Married gals: upon ur experience...?

Don't get married unless you LOVE someone and they LOVE you back. If you haven't met that person, you need to keep looking. Marriage isn't a race to the finish line, it happens when it happens, and when it is right.

estefany v

marry the one you love and hopefully you are lucky that he loves you back. dont marry someone only cus you have many things in common with someone. you have to love them and they have to love you. It is very frustrating to be in a relationship where they love you, but you only care for them. no matter how compatible you are

WENDY G

I was told once that you need to find a man who loves you more then you love him. That way he is always going to be there for you and do for you as you need. And you wont have to worry about other women etc....

mrsjatice

marry the one with differences///keeps things spices and interesting

Cynthia

You didn't say if you had 2 marriage proposals. If you have to choose ..choose the one you love and loves you in return..If your marriage works out you will find many things that you have in common in the future. Everyone grows and changes with age. Hope you have a happy marriage and remember you both will have to make compromises. Marriage is hard work even if you're happy and in love.

Esa

I couldn't be with someone I didn't love so, I say go with the one you love. Despite your differences there has to be some way of compromising.

crystalscandies2005

Neither one you will never be happy.Find someone you love and who loves you back.

singer

marry the one who love you for what you are in within

Jill M

Sounds like you may not be ready for marriage or you would know the answer to your question.

jozlyn

I went with the second one and he's super cute, too.

Me and my shadow

Marry the one you love, and pray that everything ends up happily ever after.

usmchawkeye

be careful either way

Dachelle T

marry the one you love BECAUSE of your differences

captianpr

Marry either, you need to really love one person, if not the minute you hit a rought patch i'll run to the other thinking that will solve the problem.. Be fair to all of you and really think this over....

Babygirl86

DO WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES, WHAT EVER YOUR HEART IS TELLING YOU TO DO. BUT MAKE A SENSIBLE DECISION. GOOD LUCK

evian

the one wholoves you,sometimes differences ar e our sign and we choose to ignore thinking that person will change and we have all we need right before our eyes . you need someone who will be there in good and bad times

mitanbarr

Marry the one you love!
Differences balance each other out. My husband and I share important things in common...how to raise the kids, how to manage money, etc...but we are complete opposites as far as personalities go.
It works for us.

gemcatme

Marry the one you love who loves you. Your differences can compliment one another.

Q~T

I'm married and I say don't marry either one of them. If they love you enough thell stay with you.

Wolfbane

the different one, by far. Cuz you love him and you will be happier together.

marry the one who has a lot of in common with you.

belizeigram

Ms. Belle , I agree . Im at a stage now ,wondering if i want ti to get married or not .been engaged 4 years to a great man ,but we dont have enough values in common. I think im just going to stay single and enjoy my life by MYSELF~

lady_dragonfly_27

Neither! If you love them, but they don't love you or vice versa, then it will never work out. Find someone who loves you and you love in return and marry that person!

Dianamite

Marry the one who loves you AND who you love. If they're not the same person you're asking for trouble.... differences or not.

babygirl100405

marry the one you love ONLY if he loves you too