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MOST pathetic-the wife or "the other women"?

Who is the most pathetic (CANNOT SAY BOTH..OK) in the situation of a man cheating getting the other women pregnant and then going back to the wife.

The wife takes him back (to work out the problems, they have two sons already)

The other women gets bitter and resents the man and keeps her kid from him and harasses the wife.

I know they BOTH ARE pathetic but who is the MOST crazy in this situation??


    




jude
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the other woman is most pathetic for allowing herself to get involved with a married man, the wife is just trying to keep her family together at any cost.


EazyBreezy
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It all sounds very sad- for the kids.

The HUSBAND is the most pathetic for breaking his marriage vows then betraying everyone involved.

What difference does it make who is the most pathetic? Like I said, it's just SAD for the kids involved.


Mrs D is expecting #2
The wife for taking him back


Violet Pearl
The other women is most pathetic.
She was stupid enough to get with a married man and dumb enough in 2008 to get pregnant.


♥
the man.


Just curious
The wife for taking him back


♥NvRgVuP♥
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Yikes!! The other woman lost a long time ago...unless she did not know that the man was married. Just adding that. I can understand the wife's side...she is the one who said I do, she is the one who had children before and that is HER man. The other woman will do anything to disrupt the family life. She is a loser...The pathetic one in my opinion....the HUSBAND!!!


Ms Pollyanna
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The other women for trying to take another womens husband and then having his baster child.


6ofUs
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The most pathetic? The man who created such a situation.


kittykatsback
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Wife.

BY FAR.


Canadian Yummy Mummy
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the wife --she's giving him permission to treat her like scum for letting him back in her life. She's not being strong enuf to stand on her own two feet and showing her kids how to be treated as a doormat.


girlythugz
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i would say the other woman because in the end he went back to his wife even though he got her pregnant


happywoman74
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The husband is the most pathetic. The wife is crazy. The other woman needs a life of her own!

Poor wife, she's setting herself up for more heartache.


Lithean
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The man or should I say the little boy shes married to.
I respect the wife for holding the family together for the sake of her kids. However the wife needs to call the police and get a restraining order on the girlfriend, like yesterday. So yah in my opinion the "little boy" is the most pathetic. I dont respect anyone that goes back on his/her vows and cant keep his "business" in his pants


hotpinkKITTY
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The other woman...like he'd really leave his wife...pathetic


harold gardner1946
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dear i would say the other woman is pathetic


Butch R
easy the man and the other woman she knew he was married


Tony
The Man! But if the wife is willing, and he's able, they should work it out for the kids. As for the other woman, he has rights as the father. You two will need to sit down and have a very soul searching talk about what to do about her, if he wants to keep in contact with the child, but he still has the finacial responsibility.


YaWhoDee
The other woman is not pathetic, she allowed the Phillips driver from the beginning. Crazy does not come to mind either. I know the word...STUPID. Her's is a non-event event, in other words, the affair was something that should never have happened.


*Jezie*
i would say BOTH of corse but i think the wife! she should never settle for a husband that is anything but perfect to her....there are a million other men out there that would love to accept you and your children...get rid of him..he is TRASH!!


Invisigoth
make up your mind: which is most pathetic or which is most crazy?

In your example: the other woman is the crazy one. She's continuing to pursue a man who obviously doesn't want her and she's now showing him exactly why he should have never gone any where near her in the first place.

but as to who is the most pathetic? That's a tough one.

I'd say the one who is continuing to delude herself that she would ever have a fulfilling relationship with him and who has found that her life has stagnated because she's so hung up on that fantasy she can't imagine how much better her life could be without him. That's the most pathetic one.


nonameblonde
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The man. He is the one who instigated the awful situation knowing he was going to hurt his children and his wife.


Now What?!!
The wife is for allowing him back. He will not change, why should he? I wish you the best. Do what is best for you and your children.


ҺסÏε 2Ó¨Ó¨8
The man is the most pathethic!


Mel
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The wife is pathetic, the mistress is crazy.

The man is an ***


chinamigarden
The man for starting this messy situation.


Horse Up
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The dum A__ wife for taking him back. How stupid!!!!!


bethanie586
no one is pathetic but weak and that would be the wife! the wife needs to move on n let him deal with his new baby mama drama ALONE!!! as he should have been since he stuck his D**k somewhere else.





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