My BF leaves the room to talk whenever his cell phone rings.?

seattleman

He's a boy, but probably not a genuine friend. It sounds as if he is hiding something under the guise of selective privacy. You are right to be suspicious. If I where you, I wouldn't snoop. Rather, I'd just dial the relationship back to a less serious level. Take control and put him in a position, where he can't take your relationship for granted. If you are living together, I'd move out, regain your full independence and just date. This process will prompt him to either want to commit or continue to play the field. In any event, he's got to come clean for you to ever be able to fully trust him.

Mr Rogers best friend

trust him or leave him
if hes screwing around you will find out

Johnny Walker

It's just another woman or worse another man.Make him answer it in front of you.

I do the same exact thing to my boyfriend- if my friends call, I want privacy, if its family, I'll talk in front of him. If he heard the convos I had, he wouldn't like it. But in general, its just easier for me to talk when he's not around. I wouldn't want him to make fun of the advice I give my friends or anything like that.

jizzi

Basically he does not want you to know who has rang or why, do not trust him!

Floss

Every body is different, but I, myself, leave the room when I get a call. I am not cheating, to me it is a sign of respect to my wife who is watching TV and to the person who called me and may not want people hear.

Bill

I do not take any calls in front of my wife. I like privacy when I am on the phone. It is possible that when he is going to have a longer conversation, or a more important conversation, he does not want to be disturbed. This is not a reason to mistrust him.

chastityelizabeth

he might be talking to another gf...or maybe he is just a private person....
i leave the room sometimes too if I just want the bf to not hear things...no cheating issues at all...just like my privacy when talking about girlie issues

rich2481

he probably is talking to a friend that is a girl and doesnt want you to be mad about it,

if he is loving and attentive,, dont worry about it,, if he is cancelling dates, and such ,, then worry

Sassy

I would be suscpicious. I quote, "A person who has nothing to hide, hides nothing!" - Dr. Phil

drezach

Forgive my bluntness, but, get a clue, he's cheating. I too do this and it's because the girl that I am with can't hear the conversation with the girl I'm gonna see later. If he were not being deceptive he would talk in the room your in. Payback is a B#tch though, you should start taking your cellphone calls in another room....that'll stop him!

Peaches C

Sorry but it sound like he got otha girls callin him!!! From my point of view!! I know my man asnwers in front of me.!! Just talk to him about it!! More and more

samantha

Just tell him straight up how you feel and what youre thinking, if he really loves and respects you he will sit down with you and have an actual conversation instead of coming up with some lame exucse

Yeah it's me................

he is cheating on you....look at his phone and see what the number is. if its a girl than something is up. and maybe you should break it off with him.
Nanna Fo Fanna

prettysexycalves

Boyfriend not husband. i would cut him off slowly and surely. not good. he has something to hide. DONT BE STUPID.

bree_1384

The way I see it you have two options 1) believe him and let it go or 2) look at his calls list in his phone when hes not around. But remember just because it says a certain name it might not be that person... so jot down the numbers and find out who he is really talking too (my friend went through this and her man was cheating)

thekidzmamajojo

I'm with Jarrod G....it sounds odd that he leaves the room but will stay if it's his family...obviously...it's a convo he doesn't want you to hear...

Scorpio

Find a new boyfriend. If he can't talk in front of you then he's hiding something! Why don't you do the same thing to him and see how he reacts?

Jarrod G

i say listen in and see if you can catch him if hes doin somethin wrong

B K

it's HER.

But then, you already KNEW that, right?

Dump him.

But right before you dump him, ask him to hit redial on the last 10 numbers he's called and then hand the phone to you. Free fireworks!

If he gets mad a defensive and only does it 'sometimes', then something is up, and you already know it.

Joanna

well i suggest you sneak up on him and see whats going on because if he only does it sometimes there is a chance something is going on

mentalchallenge

Sounds like he's cheating on you - - eavesdrop in on one of his conversations and try to find out who he is talking to or go through his phone and call the number back!!

jarayvn

Old habbits die hard, Just give him some time, if possible talk to his family and find out if he does the same thing around them.

Smiles

my bf use to do that and he was chatting with this girl we both agreed he not talk too or his ex wifes. i began too snoop and found evidence and he still denied it. i became a person i did not want to be, the snooper, and he became more sneeky. we broke up. this is just my experience. but the gutt instint is almost always right.

kja63

Ut oh -- warning bells are going off!

The next time it happens, POLITELY ask your bf to allow you to see the Caller ID on his cell phone and to hit the auto-redial feature to see who called him. If he balks, then you have your answer!

blue violet

that is a red light, saying STOP now,move on with your life, he is cheating.

Mrs. M

Sounds like he has something or someone to hide...this may sound wrong but the next time he is asleep or in the shower , check out what calls have come in and from whom...Then you will know

Mysterious

Some people use to do this ,well i think you can go after him and listen to his conversations .....silly huh?

tom a

He's probably hiding something from you....and if he's really good at it you may never discover what that is. That could explain his getting mad and defensive...and it's his way of getting you to stop bringing the subject up. You need to evaluate how much you like this guy and how much you want to stay in the relationship....trust is a hard issue. Examine other patterns of behavior that he has displayed since you've been together that could indicate whether or not he is trustworthy. good luck

Danielle

My boyfriend of 4 years does the same thing. He has to walk around and talk at the same time. He even does it with his family. It angered me in the beginning of our relationship, but I learned to get used to it. He wasn't doing anything wrong, but to me it felt like he was. I am sure it is the same for your situation. Don't confront him, just mention it to him casually. Or follow him around, pretend you need to get something from the room he is in, once you realize there is nothing to worry about then you will accept his need to walk and talk.

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