Married Women Please....?

Liz

I do. But I am part of a swinging couple so I am usually hoping my friendships could lead to something more.

Premo Mom

I wouldn't because, I wouldn't want my husband talking to some woman online discussing a womans point of view. Fair is fair.

san_ann68

i dont think my husband would appreciate me talking with a man i didnt know,and i dont need to talk to someone else my husband and i have a very communicative relationship,if there is something i want to know i ask him and he gives me a mans view

lookingfor_mrrightnow

I have in the past. I do not right now. BUT that doesn't mean that I wouldn't like to. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to who is not your husband. Especially when your husband does not always want to talk or understand you. I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you do not let it cross over the line.

Redhead

Married women who go on line to talk to men are not happy in their marriage. If she needs a man's opinion on something she has a husband to talk to. If she can't talk to her husband she probably has a father or brother she can ask. If all else fails she could go to her pastor. Too many women fall into a trap when they get to looking forward to an email from someone other than their husband or start using chat rooms as their confidants. I had a friend who went on chat rooms all the time and got to living through them. She was not representing herself in a true light ( she was heavy and said she was athletic and petite) and she thought she fell in love with the man she was in contact with and it ruined her marriage. So to really answer your question, only an unhappy married woman would be using the internet to satisfy her need to talk to a male friend.

sassybree1979

Sometimes. Chatting/emailing is very anonymous - and therefore pretty safe. We can say things here that we may not ever say in person. And it's just nice to get another point of view on things.

just_me_1955

sure as long is he isnt some cyber creep out looking for a cheap thrill why not,

Eileen

No, I would not. If I want a manÂ´s view I would ask a male friend or colleague.

rkilburn410

While I was married I would never have done this, but I do enjoy talking to men on line now and only to hear their point of view

silly billy

NOPE!!! whats the point...I know plenty of other men in real life that i could talk to...

Sweetteach

No, I think that online "friends" are off limits. Because more often than not...it leads elsewhere if you know what I mean.

Wife~and~Mom

I see nothing wrong with it as long as it remains respectful.

trojan

Why not. As long as it's just chatting and nothing more it's ok. If you spend most of your time constantly chatting with them though you may be neglecting others,like your spouse. Remember that very few men are just friends, many are looking for more.

Sicilian Princess

No.. I go directly to my husband if I want a male perspective.

LITTLE 1 :o)

God no! I only talk to one man. My husband. That is it!

fireball226

Ive already done that but now that Im married I hear from them only two or three times a year...i dont pursue new ones No

A Proud Marine's Daughter

its not ok- your wife shouldnt have to chat with any other man about anything besides you!!!

foxfire

I guess so my man does it

cfalways

I have male friends that my SO knows about. He doesn't mind so much. but my male friends also know about my SO. there is a mutual respect between all of us and an invisible barrier that we don't cross.

K-D

I'm not so sure about the "getting a man's view" part, but yes, I think even married people like to have friends they can go to when things aren't the best with their spouse. Maybe it's just so someone can hear your side and reassure you that you're not being ridiculous. Maybe it's because we all like to be heard and spouses aren't always the best at really hearing. I think the online factor makes a married person feel safe with the fact that they're not going to their spouse for everything. The screen offers anonymity and detachment. I mean, we come here to ask questions and get answers which is almost the same thing only it's not specified to one other person. . .

Mrs. Jackson

Yes, I believe so.

midgitmommy

I would rather have an on-line male friend. For some reason I can type what ever I want and they don't judge you. Sometimes just seeing what they have to say about a situation can really bring the situation to life .

redbeansandrice

I personally do not do it. I would feel uneasy if my husband did things like that, So thats why I don't.

Dana

No way. The only male friends I talk to online are people I've known for years and that I know they wouldn't try anything. I know I'd be pissed if my husband was chatting up ladies he didn't know online. I couldn't talk to other people online, it would just feel wrong, ya know?

ohio_gurl042

I do, I got a guy pen pal off of here.... We decuss our spouses our jobs, kids, cars, everything its kinda nice...

Tek

If your married you should not need an online friend and if you do to talk about things you can't say to your husband then why are you married. Being married is about being able to communicate with one another and i have never had that problem with my wife and really it is no one else business on what is going on in our lives. Man or Woman if your married you should have no probblem talking about anything to you better half.

blonde_*****_norris

I don't do it-to me it is a form of cheating=woman are all about emotions instead of looks--so they can get attached to someone that they are talking to on the net. Very bad idea.

seek_fulfill

Some of them do. But I personally don't approve unless the husband knows about it. Trust must be earned.

tfjfiggers

A married woman should not be on the enternet talking to any man to hear their view about anything. She should consult with her own husband as God design. If there's trouble in the marriage they both should seek God on their problems and seek His guidance. God bless you.

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