Me or my child?

baseballlover

without your child? you are selfish and unfit mother

Katie

U pathetic excuse for a mother.

John D

is this even serious??? That is pathetic that you would put your needs in front of your kids. and if your ex would even take you when you are married and have a kid, then he is just a pathetic as you. Have a nice life and thanks for the 2 points

Royalhinney

I can't believe that this is actually a question. Your child always comes first. Always.

After your child is 18, that's when it's your turn.

Christina

Why did you marry your husband is the only question I have for you?

marymouse26

What??? You would leave your baby??? Please tell me I am reading wrong!!! What is your problem? I was married three years ago and am 20 with two kids. Believe me if you think what you have got is hard you are sadly mistaken. YOU had that baby. No one forced you. THAT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY!!! YOU DO NOT JUST WALK OUT ON BEING A PARENT. YOU HAVE GOT SOME SERIOUS MENTAL ISSUES. I SAY SEEK HELP. DON'T RUN AWAY AT LEAST. IF YOU ARE SO BAD OF A PARENT TO LEAVE YOU KID IN THE FIRST PLACE, SPEND TIME TO SET YOUR KID UP IN A FAMILY THAT WILL LOVE THE CHILD TURN YOUR HEAD AND NEVER COME BACK TO THE POOR BABY. ALSO CONSIDER STERILIZATION, I mean for your BRAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

honey xx

you have to be the most immature person on this site. your husband and your kids deserve better. go with him, and i hope he dumps you in a week. silly little girl

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you are selfish person...be a mother you b*****.i feel sorry for your child and husband.you s***

J Mc

Next ..............................

live, love, laugh often!

That's stupid. You are to leave your child behind and run away with a man that didn't even marry you.

Cassie M

My mom did that when I was about 2 years old but she took us with her and her boyfriend and then her boyfriend didn't want kids so she gave us back to my dad. I think that if you do that you child is going to be angry at you for a long time b/c I was mad at my mom for a long time b/c she left and when you are a kid you think it is your fault that they left. So if you are unhappy with your husband then you need to get divorced and share custody but don't run off and abandon your kid b/c it is selfish and irresponsible.

London Girl

Think of YOUR child for goodness sake

My mother did that to me and my sister when i was 3, if you do this your child will never forgive you and you should definately never have anymore children your too sellfish to be called a MOTHER (SAD)

LISA T

what went wrong with the motherly bond you meant to have with your child

Sunshine

That's really selfish of you. If you're a responsible adult you wouldn't have to really "run away" to be with your ex b/f. Running away is what children and teenagers do. What about your child? If you can't see yourself as a fit mother, then yes, leave him/her with your husband. But, if you're going to leave your child just because, then that just makes you to look like a selfish person. Your child is innocent in this and you shouldn't put him/her in this sort of situation. You should really rethink this and see what the best outcome would be for all sides.

slsvenus

i think you should go, and get out of your poor childs life...you are an unfit mother even asking this, god only knows the state your child will be in after youve raised it. i hope to god its father is a better person than you. a mother abandoning her child is about as damaging as it gets for a kid... and the sense of betrayal will never ever go away. but you know this and still think its ok so jsut go, whjat goes around comes around and i bet the new boyfriend treats you like dirt...you will rue the day as long as you live, and it will be entirely what you deserve

JOHN F

Get a life sado, or maybe give your child one cause by the sounds of it your a really good mother, NOT

deep in thought

So what - so what - well lady I think you should look in the mirror and see beyond your face. Walk out on your child - a mother - well that is up for question my young girl. Oh and the X - he doesnt want both of you eh> or you dont want your child to leave his father'but you want to leave your child' women like yourself and plenty dear ' mothers are an assett in a childs life ' have you heard enough, I could go on.

Please, stay with your child how could you think of leaving him behind.

sarah louise m

u shouldnt be with ur child then.let ur husband take care of him/her but y did u get married and have a child?

jondavesnowy

If you love your child, you would never want to be without him/her.

celinallll

First of all, leave your child, how could you do that? And second, if the guy you want to run off with would even consider being with you after you left your child hes no better than you are.

abc

so what?????? you have a child, hello....if for one second you think you could just leave your child then you do need to get divorced and let your husband raise him/her.

kitkat

You do know you are not a child anymore don't you? Be an adult and do the adult thing. Stop running around behind your husbands back and start being a good wife and mom to your child.

nursesr4evr

First you need to remind yourself why is he an ex? Then you need to ask yourself why do you want to run away? We all have problems in marriage and we probably all fantasize about running away and starting over. A commitment such as marriage means that you will look at the problems and try to work on them together. Sometimes al you need is a babysitter once a week so you and your husband can spend some quality time away from the kids. Sometimes what you might need is some time with girlfriends to nurture your inner self. We were people before we were wives and mothers, ands it ok to want to take care of ourselves too.

faye

know what??????.......go!!! by the sound of things you would be a selfish mother putting herself first....you child deserves better than that...maybe staying with its father would be the best thing....

sharonz

does the m in your name stand for.....mad?

Kevin

You are Selfish and do not deserve to Mother a child. You will have to pay maintenance toward your child's welfare -and rightly so.

sunbun

children should be #1 priority in your life...untile they are 18--then u can become #1

...as a kite.

Are you talking about abandoning your child? You should have thought of that before getting pregnant.

selfish. childish. flat-out unfit.

Motherhood can be rough, I know-but boyfriends, and hell, even husbands are TEMPORARY. One good fight, some signatures on a paper, and that man is GONE. Kids are a lifelong commitment-not something you take care of inbetween men.

Second thought-maybe you should leave that kid with someone more capable. They'd have a better shot at growing up in a safe environment-and you can explain how a man was more important than them later on, when that man is long gone and your child resents you.

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