Married women only please answer this question?

Raquel

No it's not good for your anus either. You will end up ruining those muscles down there if you do that too much anyway. And if it doesn't feel good, don't do it.

Lara

It is not my favorite. The key is lots of lube. But just because it is not wonderful doesn't mean i don't do it for him every once in awhile. But it is very rare, but not off limits completly. He knows how i feel and he respects me. I know how he feels and i respect him

~when it rains, it pours~

You're not abnormal...it's not for everyone. To reassure you though, it's not as bad as you think. In fact..well...it can be fun.

Kerry C.

I think its normal to not want to. Recently...though..I have started to want to try it.

Carla B

I love it since i try it for the first time! I really enjoy it!!

monfieca

Um...at first, it's a bit strange...but if you use lots of lube, and try very now and then, you get used to it...or so I've heard. I never got used to it :/

SinDelle Morte

I don't think you are. I've done it lots of times and I don't like it at all. It seems to be (and please, no offense to anyone) that heavier ladies like it better. I'm very small and it is very painful. There were also a few... unpleasant side-effects that showed up after doing it for like a month straight almost every day (to try and get used to it) that I didn't like either.

So really, it's just like what soda you drink or anything else: it's a personal preference and that's it. Don't worry about it. :0)

Sherry F

Not normal to me but i don't want him getting it else where, so i let him tap it when he wants, it's very good birth control to.

Volks

Okay, so you've tried it. Do you know if he's doing it the "right" way? If he's doing it the right way, it will not hurt. Believe me, you've passed bigger things than your husband, so if it hurts, he's doing it wrong.

You and your husband should do your research on the proper way. Then try it. If you still don't like it, then that's fine.

neednomore00

I believe a lot of women don't enjoy it because that act has been frowned on. Over the years (other women, sisters, aunts) talked about how nasty that is, it taboo. So your mind takes over and you can't seem to find pleasure in it because you almost feel like your doing something wrong. It's great and fun. And your husband of 14 years probably deserves some spice. Is it normal to not want it?...yea. If you don't like it you don't like it. I use to feel the same way...for years. Now, I'd hate it if my husband didn't do it. When it's slow and passionate it's great!

Onetoplay

I think for the average woman, you're normal.
It's not as bad as it sounds. Lots of lube and relaxed muscles are the key. It's fun when you're feeling "wild" because it drives your man nuts.

tudor rose

If you're not enjoying it - he's not doing it right

Precious - I'm a size 6 (UK)

Kay

I would have to say he will end up on ashleymadison.com getting his azz.

Brown Water Drinker

Lara's answer is spot on. 2me, lol. Of course my wife denies, denies, denies.

Valerie (the other white meat)

Of course it's normal for you not to want to do it. It can hurt like hell if you don't do it right. I've done it many times and if you can get past the insertion, life is good.

Positive vibes

if you didn't enjoy it, then you're not missing out on anything. But given that you are still thinking about it, you might want to try again?

Sweet_Di

i would not do anal and my husband has never tried it he thinks it is gross to.

Deborah A

I have never been fond of the idea, but I got lucky and married a guy who hates the idea

Ms.Shann

Honey it is perfectly normal for you NOT to want to do it... It is painful and there is NOTHING wrong with you NOT wanting it.... and if you DON'T even enjoy it then WHY torture yourself sweetie.. Yes you have been married for 14 years but there is OTHER things you can do in place of that... It will NOT hurt your marriage NOT to do it... Just find other fun GOOD feeling things to do to keep the excitement and passion in the bedroom...

Elliot and Leo's mommy

I know a lot of people who think it is not worth it. I have only done it with my husband a few times and only one out of the 3 times was it actually good so no you are not weird.

DEBBY'S BABY

Yes your normal. If you don't like it don't do it.

Marygoroun(d)

People have different likes and dislikes. In my opinion, you're not missing out on anything. I don't particularly like it either!!

Sapphires

Yes it is normal to not want to. Don't do it if you do not want to. Some people like it, but very few.

Annabella

Tried it once, hated it, never again. Nope.

Landen 5/3/06 Lane coming 6/1/09

I tried it and I don't LIKE IT AT ALL! My hubby likes it of course but it really hurts for me and like the last time it hurt for days after like when I had a BM!!!! I would much rather do it the regular way! :) I really don't think you are missing anything but if you wanted to try it just to satisfy him in the attempt and then make the decision that you really don't like it make sure to get some anal eze LOL!! That helps... :)

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