Married man?

fungirl

Well, he's married!!! What you should do is leave him alone. And if he's cheating on his wife, he would do it to you if you two were together. You deserve to be with someone who can be faithful and trustworthy. DON'T SETTLE!!! Once a cheater always a cheater.

nowhere

NEVER mess around with a married man. In the end, everyone will be hurt by it. There are too many single men for you to be playing around with fire.

san_ann68

he needs to make things right with his wife, if they dont want to remain married then tell him you will not have anything to do with him until things are finalized with his wife

Jim M

I am a married man and I would agree. He is using you. Has no feelings except for his own.

cheetah7

What should u do? Common sense should tell u to stay away from him as he's married...plain and simple.

Sausage Fingersâ„¢

Meredith?

clarkgirl2000

walk away, a married man can't give you anything...you want from him what you would want from a real boyfriend who isn't attatched...let go.and tell him to figure out what he really wants...you aren't going to wait around..you're better than that!

just_me_1955

he wants a booty call you better heed the warning if he cheated on his wife with you he will cheat on you with some one else

Georgina

You should not even be communicating with this person anymore. Why do you even ask when you know the right thing to do. By seeing him you show that you are still entertaining the idea of your relationship and he will always use that as bait to get what he wants. Run as fast as you can away from this person and if he persist, threaten to tell his wife.

mik055

what!!!! are u nuts, women need to be more selfish about thier lovin, why put up with anything from a MARRIED guy, u need to stop seeing him, why do women make it so hard for each other?
who cares if he calls or not, if you're single u should be seeing many men not just one i assume u want a husband for yourself...

Steve J

Cut it off completely with this guy. Nothing good will come from a relationship like this.

Not Me

If you know he's married then what the hell are you even thinking about. They NEVER leave their wives nor should you ask him to. Find someone who is not attached. Then you can start a real relationship!!!

Angela N

If you aren't his wife, you don't need to be messing around with him! How can you trust someone who cheats on his wife? Do you honestly think if he leaves his wife for you that he won't cheat on you? You need a reality check. Quit taking his calls, erase his number, get some self esteem! How would you like it if someone was messing with your husband? Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

la dolce vita

bootie-call

vgilbertk

He is using you. Tell him Divorce and you will talk.

james m

if he is married then he just wants a place to go when he gets in trouble at home he will never be a good man for you

misydoll

Still tell him NO. If he sees you, it opens up that he will want to sleep with you again and you'll start the process all over.

CaliMa

Oh please this will not be the first or last time you will hear this from him unless you break it off for good if you give him another chance he will keep singing that same old sob story "sorry didnt mean to hurt you please give me another chance" hes at home doing the same thing with his wife if and when you do see him stick to what you told him because evidently he has no morals and he will tell you whatever he thinks you want to hear to keep you from walking away hes enjoying having the best of both worlds and whats in it for you basically nothing when he can get away from his wife it will only be for a short time and even then you are being deprived you will spend many lonely days alone while he on the other hand has his wife if you drop him now and stick to the choice you made you will find someone or they will find you when you least expect it.

Hebrews 11

You can't do anything. Since he isn't a free man. Tell him you enjoyed knowing him but it's time for you to move on and find someone who is available completely.

heaven o

If he is married to someone else. Then he is cheating you out of something wonderful with someone else. Move on. The pain is real, but it will go away faster if you sever all contact with him and just plain and simply move on. Do you really want a man that will only give you part of him? I would prefer a man who gives me everything not just bits and pieces. You should care for yourself more. Seeing a married man really tells us how much you lack self-esteem. You are much much better then that, trust me.

camarolynk

You definitely did the right thing!

celticdragon

Drop him and run and find a real man that will love you throw and throw.. good luck.

datalov3

You are cheating yourself by settling for what he is giving you. He is with her how is he going to totally love you. Let him go and find someone that treasure you. Blessings

gozedown

HO HO HO !!!!!

iluvbigshow2

tell him that the only way to prove it is to get a divorce...you are sick of being the other woman.

stephgirl78

I wouldn't meet with him. Anything that he has to say, he can do it over phone or email. You really don't want to be the other woman. You will always come second. Think about it, you won't be able to spend Valentine's Day with him, and the last minute cancellations and sneaking around will eventually get tiresome. I would just cut my loses and move on.

Ellyn

Wrong...that is wrong. You must like being used

hideemosquito

Are you seriously considering being a home wrecker? That's horrible. Go find a guy that isn't trying to ruin his own life AND drag you down with him. And call his wife so she can find someone who really appreciates her. Bad bad bad situation to even be considering. No man is worth having the guilt of breaking up a family so keep it his problem and get the heck away as fast as you can. Good luck.

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