My 7 yr old son purposely tripped his Grandma, she fell and broke her arm, she wants to have him arrested ...?

smurfette_au2000

I pissed myself laughing when I read that. You have to admit it's f.u.c.k.i.n.g. funny. Thing is, his grandma can't have him arrested. He's 7 yrs old. I'd say he's going through a phase where he's testing the boundaries. Just show him where they are. He'll get over it.

brian_uk

5 years in solitary should sort the little git out

mams brown eyed gel

I wonder about your mentality mate, what part of this have you got to laugh at. I really dont think you are fit to be a dad, you should be seriously ashamed of your self and your evil little brat .I really hope the boys gran is okay, I wonder if you would find it so amusing if it was you that was in a plaster cast. I agree with his mum and gran the kid is out of control, your wife may be able to claim child support for you and the brat because you sound really stupid and very childish to me. Isn't it time for your bed now boy and no tantrums tonight... you silly little man.

Kids have their own problems. There may be a reason why he is acting so rebellious. Make sure to give equal attention if he has siblings.

Get him involved with team sports, and you and your wife should get more involved in teaching him the sport. Teaching sports (and other things) will get you more involved with your son, and gain you respect. At that age, he should think you know every thing, and you should be his role model.

Respect is not taught; it is earned. If you and your wife is not respected by everyone around, the kid is not going to respect you or your wife. So be careful what you and your wife say to each other in front of him.

Physical punishment should not be used often, but he should experience it, so he has a fear of punishment. Balance rewards, praise and punishments well. Get into habit of compromising activities with him; i.e. if he want to play game for 2 hours, he needs to play basketball for an hour. Let him get involved in decision making, and make him stick to his promise.

shellshell

Let him go to jail they will not keep him long and he will learn that it is never a joke and it is never funny to harm someone. Sounds to me like he is a little hell raiser and if he is causing that much problems now think about what it will be like in 8 years when he knows he can get away with more because of his size.

crazhaz

The inmates are running the asylum.

* Mom and Grandma wait to put 7 year old in jail.

* 7 year old purposely hurts Grandma and thinks that it's funny.

* Dad feel that it's no big deal.

Stephen King couldn't come up with a scarier scenario. (This is really a joke, right?)

If not, I would say the whole family needs to be in counseling.

Vgirl

Hi

I think your kids has mental problem, I also agree you must Set-up a meeting with child psychologist or child behavior specialist and take away his game, that type of a game shall hurt your kid,

kombat601

I agree with Gill, he under the age of 10 and therfore not legally responsable for his actions. However you may want to contact your local CFCS about a referal or a GP.

jordancassandra

There is something seriously wrong here, it doesn't take a psychologist to realise that. If he is doing these behaviours on purpose at 7 imagine what he will be like at 15yrs,at 7 yrs old and a temper thar severe, i think you need to take some sort of action now,, (therapy of some sort), If you have animals be concerned for them aswell.
This is serious. yes!

Discovery

why you let him play that kind of game? this is the result, my god,have a clue, take it away ASAP.

Bonita N

ground him for a long time. give the boy a bad time. take away all the unappropriate stuff.

todaywiserthanyesterday

Maybe you should find a good psychiatrist specialized in children. I think your son has serious problems.

Calandra has been hurt again :(

No wonder he acts this way if his mum and gran are willing to send him to prison. For goodness sakes he is only seven years old! If this stupid game he's playing is that bad then why was he bought it in the first place?
Definitely confiscate any remotley violent games from him. He needs to know he did wrong.
Adopt the same rules with him that "Supernanny" does. I think you have this show in USA? Every time he is bad, send him to the naughty corner and if he moves just pick him up and put him back there until he stays and learns his lesson.
And no you dont have to laugh at all. Sorry and i hope he calms down asap for you.

monkeyface

I think that the problem is not the child...the problem is you.
The part of your question where you say "you have to kind of laugh at it a little don't you?" says it all.
If you cannot see how serious this is then how can the child be expected to.
Take away his computer games, do not allow him to watch TV, let him go to school & nowhere else.
If this kind of behaviour is allowed to continue then before long you will not have a naughty little boy, you will have a thuggish, violent, unmanagable teenager.
I think you should ask your local policaman in to have a word with him...just to put the wind up him & scare him a little.
No wonder your wife is ready to hit you. This whole thing is your fault. You are lucky that she only broke her arm, this could have been a lot worse.

