MY wife wants a divorce? I have told her alot of lies. Like i went to college and had money.?
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MY wife wants a divorce? I have told her alot of lies. Like i went to college and had money.?
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But we been together for almost 4 years and married for almost 2. She says that I rely on her alot, which i kinda do because she makes more money then i do plus we moved from Michigan to Flordia. What should i do
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Morbid One
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Like you'd accept advice?? |
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A H
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Frankly, she's got grounds for an annulment. But, I'm sure there is more to why she needs a divorce than that. Sit her down and really listen to her concerns... Is it money? Work together and make a plan of action to combat these concerns. Is it that you lied? Ask her for forgiveness and figure out a plan to build trust again and STICK TO IT! Is it the prestige? Consider getting your degree online (it's easier than ever these days!)
Ask her what she needs, ask her to forgive you, consider marriage therapy ( probably free through a local house of worship). And don't do it again. |
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Lela A
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Honesty is always a good policy |
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www.datopia.com
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she dosent deserve to be with a person like you, let her go and let her live life that she deserves, you can never give her what she deserves ( i am not saying this because you don't have money or degree, i am saying this because you fcukign lied, lied to get a girl to marry you?) marriage is based or trust |
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Ms. Purpose
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You've got to ask yourself why you have done this? You have got to be true to who you are and make an effort to get to where you want to be in life without deceiving others. That's the only way you'll have a good relationship with anyone. I would suggest apologizing and making a time table with her of when you will get some things on track. Show her your plan, then work on it whole heartedly. That's the only way she'll know you really love her at this point. |
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Gary B
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Stop lying, and hope that she believes you.
YOU have damaged this relationship, and the ONLY hope of repair is that YOU stop your wicked ways immediately, and hope that she is willing to give you another chance to PROVE that you have changed.
Frankly, I doubt that this is going to happen. You have lied too much; WHY should she believe you now?
You best bet is. after you have changed your ways, is to get on your knees and PRAY the God will change her mind just long enough for you to PROVE that YOU have changed. |
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capricious
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Why in the world would you lie like that?!?! I think the entire relationship was built on lies & you owe it to her to be honest. |
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Tom S
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Get a job on a cruise ship as a bartender. |
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Tracy H
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First off, the divorce is a given, this woman's done. Once a woman says she wants the d, her mind is usually made up. I tell you what you do, quit riding off the coat tails of others, turn those lies upside down, go to college and start making some money. Life with this woman is a thing of the past my friend. |
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