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OK so i've been in relationship with my man for over a year and a half. And he is my second boyfriend not to metion he also invited me to europe with his family...I know perfect etc..and for some reason my ex comes back wanting to talk to me??
I know so weird b/c we've broken up for 4 years already and he lives in Mexico as well (i live in US) and well i was kinda still talking to him like off and on messenger right? and then i met this guy i was interested in (now boyfriend) so i felt it was only right to cut off my ex once and for all. So i told him i could not be friends anymore and that it was pointless to keep talkin and that was it. Which was a year and a half ago and now last week he messages me sayin to forget what i said and for us to be friends again..??

I dont understand what his motive was and "supposedly" he's in a relationship of 5 months so what the hell??
Help me understand..and by the way he used to tell me to leave him alone so i did and now he wants me in his life???

Please help. Its getting me so confused nd i really love the man im with but why would my ex do this to me??!

P.S: My boyfriend also knows and ironicly they both got jealous off each but i did block my ex i just cant help to wonder why he did this??!
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I want to be with my boyfriend but idk why its killing me inside to know why he wanted to come back..??

WOWZA!

Maybe he just can't accept the fact that you're happy and he wants to be. He might not be happy with this girl he's been with and thinks he can come in and have a chance with you. I wouldn't talk to him. It's been 4 years and you have a great thing with your boyfriend now, don't jeopardize it !

Somebody

The real question is - whom do you want to be with - your ex or current boyfriend. Don't let his contacting you again marr your judgement.

pitosunshine

men don't like to hear the word "No"!
its very odd but it makes us want you even more!!!
he'll be fine, its just a man thing you wouldn't understand, he doesn't like the fact that he is losing to this dude in europe but its nothing more then an ego trip. it'll pass don't feel bad!!!
i hope this helped you but understand that for us men its always ALWAYS a competition and we always aim to win!!!
have fun and be safe!!!

yoadriannejohnson

he wants his green card. why do you feel confused. drop the x like he dropped you

Danika

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