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Wise Fool
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Increasingly, in the USA, men are being browbeaten by media messages that they are inept buffoons (watch any sitcom or many TV commercials for the proof), and as a result, they are questioning their own ability to lead a family.
Women are CHEERFULLY stepping up ad taking the head of family position, mocking their husbands in the process.
Yes, the 21st Century is going to get better and better for women. |
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lilmama38601
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WELL TO BE HONEST GOD MADE MAN FIRST AND HE IS SUPPOSE TO BE HEAD OF HOUSE HOLD BUT IF HE DOESN'T HAVE THE JOB IS FINACIALLY ABLE TO SUPPORT THE FAMILY AND YOU STEP UP AND CAN DO IT BETTER THAN I RATHER SEE YOU DO IT THEN TO LET YOUR THINGS BE TAKEN AWAY. |
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Mr.Wise
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The man doesn't HAVE to be and in many cases are not. The man is supposed to be the stronger of the two, thus make the critical decisions. They usually share otherwise. Also, women usually are lousy at finances. |
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Trillian
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Of course. However, there is a technical definition of "head of the family" especially in taxation which means the spouse who brings in the income. Aside from that, the designation "head of the family" usually means who between the spouses has the last word when it comes to decision making. This really depends on the set up of your marriage whether "traditional" (dad is king) or an "equal" marriage wherein mom has equal say in things. |
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Frances
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Both man and woman are the heads of the family. Need I explain? |
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katia
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they can, but many couples find it hard. a man feels bad that he cant provide, and the woman feels stressed out too. usually anyways.. |
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nikkymos2000
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yes/no |
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The Grand Inquisitor
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Well, where did this idea come from? The BIBLE? WRITTEN BY MEN, FOR MEN TO PROTECT MEN! Don't you see that men are threatened by women and that is why the bible was written to "put women in their place?" All these ridiculous rules we follow, are only to give men more power and TO KEEP WOMEN DOWN! Don't be a robot-think for yourself. |
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Who says the husband is the head???
In our family, its the baby... he's taken over the moment he arrived...lol! |
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imahlah
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She can if she's a single parent or just single. If your married, then he has props, but you can always say that you stand besides a good man. If he's good. The bible states that a man is the head. Back in the day, a man would be the one to go out and work in order to provide food, clothing and shelter for the family. The woman would stay home and take care of the children and also the house. In today's society things are changing rapidly. Who knows what the future will hold. |
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ladysea8
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Yes a man is the head of the family, it is in the Bilbe. I believe that a marriage is better off if theis princioale is followed, I consider my husband as head of my family, but we talk and discuss important issues and come to a decision together. Why can't a woman be the head of the family? Well that would take quite some time for me to explain and I don't have enough room to tell it all, but these days, more and more women are becoming single mothers, therefore being head of thier family. |
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number1jinks
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yes the man thinks that there the head of the family and just dont let that happen. ill tell you exactly wats gonna happen hes gonna think hes the bom diggity and get a head of himself and start beating you and your kids.(if you got them). you need to take some actions. |
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Dave B
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as designated by our creator himself |
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dittty2003
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THE WOMAN IS THE COMPLIMENT OF A MAN, SHE IS THE WEAKER VESSEL, IT'S LIKE 1 OF YOUR KIDS COMING TO U AND SAYING CAN I BE THE PARENT
AND WHEN A MAN MAKES A BABY IF SHE IS THE HEAD SHE SHOULD PAY HIM CHILD SUPPORT
THAT DON'T SOUND RIGHT DO IT |
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cutiepie11wi
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in the nuclear family structure - husband, wife, kids. I think it is only natural for men to take that leadership role. Women are more nurturers and supporters. But the Bible did say that the man should be the head. |
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river_runs
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come on over and be the head of my family. |
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Astrid.
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There's a strong stigma attached to woman who are heads of their respective families/relationships. Also, women are usually the more docile race. Hah! Ignore that, chin up, and you'd find out soon that it isn't a shameful thing at all to defy stereotypes. |
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MissBehave
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It depends on what your beliefs are. Most religions believe that the husband is the head of the home and that he is responsible for the family's welfare, although in this modern day and age woman are taking on more of a leadership role in the family. It is more biblical for the husband to be the head of the home but is not a sin if he isnt. |
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mattd550
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You can only have one head of the family, either the woman or the man. |
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NYQT22
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Of course especially if the wife is the bread winner |
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Untamed Rose
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Nope I wear the pants, he just likes to think he does |
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mrselange
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There can only be one head of the family. If a man and woman are married, then it is the man who is the head. If the woman is single than she is the head of her family. If two people try to be the boss there is sure to be problems. The man would be like a president of the company, and his wife would be like the vice-president working together for one common goal. |
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TheGr8st
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It's supposed to be 50/50 a marriage not a contract with Boss. Both partners should equally share duties and responsibilities within the home. So to answer your question no the man/husband is not always the head of the family. Maybe your hubby needs to get with the new millennium and stop living in the golden ages? |
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babyboofie
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i think that it should be a shared thing, this is not the stone ages. my hubby is ethnic, and he think he the boss, but that it he think, all decisions should be shared, you are equal, it is a partnership marriage, |
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MS
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Absolutely not!! A woman can wear the pants too!! Theres a trick to it, its all about making him BELIEVE he wears the pants, when in fact you do, its kinda like a mind game and keeps both of you happy, I do this to my husband, and he don't even realize it....LOL |
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Farida
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I am a woman who is the head of my family and I don't have any problem.
I am a better manager so I manage our life but I act like my husband is head because it is very hard for men that his wife be his boss. |
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Doc Rick
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Yes/NO
No: The man is the head of the family according to the Bible. That not changing !
yes: If no man is present Women is in charge of the household
But it is always The Man who is Head of the Household!! |
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party_2_hearty
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i think they should both be the head of the household. share alike responsibilities |
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JamieLee
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Yes of course my mam rules the rooster the best way for it |
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gabriella9902
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I AM THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY. I MAKE ALL THE IDEAS AND DO BILLS AND BASICLY EVERYTHING. TELL YOU WHAT I AM VERY TIERD OF IT TOO. WISH MY MAN CAN BE MORE OF CONTROL GUY AND DO THINGS AND SAY WHAT HE REALLY WANTS OR AT LEAST TELL ME WHAT TO DO BUT HE DON'T AND YES WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT IT TOO BUT IT NEVER HAPPENDS SO I JUST FEEL LIKE I AM THE MAN HERE LOL. |
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