MEN! What are some good ways to show the girl that you love (can be girlfriend or wife) that you love her?

Lee's Wife

Here is a POST by another MAN that I think answers YOUR question as well

Is your spouse beautiful to you at all times?
This past Saturday my wife was cleaning the toilet in our bathroom. I stopped and just watched her for a second till she looked up. I then said, "honey, I love you....not just for your outward beauty but for all you are and do". She literally lit up. Later, after I cleaned out the garage, I took her out on a dinner date.

Sometimes I read on here how young couples struggle to get past the early years of fairy tale romance. After 16 yrs, marriage isn't always what movies and TV portray. Love sometimes is stopping to compliment your spouse even when they're cleaning a toilet. Men, take time to notice her, compliment her, smile at her. She'll warm right up to you rather quickly and after the dinner date, trust me, there is plenty of fun to have.......psst, I know!
2 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

Sky

Cook for her :)

Almost there! Wait...

well, (I am a 22 year guy, married) i got to say that you have to surprise her once a while. sometimes i just buy little stuff. if i am working, i stop at the store and buy her some stawberries with cream (fresas con crema), chocolate. That means a lot to her, she feels (I know because she tells me sometimes) I still caring about her. That I do remember what she likes or not. That is nice of me to think about her at work.

Listen to here, if she tells you that she feels like relaxing one day, try to surprise her by not going to work. Or say that you gotta work, but the next morning, just sleep until late in the morning. she would feel nice that you take the day off just for her.

unsung hero

I love it when hubby surprises me with a hot coffee in the morning, it's very thoughtful.

Surprise her with her favorite flowers.

Clean the house up while she's out (chicks dig that!)

Run some of her errands?

leave lil love notes hidden in places she will eventually find like in a coat pocket, favorite paper, car visor etc.

erics wifey

TELL HER....

Kevin L

I ran my wife a bubble bath and lit all the candles she had in the house and placed them in the bathroom. I had this all done before she got home from work. I let her soak for awhile. I got supper started while she was doing that. I washed her back for her. Let her relax some more. I fixed her plate, did dishes, and then come bed time I rubbed her down with her favorite lotion. (She is pregnant by the way.) I have never seen her light up so much before. She said it was the best thing I could have done for her.

Doug B

Tell her, support her, remember the important days, and be willing to compromise.

A nice night out every now and then doesn't hurt.

AndiGravity

To be honest, I've never understood men who say women are mysteries to them. They've always been easy for me to understand.

All women, at least the healthy ones I've ever met, tend to want the same thing from a romantic relationship. They want you to make them feel special, and believe it or not, they keep up a running commentary about what will make them feel that way.

Start by listening to the woman you love and paying attention. That's usually high up on the list of things that makes them feel special. When you do, it probably won't be very long before she says something like "oh, I just love flowers" or "I wish someone would just whisk me away for the weekend like that".

It doesn't have to be one of those two things, but if you listen, she will continually mention little things that would make her feel good. Make a mental note of them, and then do them for her sometimes... and don't wait for a "special occasion" to roll around.

Going out for Valentine's Day is good and all, but it says a lot more about how much more you think about the person you're with if you come up and do it out of the blue just because you care.

"Just because" goes a very long way.

So yeah, keep track of the little things and do them. She'll let you know what they should be.

I know guys can do it. Any man who can recite a complete twenty year statistical analysis of their favorite sports team has the capacity to remember whether or not the person they're spending their life with prefers roses or lilies.

Oh, and that includes listening if she keeps saying over and over "I really wish someone would help me do the dishes" and "I'm too tired to make dinner".

As for a small gesture out of the blue, how about this?

Get a small teddy bear, and a card that's blank inside. Write "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you". Then put the card in the bear's arms, and put it somewhere she's likely to find it (on her pillow, on the dining room table, wherever), and don't say a word about it.

irkd

Call her during the day. No reason, just call.

And do all the stuff the chicks said (above). They know better than we do.

(And fer Chrissakes, don't just buy her roses. So trite. Buy her a variety of flowers of complimentary colors and then arrange them yourself. It's not the act, it's the EFFORT.)

Alex Azender

This would really be a question better aimed at women. We KNOW.

lostrelic

just love her and show her attention make her your queen

R M

make her needs a priority. don't degrade or belittle her contributions to the relationship. Acknowledge her contributions - cooking, cleaning, etc

Good luck

celticagent

Show up, on time and sober.

Follows Jesus

being honest and open to her

being polite and a gentlemen toward her

no looking at other women or comparing her to other women

Sparks

Do something out of the norm. Surprise her.

Nathan G

Show her that you care about her and that she is important to you

Have a nice day!

Love her unconditionally and hug her when she least expects it. Cuddle at night and kiss her in the morning when you are leaving for work. I rather have all that than materialistic things.

D I A N A :D

I've learned this the hard way: Actions speak louder than words!
So instead of just "telling her" you love her, show it.
It's not good to just like material things, but a gift wouldn't hurt once in a while wouldn't it?
Treat her well, listen to her problems, and respect her!
Be trustworthy and caring.

Al Gorythm

Buy her a big, fat diamond.

johndeand

lol i think girls are more suited to answer this question... aren't THEY the ones who know what says "i love you" to them?

cook for your girlfriend, take her out shopping... read POETRY to her, take her picture (if you're good at photography)....

easy: make her a happy monday card, or a happy tuesday card, etc... easiest of all though (and works about every time since some guys don't even think to do this!) just buy her a dozen roses!!! they're super cheap at the grocery store (like $8 tops) and put it in a plain vase... she'll be super impressed.

if you're looking for something a bit more involved, casually ask her what her favorite flower is and get her a bouquet of that flower. kind of cheesy, i know, but a girl will still MEGA appreciate that!!

video production

Take out the trash, do the cleaning, cook and do all of this without her having to ask you.

Jonny B

tell her you love her, but the best way is in the small ways. You know she likes a specific candy, then bring it home some random day and for no reason other than you know she likes it.
clean the house while she is at work and make a great dinner for her.
Take her to the movies just to take her to the movies.
My fiance works 6 blocks from where we live, so whenever i can, i pick her up from work so she has someone to walk home with. It's the tiny things.

Rex73

Learn to give full body massages - 2x per week.

You can watch whatever movie/sports you like during it as well.

It will give her a feeling of peace and comfort that will send a better message than words/trinkets.

Slow....hands....

Free Stuff in 2012

Little frequent things, but not too repetitive.

Tell her you love her everyday, but show her you love her with sudden, thoughtful, little gifts.

In my experience, though women may ask for and appreciate fancy, expensive gifts, do NOT expect them to keep her happy for long.
Modern women get a almost as much of a thrill from a lovely tumbled piece of rose quarts on a cord as they do from a diamond necklace. All too often I have heard a woman say "yes, it is lovely, my ex-boyfriend gave it to me. Well, of course I kept it when I left him, it was a gift."

frz5flm3

Show that you'll be there for her. (ex: if someone flicks her ear, you flick their nose)

rufes

be spontaniouse, kiss her, tell her she is beautiful and that you love her but do it in public.

thanks for anwering my question

anti atheism

Money.

oldernwiser

Tell her. Do little things that show her. Write her an old fashioned love letter. Buy her flowers. tell her she's beautiful. Touch her with hugs and little kisses for no reason in places not known for their romance. How about a one-armed hug as she stands and washes up dishes after supper?

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