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Married man I've been in love with for ten years.?

So, he emails me and says I am thinking of you and ends his letters with Yours,. What to think?


    




Emmie26
I'm sorry for your situation. But I was in just the same kind of relationship for 8 yrs. I finally ended it because I realized he was Never going to leave his wife. And I started feeling like there has to be more to life than sneaking around. I began feeling awful about myself. Even though I knew all about his situation at home, which was bad. I wanted a life. Now, 8 months later, I have a new man in my life and we may even get married next year. But we'll see. He's a wonderful man. He treats me like I am the only woman on earth. He only has eyes for me. You can find the same thing. Just give yourself some time. Please don't let him string you along. Because he will if he knows your unsure. Take that final leap and stand your ground. DON'T look back, EVER!!!!!!!! Trust me, you will find happiness. There's a big world out there, go and explore!!!!!! May God bless you.


Mel
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You should think, "He's married and he's not mine." And what would you want with a man who treats his wife that way?


ndnqt1966
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I think you are one delusional woman....


Callie
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I think he's married and you are being a fool.....


Angel
Why would you be waiting around for a married man? After 10 years have you not realized that he is not leaving his wife for you?

He does not end his letters with love or forever yours, doesn't this tell you something?
You are simply his booty call when he needs one..
Get some self respect for yourself and move on...


nyjae
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He's never going to leave his wife.


Cyclist 2300
I think you are either..... already married to him..... and there is no problem......

or.... you are not married to him..... and you need to .....LET HIM ALONE.


Lily
I thnk he is getting off on thinking that "someone out there wants me" but doesn't want to give up the good life he is living. As a married woman I am happy to see you have wasted 10 years of your life on something that is never going to happen.


tip.driller
It means he's a slu-t and you are a dunce.


nikiquin87
you should really get over him, also he isnt yours to touch and it will always cause more throuble than its worth, also if you did end up getting him, which i doubt you will, when he gets bored of you he will cheat on you in a second. so not worth it x


Valerie X
Yours:

Short hand for "Your Azzclown"......


Tiare
that he wants to nail you and go home to his wife where he will be forever


True
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I sincerely feel so bad for you.

You have been giving your love and heart to someone that you will never have and for 10 years. I hope that you have found other ways to fulfill your life because I would hate to think of someone sitting around on stand still waiting for this non-existant relationship.


Melissa :)
That SCREAMS "Run Away!!"


Prince-Cole
Get a life


Now What?!!
It is ashame that you have wasted 10 years with a man that is with another woman. I guess you think you're getting younger not older. I guess you don't mind sharing. So you're going to give this man another 10 years of the same foolishness. I feel sorry for you. You're missing out on having your own man and spending the rest of years with him. Karma is a beast... Be careful...


Dog Rescuer
HE'S MARRIED !!!!!..
WHAT he is doing behind his wifes back emailing you....
he would also do behind your back to his wife if he left her..

Move on and don;t look back...
He's a PLAYER!!!!
For some deep seeded reason you like the attention of someone who ISN'T yours..You need to look inside yourself and find out what that is about....There IS a reason!!!!
If you are honest with yourself which you haven't been in 10 years you will KNOW why ..

GET your own husband!!!
Stay away from anyone elses....

I guess you are slow at learning he is NEVER going to leave his wife since you are FREE and available with no commitment attached...
10 years didn't teach you that?????
Your relationship with this married man has been doomed from the start!!! It's based on lies and deception...

Get your OWN man who isn't tied to someone else and stop making yourself easily available for a romp... thats not nice...
You know that!!!!!


THE MRS
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you shouldnt think anything! hes married. leave him alone! and your in love with him? get real! he obviously doesnt want you or the 10 years you spent in love with him, he would have been with you! seriously...


jimsai25
You should think, what if I was married and my husband was emailing some cheap fluzzy.


clio
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You should think that he is like my ex-husband. This man has no male friends to speak of; his hobby is being charming to women. In fact his hobby is wooing them, making them feel special, getting him to care about him, then cheating on them and finally not returning their calls or answering their emails. I got rid of him and he is now shacked up with a much younger, much stupider pregnant girlfriend and cheating on her left, right and center. Do you want to be that girlfriend? For all I know, this guy you 'love' could be my ex-husband. All I can say is, don't do it!


J. G
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I think you are one delusional woman....


Mrs D is expecting #2
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That's he wants some @ss... Sorry but that would be the only reason he is emailing you.

I don't understand women that are in "love" with another womans man...


hangninthere
No respect from me. First of all, if he wanted to be with you, he would be. Go find a life of your own. He's just using you anyways.


mixxchick1
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MARRIED is married leave him alone.


Beatngu
I think you should reply;

"Be yours to your wife, and please stop stringing me along since I KNOW you'll NEVER leave your wife... and even if you do leave her, you'll wind up breaking my heart since you're a cheater..."

How does that sound?


loveisalosinggame
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Honey PLEASE! He is NOT worth this ...........u are worth eso much more
answer minehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq4oFMYgX4E_N9bxgb502d_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080422120907AAs1nIC


runandhide1
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I think he is stringing you along. And you are allowing it.


Rick31
You should stop communicating with him. He is married to someone else and his e mail is inappropriate for a married man.


Tyler H
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Well, it is apparent that you both have emotional feelings for one another; however, I think that you need to make it clear to him that he should probably end his current marriage if he is unhappy with her and would rather be with you.





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