Married people- if you knew then what you knew now, would you marry again?

Audi S

I think if i knew then what I know now, I'd be even more eager to marry him..

bootsontheroad

With the good and the bad, I would marry my wife again in a heartbeat.

tlduncanj

YES I WOULD DEFINITELY MARRY AGAIN. THOUGH WE ARE DIVORCED AND IT WAS A TERRIBLE MARRIAGE. I LEARNED A LOT AND I MATURED A LOT AS WELL. I LEARNED NOT TO LET PAST RELATIONSHIPS DICTATE MY FUTURE ONES. IF WHAT SOMEONE DID TO YOU IN THE PAST STOPS YOU FROM LOVING, TRUSTING ETC. THEN THAT PERSON IS STILL IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. NOW I KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR AND WHAT QUESTIONS TO ASK, I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I WANT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP AND I ALSO KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK NOW. MARRIAGE IS GOOD AND FULFILLING

ray c

Yes I would because I have learn so from my wife that I would not have if I remained single.

gypsy g

If any of my past decisions would have kept me from my current life then no.
Had you of asked me that before I go PG, I would have said yes. I wouldn't of changed anything about my 1st marriage. But I wouldn't have never married the 2nd one had I known he was going to turn to be an abuser. But if going through that was necessary for me to have what I have now, then it was worth it.

â™¥Truthfullyâ™¥

Not to mess up the nice ones. But no I feel I made a big mistake marrying him. He is immature and admitts to me he wasn't ready. I was and he said he was before we did it. But now he realizes he wasn't and I'm the one who has to suffer for it. Now I'm stuck and loss and pregnant.

I think marriage is great and I would get married again but I would definately be more careful about it.

jillanne_writes

Oh heck ya! But I knew then what I know now -

I wouldn't have stayed for 20 years
I would have kicked him out before any damage was done
I would have had the confidence that I didn't need him to be happy
I would have worked hard on being independent.
I would been stricter on my kids

We learn. We grow. We move on. Finally found my true love at 45 years old.

H R

Marriage only enhanced the relationship I had with my husband. We have goals that both of us are working on that are of an eternal nature. This brings us so much closer. We have children that are in a stable environment and for the most part are very happy.

I am not planning on divorcing. For me and my hubby it is forever. I want him with me forever.

Kim Y

Marriage #1: 20 yrs, loveless, childless, pennyless
Marriage #2: 15 mts, loving, demanding, pennyless

If I outlive spouse #2, it is very unlikely that I would take the plunge again. I'm pretty tuckered out from the stress of demanding mates, love or loveless. I think I would find a favorite guy to date, and not go any further. I'm pushing 50, and that is plenty old enough to be smart enough to not want to set myself up again for the incredible work it entails (emotional and physical...hubby in wheelchair takes it's toll).

Just focus on my Spiritual Walk, and leave the rest to God.

052108 12:15

Mother of a wonderful baby girl!

Although my marriage isn't what you would call a "fairytale", I wouldn't change any of it for anything in this world. It has changed us for the best and made us the happiest people on this planet (in my opinion).
And of course, I wouldn't be pregnant with our first child.

john n

Absolutely!
The first twenty years were hell, but I wouldn't trade her for two and a half million dollars right now.
We had no relationship before we were married.
We both picked a wild card.
I would not want either of us to die, but I feel strongly that I would still have a lot to offer another person, and would probably remarry, or at least live with someone. I can't be alone anymore, this has been way too good.

icanhelp08

Well I have been married for almost 2 years and our relationship changed alot when we married. I found out what kind of slob he was for one. I loved being single but I love my hubby too. If we were to divorce tomorrow I would not get re-married until I was done having my fun!!!!!!

rxing

I would have made my move on my husband sooner . he is the man I was meant to be with.

â˜…â˜…â˜… Katharine â™¥â™¥â™¥â™¥

I would definately marry again and again to my husband. I definately made a right choice when I did marry him - because he's the love of my life..
No regrets!

jemmamomma

Nothing has changed at all--there is no question that I would do it again and not have it any other way.

I'm unmarried BUT i know for sure I don't want to, not to him at least.

AsianPersuasion :)

I would definitely marry my husband again. We adore each other, marriage has made the relationship even stronger.

Sandra

Yes, because my husband is so good to me. I was worried before that that may not last, but five years later and he's still god as gold. Sure, he's messy a bit and procrastinates too much, but he always brings a smile to my face when he walks in the door. Life would be a sad, sad place without the love of my life......

frank_fr_ucla

hell no....

parentto3

Yes, but not at such a young age. Become established on your own first. Financial issues can kill a marriage. I would marry again.

krazyladee

I wouldn't marry HIM.

KingAndrew

If I knew what I know now, I would have avoided two marriages that were wasted years that can not be returned. Although I would not change a thing with my marriage now and the beautiful children that have blessed my life.

I would have gotten to know him better to see what his spirt was really like.I rushed in and am suffering the consequences.

toots

I agree with curious however, I would have my cake and eat it too-----I have a sister-in-law who lost her husband a few years back, met a real nice guy, is dating on her terms, spends time every other weekend with him and sometimes during the week----makes her own plans with friends and is very busy doing the things she wants to do-----I LIKE IT

kimberly d

Of course I would marry again. I love being married, its rough sometimes, but great.

Grumpy

without a doubt, if i knew then what i know now i'd do it all over again. i would change some of the things that happened over the last 23+ years to make our marriage stronger now.

Mom 2 a boy & a girl on the way!

Well, I've only been married for 11 days so I can't really say!! But I married my best friend. We had a friendship before we got serious and I think that is most important.

loveradsrn

no i loved my spouse

B'sMomma

Knowing he would cheat 5 years down the road - no way.

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