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Married at 14??

my sister in law and my bro n law got married at 14 and 15 they been together for 13 years she wants to know yalls opinion


    




freesumpin
They're really lucky if they're still happy. Most marriages that young end in divorce and kids who are hurt.
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lahockeyg
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If they are still married after 13 years...they are AWESOME...!!!


lawmen
Still togeter after 13 years? Well good for them.


High 'N' Dry
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My grandma got married at 14 and had a son at 15 and a daughter and 18. All I have to say is more power to you.


¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥
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Nothing wrong with that if thats what they wanted then why not.
Life works in mysterious ways, cant complain.


ellie
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I don't believe you.


Denise
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Theres nothing wrong with it I got married at 14 and had my first baby at 17 but you sure don't have a teen life ant more I wish I would have waited honesty!


Locket
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My neighbor Faye was married when she was only 15 and her husband was only 16 years old.
They were married for 50 years, and were still in love when he died this past summer. They were an inspiration.
But getting married too young robs you of your young and carefree growing up years. I oughta know. I did that.


2sweet
Thats rare, 13 years is a long time. I would have never married at that age, but at this point if they have made it God bless them. It's hard enough at 30 to stay married!! Good Luck to them


Liz A
If they have been together for 13 years now, that's answers the question by itself. If it worked for them, then nobody has the right to knock it.


sweetpeaches1934
stupid


eharrah1
Their parents should be shot for allowing it.


_illyanna
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Tell your brother and sister that all though the idiots here are showing their stupidity, I happen to think having been together that long with no true difficulties is great. Please tell them I am proud of them, as my marriage fell apart after 5 years, and I purposefully married later to aqvoid the exact same problem. It is wonderful that they found each other so early and have stayed together this long.

I can't say I understand getting married as young as you say they were, but if their was cause and reason it must have been good for them as you describe them as happy and well ajusted to adult life.

Congrats to them, I'm a little jealous.


steppage
it really just depends on their happiness. if she's satisfied with her decision, then that's AWESOME that they could find that kind of love so young in life. if she's miserable, then maybe not such a good idea. it all depends on how the relationship has held together. people can get married at 45 and still not have as good a relationship as some who married at 14 or even 18. age doesn't have a whole lot to do with it, as long as you are TRUELY in love.


why me
If they are happy then good for them. Its rare that situations like this work out for long term. Most "high school" relationships fail. They are one lucky couple. I wish them the best in life.


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WTF thats my opinion


Katy
SWEET! 13 years wow. They must have really been meant for eachother


Lola Cherry Cola!
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WOAH! that's so different! haha.
they must love each other soooooooo much to be so sure.........
if they are happy I think it's alright.


MEDIC6809
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Well in the US it's not legal so you are more then likely from another country so your sil prob didn't get a say in her marriage. I say for religion and culture who am I to judge, but for me personally it's not for me, and no child should be forced into a marriage at 13 or 14.


Poppet
Didn't happen. Even in the states that allow for marriage of people so young you also need the approval of a judge and both sets of parents. Even if they were pregnant most judges won't approve a marriage where both people are extremely young.


gordon m
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i hope he at least had a job before he got married


deirdre_odwyer
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married at 14&15 what state allows this I am from NYC and here their parents would be arrested for that but if it is a culteral thing i am sorry i judged i think it is WAY WAY to young


cj
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at 14 it is not a good idea. At that age most teens are still figuring out who they are and what they want in life. It is not very common.

t is wonderful that they have been married that long though. Relationships are different for everyone. I am happy to here a good relationship story for once.


Elite.
Rare


Colleen O
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Well if they got married in the U.S. their parents had to have given their consent.


Lulu
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Hey they are still together ....good for them they must be happy


kp
Considering the fact that they were still in school, couldn’t drive and couldn’t even work more than a few hours a day (those pesky child labor laws), I think was incredibly unintelligent to get married that young. I have to wonder how they got a judge to approve it (marriage at 14/15 requires court approval in additional to parental consent). Was there a baby involved? Even then most judges still wouldn't approve it.


armedkid456
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long time ago everbody got married young


Sara
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wtf


Chrissy
Not for me but why would you want too? 21 here and Im not looking to get married anytime soon


Shmuel Tzvy
At the start of the 20th Century, life expectancy in the US was 39.8 years. People weren't waiting until their thirties to become parents. My mother's father married his tweklve year two week old sweetheart on his thirteenth birthday in 1892 in Poland. Thery came to the US in 1896. They were happily married for 64 years, until my grandmother's death.





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