would probably be: "I'll get the water going!"


KERMIT M
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Absolutely not, after fainting with disbelief...I would quickly usher her into the shower for a rocking good time!


Zuya973
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yes i would


Chaos
i would shower withe her everyday
you should
lol

you never know, you might do something naughty with her in the showers ^_^


Baseball ROCKS!!
NEVER I WOULD say yes lol


capt_terry
when i was married we showered alot together and yes we both loved it


iltmaemc
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no


B68
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I would not.


Alan J
Nope...I would answer...race you in there.


oldwolf1951
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Heck that means I just won the lottery. If I ain't enthusiastic about it, you can bet it would never happen again. Are you nuts?


Swiss
No way, Id be Like HECK YA!
If your wife wants alil sumtin sumtin in the shower, all the better.
Mam, if your husband has done this to u, let me shower with u instead. PLZ?!?!?!


Brac
I like to shower alone sometimes...most times...I don't like sharing the water


Willz Gray
yea probably


Metal Princess
He does it all the time. But then gets bummed out when I don't join him.


Lola
I think husbands are a little past the whole "oooh she's going to be naked" thing.

My boyfriend still gets excited but Im sure if we get married, he's kind of expecting it as we stay together longer.


nachtmann2
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I would say "that's a WONDERFUL idea", and then I would remind her that I am twice as lucky as she is because I can kiss her a $$ and she can't!


caffine jag
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Perhaps,

Ya know the idea of showering together can be great, the reality might not match. I have visions of the water never reaching me! lol,

It would have to a much bigger shower than what I have now, drop the soap and you hit your head in the wall picking it up. Maybe with dual shower heads, then yeah that would be great.

Maybe you ought to see if there are other sensual things that the two of you can share. If it is a I don't care on all of them then I would worry.


dazed & confused
I don't bother anymore...he's a water hog anyway...lol


DAN P
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I would not have to say anything, looking at her there would be a member saying hello and she would crawl in and scrubby dubby!


EarthCalling
We only have a small cubicle. I have to shower her in the garden with a hosepipe.


Thomas
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sound like to me that he really don't like to cuddle in the water. well if he feel that down about you joining him in the shower. the best thing for you to forget the whole ideal.

you should ask him why he reply so uncaring about you joining him in the shower.


xSTxSaints
no i would be so happy (im still waiting for that day)


Teddy
Nah, I would have a better diction. I'd probably say "If you want" rather than "I don't care"


totamethewildbeast
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Depends. Are you always cramming his space in there? Sometimes my wife asks me to shower with her and its more of a hassle than enjoyment. Sometimes we guys just like to take a shower and relax from a long day. Sure I understand that you may be wanting to be intimate or bond even further with your husband, but sometimes we men just want to get in and out of the shower. I know I dont like it all the time when my wife wants to do it because that means I usually end up in the back all cold why she soaks up all the good warm water! I think that if you are wanting to do it for the closeness then let him know.


rsalinas66
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i would jumped at the chance


middlefish
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Now, not knowing you, please don't take offense. How's the marriage otherwise? have you doubled your weight? driven him in bankruptcy? had an affair? Does he work shiftwork? Is he ill? Is your neighbor younger with big perky....um eyes? Could he have been acting unenthused to see if you'd get nasty all over him?


MOMof4
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.. just thinking maybe he didnt say it that way because he didnt WANT to shower with you but maybe because "shower time" is his quiet alone time.. so maybe he has a few things on his mind and taking a shower usually relaxes people.. so he didnt want to hurt your feelings by saying "no" and maybe thats why he said "i dont care"? and since he didnt say "of course i would love for you too" you just took it the wrong way? =)


Cindycandygirl
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It all depends. If he was a little gassy, and want privacy. I would have said not now it is just a quick shower. Maybe he did not want to get down and dirty while getting clean. yes, men too, do say, no. In your case, yes, boys do say no, too. But, I would not be to crazy about it. I would say he will still be greeting you with Mr. Happy soon.

There, now you got the attention you wanted from the males and you can show him this to make him see that he is lucky to be with you, right? Right. And to never refuse you to take a shower with him, again.


mystique, supervillainess
my men ask me to join him all the time


imissfruity10
take advantage there is a lot of men out there hoping there wives would ask this question
Think yourself lucky if she didn't love you she wouldn't be asking





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