Man i love breaks up with me, but i think he still cares, am i right?
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Man i love breaks up with me, but i think he still cares, am i right?
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Last weekend, the guy I was seeing said he didn't want to be with me. I truly love this guy and although we weren't together for a long time, I genuinely had strong feelings for him. After he told me he didn't want to be with me, I asked him several times to reconsider. I didn't beg but I genuinely asked him to stay. He said he didn't want to.
I have this blog that I write in almost daily and I know he checks it because I have a tracker on it. After the breakup last saturday, he has checked my blog everyday, sometimes twice a day, as soon as he gets to work. I didn't write anything about him, but he still checks it.
I know he doesn't want to be with me since he said it, but why is he checking my blog? b/c it's a habit since he always checked it?
i know i have to move on, but the breakup is still fresh and as all of you know it will hurt for a bit...and i just needed some help...
i think he's happy, probably meeting other girls or maybe he has one so he broke up with me, but i can't help but miss him right now...why check my blog then?
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Richard
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He is most likely checking the blog to see if you are writing about him. He probably still cares about you and just wants to make sure your doing ok without him. |
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Nicole
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Wow you sound a little like a stalker. He probably left you because you are a little obsessive? He probably checks your blog to make sure you aren't writing crazy stalker things about him. You need to read the question you wrote. What if someone else wrote that question to you? Don't you think they would sound a bit like a stalker. He doesn't want to be with you... build a bridge and get over it!! |
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Big J
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What are you, a robot? |
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Winter is over... yay!
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You sure are obsessed with this, you've been asking this all freaking week.
He doesn't care about you. He checks your blog, maybe to make sure you don't post crap about him on it!
MOVE ON..
And please, stop asking this!! |
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yuzva_steve
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if the feelings of love aren't mutual, get over it. stop wasting time even thinking about it. move on. |
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musiclover123
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Yeah i think hes moved on but i bet he still thinks about you sometimes..
he could be checking your blog to see if you wrote anything about him in it?
the best thing to do is to move on and forget about it and i do know that its easier said than done but the best way to forget a guy i think is to distract yourself with like a ton of different things that you like to do.. |
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angie
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maybe you think hes over you but you could be wrong. maybe he just broke up with you for reasons that you dont know and maybe he isnt happy meeting other girls. or, maybe he just wants to see if you are writting anything about him on your blog and he wants to see what it is that you are writting about him. whatever the reason is, im very sorry he did that to you and im sure you did nothing to deserve it. maybe you should give him some time and he will change his mind and want to be with you again. you never know.
best of wishes to you. |
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bored brunette
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Probably to see if you're still crying over him.
Some (not all !!!) people get a perverse thrill or sense of satisfaction in knowing they still have control over another person's emotions even if the relationship is done. I would not post a single word about him if I were you, and would start posting cheerful as possible with all indications that you are happily moving forward in your life without him. |
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jed
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He is checking your blog to see if you are publicly dissing him. He is checking your blog to see if you are pining for him because that will increase the ego of this worm.
And he may be checking your blog because he knows you have a web tracker that may be falsely giving you hope...thus, he is living in your head rent-free.
DO NOT talk to him. DO NOT post anything about him. Go out and party and take lots of photos. Post those. Celebrate your freedom even though you thought this guy completed you.
He broke up with *you* -- I guarantee there are a lot of guys out there that would love to be with you. And if this d-bag ever comes back to you and says "I was wrong, take me back..." DON'T. |
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