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My husband is over in Iraq for a year & he wants me to send him very explicit pictures of me over the camera phone ( of...u kno what). But i dont feel comfortable doing it. I know he is my husband but who knows who will get ahold of them or who will see them. he says he will show noone, but im am still very scared to. I feel so bad cause he is away for that long but i dont know if he would show anyone or not. i doubt it but you NEVER know. What should i do?
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Quasimodo
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That "little piece of heaven" that has influenced the decisions of kings, princes and president's is yours and his to admire on your own time and in the privacy of your home or where ever you decide to display this little gem.
Tell him forget pictures.....if he thinks he may forget what it looks like tell him you'll be sure that he is well re-aquainted with it upon his return home.
Hey...worse comes to worse...those babies are all over the internet. Seek one out that is very similar in appearence to thine own and send it as a counterfiet.


juda75
He will show everyone! My husband is an ex marine and he told me while in boot camp several guys received explicit pics of their women and shared them with every one!! I promise you he will either willingly share them or they will force him to show them...they are lonely horny men over there and so if you don't want his whole platoon to see your private bits I wouldn't send him pics....


BTW please know my prayers are with you and your brave husband!!


I have Btch face
my husband was in iraq and wanted me to send him erotic pictures
dont do it, first he can get introuble with his command if they find out, second, it will put you out there cause theres no privacy in those barracks
do you want ur coochie all over the baracks,w hat a foolish mistake if you do


wishingstar5555
Put on some sunglasses or a mask then give him a show !


Agnostic_Front
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Tell your husband that you dont' want anyone else seeing them. I think he'll be ok with that. I'm sure he really needs it.


Backhoe
I would be very careful what You send. It is hard to tell who would find the pictures and see them.
Good Luck and Take Care.


John Timothy
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Send him some picures of you in a miniskirt, or short-shorts and a halter top, but don't go any further. You are right to be worried about who may see the intimate photographs. When he asks for more, tell him there is no one who can take these pictures except him. That ought to stop the requests . . . . Ask him who is supposed to take such photos -- the boy next door? Good luck sweetie. I hope he comes home to you.


Jeremy
1.) Tell him how you feel - you are uncomfortable taking pictures of your 'self' and sending them across the Internet to his government owned email account. 2.) He should respect that. 3.) He might not like it, and he might be so lovesick that he REALLY would like to see that part of you, but it shouldn't be what keeps him hanging on. If it is, he needs to talk to the chaplain or someone.

Maintaining the marriage relationship will be difficult with him over there and it's important that you two stay focused on the parts that don't go away with distance - the support, the love, and the devotion - not the anatomy.


No Drama for this Queen
Go for it....What are you scared of ?? Its not like facing a firing squad. Trust your husband if he says he won't show anyone than trust he won't. Hide your face, it would probaly turn him on even more to see a hood over your head. Than go for it girlfriend, give that man the best show he has ever seen!!!! Who knows you may even enjoy it, go with it. I have been married 20+ years and when ever my husband wants to try something new, I go with it and most times it turns out I enjoy it... remember men LOVE to see us touching ourselfs, he knows you are while he's gone so show him what your doing.


Venus
Since he is your husband not just a boyfriend I would say that would be ok. He probably misses you and being away so long needs something to satisfy his needs. I seriously doubt since he's your husband that he would show other guys pictures like that. Guys are very territorial about things like that involving their woman.


onlyme78729
I agree with AngieC. I was in the Navy in Desert/Shield and Storm. We didn't have acess to email or any kind of phone pics but I know some guys that did get photos via the regular mail from their wives dressed in some very provacative outfits. The ones I knew that got them didn't pass them around but it also wouldn't surprise me if it happens. Trust me, he will appreciate those kinds of photos just as much if not more.


back2future
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u should do it. he feels so lonely and he missed u very much... trust him...


Girliegirl
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In this day in age, I wouldn't put anything out there that would embarrass you if someone else saw it. I'm not saying he would send the pictures to someone on purpose, or show them to anyone, but what if he lost his phone and someone found it and started looking through it? They have no loyalty to you and would probably send them to every guy they knew. Forget that.


mlp7
If you send them...he will show...and then all of his buddies will try to come on to you and screw you


Worried wife
I was in the same situation last year. My husband deployed and wanted me to send pic. I didnt feel comfy either so I didnt send pics. Then I found out later that he was getting pics from other women that he was talking to online. I was very pissed. You will have to decide. If you send him pics then they are probably going to get out but it might keep him from getting them from other women. (there are alot of females willing to do whatever for military men) Or you could not send them and risk that he might get pics and videos from them.


nikie_atkinson
OH send them to him I highly doubt he will show anyone that's for him he probably will will not show anyone at all your his wife most guys wouldn't do that.


Kim
Send him the pictures, so what if he shows someone, he is lonely and missing you. Its just your body and he thinks he has bragging rights, so let him brag.


beliz
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Absolutely not, I dont care where your husband is you do not have to be showing your whatever to him or no one via a camera phone. If your gut feeling is telling you no then its no. He wants to see let him wait until he gets home. Your right anyone can see those pictures. Stick to you gut feeling.


cbrwyrn
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most men would not show pictures of his wife and i would be just like him if i was over there so make his day


Paige
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Don't do it, he shouldn't ask you to do it, since it makes you uncomfortable. And i'm praying for you, my little sister's husband is in Afghanistan.


Just Life, Trying To Live It.
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If you are comfortable with you and who you are, then I would send them. Why does it matter who he shows them too. He loves you and wants too show you off to his buddies. He is far away and misses you. Think about him in his situation. It might make you feel better doing something for him. What have you got to loose by sending them? I mean who is really going to see them.

Would you rather have him looking at someone else or you????


college_student
I can't believe how many people are saying don't send it. Your husband is over there fighting for us, and is undoubtedly very lonely. I think you should be flattered! At least he is still wanting to see you, and not someone else! He wants to remain faithful to you while he's over there, but he needs some kind of stimulation. Why not get it from the woman who supposedly loves him? I think it would be a nice gesture on your part to show him how much you miss him and really want him. Who cares if others see it, you're his wife not anyone elses, so it would make them jealous of him, he'd be a hero! And that's even if he showed them. He's already told you that he wouldn't, and as his wife I would think you would trust him a little more. Especially given the fact that he's fighting for your freedom. Something could happen to him while he's over there, and God forbids if it does, wouldn't it be nice to know that while he was here you gave him a little bit of happiness? The war over there is horrible, there's no telling what atrocities he's seen. He just wants to see his wife naked, what's so wrong with that? You're gonna do what you want to anyway, but I think if you don't do it, he might get mad and start looking for another woman who will fulfill his fantasies. Then he can say well he wasn't getting any support from you so he had to get it from someone. Think about that. Don't be such a prude.


robert s
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send the pictures to me i will make sure he gets them safely


linda m
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I wouldnt do it. My husband was there and he didnt tell me but when the guys came back and were over for a bbq...I heard them all talking about the pics they saw of so & so's wife over there. Even if he doesnt show anyone his roomate might find them and decide too.





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