Me and my wife have a 6 month baby.. she gained alot of wieght after her pregnancy...?

3-Digit IQ

I'm glad you loved her enough to give her a baby, what a guy. Your an idiot!

There Are No Accidents

You make me sick...

Mary

keep your S*** in your pants! and work with her to help her lose weight!

iyamacog

Take care of the baby, while she gets herself back in shape. That way, she can leave your sorry @$$.........

Love is an American Bulldog

Damn dude give her a break, she just had a baby!! Of course she's not going to look like all those young skank hoes out there who never had a baby!!

treshayc

I think you should leave her because she deserves someone better than you anyways. So leave her and go chasing those "hot chicks" although I'm guessing you've changed too and none of them would want you anyway. In the meantime your wife will lose the baby weight, get even hotter than those other hot chicks and find a REAL man to spend the rest of her life with.

justme

You cant expect her to drop the weight the day after the delivery. I mean that is just crazy. You aren't attracted to her because of the weight? Man I am sorry but that is so shallow to me. The woman just had your child. If it bothers you imagine how she feels. Do you think she is happy with her body at the moment? I doubt it. Suggest that you two walk together after work. The weather is getting nice and you could take the baby out in the stroller. Perhaps you can get her a gym membership with a trainer as a mothers day gift. I know I would love that one. Be supportive of her. She at least deserves that from you.

Roni L

You just had a baby with your wife what the hell is your problem you selfish pig what you should do is remember what you married her for and if it was for her looks you got a poblem and one day you will look realy funny ,and be realy fat i hope.

jina

That's one of my major fears right now....and I'm 34 weeks pregnant. But no matter how much weight I gain ...I'm pretty determined to diet and lose weight to get my old body back. I'm pretty sure she misses her old normal body too...so why don't you just help her to lose weight. My advice to you is...go jogging in the mornings together.....or go to the gym together...etc. you can spend quality time..and have fun working out!....Don't even think about cheating on her...unless you're willing to put your baby and your wife on the line...its not going to be worth it. So good luck!

<3MommyofACutie&anAngel<3

Your wife just gave you a precious gift! Don't cheat on her. If you must be with someone else, divorce her so that she can find someone who will treat her like she deserves.

badestbabymomma

if u cheat on her, she's gonna lose all that weight and then someone better is gonna come along for her and you're gonna be sorry. so don't complain about it if you contributed to her putting that weight on...this is why a lot of women have low self esteem.

tjnstlouismo

It takes two years before a woman's body goes back to normal after childbirth. I suggest you start acting like a man and give her the attention that the mother of your child deserves.

gem

Omar,
Here is what you should do..
1. Learn how to spell
2. Put blinders on, do not look at those other women.
3. Grow up, and seek counseling.
4. If the previous three suggestions fail, be honest with your wife, yes she will leave you, yes she will get a good chunk of your paycheck, and most of your worldly possessions, and yes, she will deserve all that and so much more.

Kryst@licous

Men cheat because they are not honest with their wives. Please sit down with her and tell her she has gained a lot of weight and make time to workout together. Size shouldn't matter if its the woman you fell in love with. Looking at other women is just wrong. Communication is the key to a good marriage.

~jenjen~

She's probably already feeling pretty crappy about the weight gain. I have 2 kids and it is no easy work to get your body back. Why don't you get a gym membership (family) with child care so she can get out there and gain some self confidence and start looking hot again. I'm VERY self conscious about my body and I felt horrible when I gained weight and my hubby was always looking at other girls. You will destroy her self esteem if you tell her she's fat. Tell her you think the both of you should join a gym for the health benefits. It will be worth it. She will be looking and feeling hot in no time... and if you still can't accept her for the amazing mother she has become, she will be strong enough to up and leave YOUR A**.

texansis

Seriously? You are that shallow? She would be well rid of you if her weight is the reason you reject the mother of your child.

dulce_candygirl

If you really do love your wife you will love her regardless of what she looks like after all she is now the mother of your child!!!! help your wife and encourage her to loose weight if that is what your wanting.

Lizzy

cheating is a childish thing. grow up and tell her that you don't want to be with her..or stay with her and get over appearances. she is the mother of your child! if you just married her for how she looked your marriage wont last anyway. you said you might cheat. well then you already have it in your mind and your likely to do it. so talk to her and work it out or walk away from her

Aoki S

YOUR A PIG how would you feel if your wife told you she wasnt attractive to you? why dont you ask her to lose wieght instead of cheating on her PIG

krissy7490

Quit being a pig and appreciate the woman you married and just gave birth to your CHILD!

eatmy.peaches

You should do her (and all women) a favor and shoot yourself in the head. You're stupid, selfish, and shallow. Who GAVE her that baby, you dumb-A**........ huh? Little fairies?? No, it was YOU, the biggest a**hole of all time. The most shallow, selfish, self-absorbed man in her life, that's who.

Go kill yourself. We'll all be better off (especially HER).

hmm

i have to agree with some of the others, you are not being very sensitive. is she back to work? are you helping with the baby? and the housework? are either of you sleeping through the night or is she still nursing? all of these things are going to effect the amount of time she has to spend on herself and on your needs. she is also going through a lot of chemical and hormonal changes as her body continues to change after the pregnancy.

bottom line, you would like your wife to be healthy and have energy so the two of you can be romantic again. if you want this to happen, and still want your relationship to be strong and happy, be super sensitive about it. don't tell her by any means. if anything, especially if you can afford it, try to sign her up for a gym that has postpregnancy classes. there are gyms that have classed just for the pregnant and post pregnant. her body is still going to be sore and some muscles will have to be built again. this way, she won't be in a gym with all kinds of young, thin women and feel discouraged, self concious or depressed. and that's another question, is she depressed? how does her mood seem? women can experience deep depression after giving birth, if she seems unhappy and that is a factor, tell her you are worried and want her to be happy, set her up with a counselor to get through any post pregnancy emotional issues.

at the same time you give her the gym mermbership, and this is important, give her some gift certificates for manicures, pedicures, facials, massage, general spa days. this way, it can be a gift for her to have some time for herself and feel like a woman again and not just a mom. when women bcome mothers, they generally lose all time for themselves, everything goes to the baby, the husband, the house - if not the job on top of all of that. when you give her this gift, tell her you read about how new moms need special time for themselves so they don't lose themselves. it allows them to become better mothers because they are recharged adn strong.

just an idea, but that way would suggest you care about her health and happiness and not just getting *ussy.

as far as the hot women surrounding you, it's called self control. you are a father and a man, you need to act like it and support your family now. you are no longer the central figure of your relationship, your child is.

good luck! and take a look in the mirror yourself, if nothing else, maybe the two of you could join a family gym with a daycare and go togther as a family. tell her since the baby has been born you have been thinking about your health and want to set a good example, want to be the healthiest dad you can be. turn it into a pampered thing or a family thing. don't ever tell her it is bc you find yourself wanting to *uck other young women bc she has gained weight. you might as well ask for a divorce.

m h

You never loved her in the first place, you should leave her so she can find a good man who does love her

Thebronx

I think you should help her to lose weight. Not by dieting. Ask her to eat healthier, no soda, and add more green tea.

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