crophilia

wot a nasty liitle $hit. children should respect their elders and hurting an old lady aint funny, in a few years, he will probably be out mugging them. u need to sort him out good or hes heading for trouble, thats if it aint too late. most kids would feel bad about hurting their grandparent. this is no laughing matter, its serious. he must not be allowed to get away with it. punish him severely. take all his games away. ground him. stop his pocket money. tell him u are disgusted and dissapointed in him. if he dont care or show any remorse, have the little $hit arrested. hes going to grow up into a monster if u laugh and do nothing. u should seek psychiatric help for him too because that isnt normal behaviour for a 7 year old. this is not funny, its deadly serious. heed my warning or one day he will kill someone. wot u gonna do then? laugh?

britchick292002

hey genius, who is in charge, you or the KID? ask Dr. Phil, and i'll bet that he will tell you the same thing.

Scatty

I feel anger purely and simply because this lad has no respect-- he hasn't been brought up with any so what do you expect? you as a father should se the seriousness of what he did.

Tripping an elderly woman up on purpose is wrong and immoral he should be punished for this- i would class that as assault because it was no accident. At 7 years of age he should not be thinking of such cruelty but his parents are mainly to blame for that. Kids learn what they live so im sorry if i offend.

Take him to a bording school or detention centre if that don't work u gonna hav to try harder on making the next 7 years into teenage bloody hard for him. I think you and the wife need counselling and lessons on how to raise children properly

charlesjerrell

the child needs help, and no its not funny, what are you going to do with him when hes a few yrs older

SexyTrojan

Jail? Are they crazy? Why didn't he get a spanking? It's not cool for a 7 year old to have that kind of temper. If it keeps up, he WILL end up in jail.

Take away his games that are not rated G.

babygurl200532618420002000

u need to go get ur soon anger mangement therapy cuz it mite be da first phase of anger problems

Gill Billie

I'd talk to someone professional about this and quickly. Jail isn't the answer (apart from the fact that he is too young to be put in jail!). He definitely has some issues and needs to work on them. Good luck - I hope it all gets resolved.

Emma Woodhouse

This is serious.lt isn't normal for a child to show no remorse for causing a member of his family PHYSICAL pain....and laughing,to boot.
Medically speaking,these are sociopathic tendencies which should be addressed before he completely loses touch with reality and thinks life is all a game,people don't bleed or hurt;they just get up and continue 'the game'
Please take it seriously,you need to take him places with you and let him watch you doing things---get him less interested in violent games and more in real life.
You're lucky to get this warning signal.
DON'T IGNORE IT!!!

steve

good old fashion spankings

You've asked the SAME question FOUR times and people are still buying into it...hope you got the attention you were/are seeking. I don't know how old you are, but judging by your question history you probably need to grow up yourself...Doesn't sound like you're mature enough to raise a seven year old child...Puuleeezee.

By the way...repeat question like this are a violation of yahoo policy...don't take my word for it, go read it yourself.

keli2829

very serious u need to talk to his doctor he could have bi polar and that is nothing to play with he needs meds spanking him will not do anything sounds like so call his doc asap

dodds

Im pis*ing mesel hehehe ......but its not my kid thank bloody god hahaha

yp_cindy_lewisburg

You take all violent content games away.
He threw a vase while you were talking to him regarding this and you think its ok? Hard to say who has more issues here you or him,, you are not being an effective parent if you think this behavior is normal and ok. This is not a phase, however it may be out of control behavior because his Dad seems to not understand that kids need rules. It IS SERIOUS.
You and son need to get in counseling. I don't want to see the kid wind up in jail but honestly a trip in front of a judge and some honest consequences for him would be a good place to start.
If a person can harm another human being and sit and laugh about it at 7 years old, you have a serious problem on your hands.

April

Yeah, all of you need to be in counseling really quickly. Your child is disfunctional, and your wife and you can't control him -- he's outa control, and needs some serious help. He is the parent in your household, not any of you. He is a pisser, and wait until he's 16 -- then you will have a criminal on your hands. Run, don't walk to the nearest family therapist, my friend, or your son will be doing jail time....... He may anyway, but at least you can say you tried....... good luck

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