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My Boyfriend is Boring...Help!!?

I'm dating someone who I consider to be a great guy. He's kind, respectful, a gentleman and a good listener. There's just one problem...he's a tad bit boring from time to time. (I prefer to take life by the horns, while he prefers to sit back and observe) I don't want to just break up with him b/c I think he has a lot of good qualities. What should I do? Or should I just move on?


    




Katie M
If you think he's boring now, just wait until you've been with him for 5 years.
Life is short, find someone who can keep up with you. He may be a good guy and have good qualities but that doesn't mean he's "the one".


smallcocklongtongue4444
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well, maybe if you'd leave the backdoor unlocked once in a while he'd lighten up


Nichole
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It sounds like even though he's a good guy he isn't right for you. Could you imagine marrying someone that you find boring? Move on and cut your ties now before you hurt him too much.


Aimes
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you want different things out of life - so move on


The African Queen
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It depends on whether you want to just have something for fun right now or a serious relationship. If you want a serious relationship, he sounds like something you could get used to & you could probably get him to have a little fun with you. If you only want a fun boyfriend for a little while, move on.


nancy_aguirre3
sounds like the same bf my friend has and to be honest she can be really boring too! ive never met anyone so boring like her bf...and quite frankly idk why shes with him...he controls her and never wants to han gout with me and my bf....idk..u should run!


witchychick
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Help yourself and move on before you have a boring husband!


KJ
I love my Toyota Camry.
It starts when it's -30 degrees out.
It takes me from point A to B in reasonable comfort, and very reliable... and it didn't cost me an arm and leg.

but time to time, i miss my 1970 Mach I Mustang with 428 and cobra-jet intake... but i can't possibly make this my daily commuter.

It's your choice.

plain but good guy, or unreliable but fun guy.


Keeping it real
move on


Mack Daddy
Sounds like a terrific deal he sounds great. You should stay with him. I like the ideal that he likes
to sit back and observe)


shane
Man Yogurt gave the same answer I was going to give. Word for word.


Invisigoth
I know plenty of go getters who are happy with their observers and they don't view them as boring because they bring other valuable things to the relationship.

that you describe him as boring means you don't appreciate and respect him for himself and he doesn't bring something that you value to the relationship that makes him worthwhile to you.

move on.





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