Men, are my kids baggage?

your kids are part of you.
when a guy falls for you, he'll love you for all you are, including your kids.

my wife had 2 beautiful kids when i met her. i fell in love with all 3 of them. (and we added one more, after we got married).

Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions

you need to find a man that is more mature... some men get upset because they aren't the main focus of your attention.. so find someone who already has a child or children and can relate...

Johnny

When I was first divorced 5 years ago finding the perfect dating situation was difficult. Yes a woman with child limits the time and places you can go to. I happen to love children.

benthere

as a single mom with 2 kids i have had no trouble finding dates but, i do it on the weekends my kids are at dads and dont involve them at all. I dont think most men have a problem dating women with kids and if they do then they arent for u.

chivillry63

If a parent DOESN'T put their kids first I would have a major problem with it. I'm also a single parent and you have to accept my kid's along with me because it's a package deal

Tbone64

I don't have a problem dating women with children. Of course, each man has his own preferences, and you need to be very cautious in who you bring around your children. The only man who is worth bringing around your kids is the man who you can see being in a long-term relationship with. And, that will take some time to figure out, too.

Jon

It depends....are they well disciplined?, how old are they? If you choose to be with another man, is he relevant at all compared to your children, or just a second heel who has to jump through your hoops because like soooo many of you women, you like to profess " My children are my world and come first and foremost!" Just know that for us men to be with a woman who already has children, it's a package deal now. Not only do we have to gain acceptance from the woman we're with, we have to gain acceptance from the children also, and kids will sometimes reject a new man or father figure in their life.{I can't blame them}. And if that's the case, then it can get real stressful for us, and if it's bad enough.....we're outta here!

Alyssa

I'm not a man but would this info help? My brother married a woman and had two girls. They get devorced and he married another woman that had three boys with her ex husband. That family had some trouble in the begining but know they are like a normal family.

chr_gil

Me personaly i would not mind dating a girl with kids. so no hun. i dont think kids are baggage

:)

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