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My (Faithful Husband) cheated on me! ?????????

We been married 3 years , And I thought I was doing everything in my marriage. FRom the beginning he always cheated on me, and I took him back. Then he became abusive, I put A restraining on him.Then in time I took him back , this time he gave me a disease. We dont have children together,And Im very confused. What should I do?


    




April K
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You need counseling. You need to get over him and move on to a man who appreciates you and treats you like you deserve to be treated. You are taking him back over and over and nothing good seems to happen...Thank God he hasn't killed you yet. LEAVE HIM! FOR GOOD!


Harrison
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Divorce him! Are you kidding me? Go see a doctor or a free clinic and get treated. Do not sleep with him again.


Legandivori
Codependents Anonymous is the place. Look them up on line. They have virtually free twelve step meeting all over the place. Start attending regularly a few different ones.

You must learn about your codependency, your behaviors, and learn to change them...You have, most likely low self esteem, and it can carnage to a great one As long as you will risk leaving this loser. You are an enabler. In some 12 stops groups, it means giving junk food to the overweight, a cigarette to someone trying to quit, etc.l


butterfliesRfree
Get out and get medical attention and start loving YOURSELF.


Jay-Jay♥
welcome to the club =( im separating from my oh so faithful hubby & like u i took him back 4xs. as for me im getting a divorce lawyer pretty soon. you should too.


I do 26.2
Call a divorce attorney. Guys like that never change. You deserve better.


Lisa b
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Cheating, a restraining order, a disease...what are you confused about??????


Kate
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Dionne, I am really hoping you are some kid with a computer just making up wack questions.

But if you're serious, and this is not a troll post, I am deeply sorry for you. What you should do is see an attorney and get counseling. Don't go back again.


Cliff R
Get a lawyer. Get out and live your life.


lost 1
Take Him Back LOL


Zaferus
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He's abusive, cheated on you and gave you a disease.

Don't you think you deserve better? A lot better?


cfalways
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girl. he ain't never gonna change. he will always be the same cheatin abusive a$$hole that he always will be. you need to kick him to the curb once and for all. some people need to lose EVERYTHING and everyone before they change. you are doing nothing to help you or this situation by continuing to take him in. YOU NEED TO GROW A SPINE AND SOME BRASS BALLS. there is no confusion in this situation. if you would rather be unhappy for the rest of your life then by all means keep taking him back. if you want to be happy for once...then kick him to the curb. and take yourself to the doctor to get that disease checked out. you are responsible for yourself in this world. you are all you need to survive.


1Glamourgirl
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OH my sweetie wake-up and get out of this marriage from the darkest place on earth or you just may in up 6 feet under... He's not worthy of you and Thank God you don't have children with him or they may beaten too... God will fine you a real man get involved in a Church and make new Christian friends... Sorry! to say this but this man is a big LOSER... I know one of my sister married a man just like yours and he almost killed my sister and my sister will never be the same it breaks my heart to see my sister adding crazy because of what he did to her, she should have been dead but God had his hands on her life Thank you God in Jesus Christ Amen and I pray for this lady too God help make a plan first and get away far away as you can run Forest RUN and get another restraining order on him not that they help.. and notify the police Dept... ASAP


duran_reviews
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darling please.......wake up and smell the house burning down this is more than just a pot of beans burning..........if he cheated in the beginning that in itself should have been enough for you. once a cheater always a cheater. a fox will never become a sheep. now that he has become abusive is another reason to get out while you are still alive, the next time you may not be so lucky. more women die from abusive relationships than any other cause. i hope that it is treatable what ever you caught. count your blessing that you do not have any children with this man. get out before he takes your life by abuse or another disease.


Mother of three
You are the blessest woman on earth, you don have children. You don't need that selfish person in your life, let him play his little games by himself.


jtease
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Leave. Get a divorce. You started your marriage wrong he already cheated on you so once a cheater always a cheater. You can do better.


Dr.PhilwithBoobsDueInJune
Why do you allow him to treat you this way? Get out if you stay you are condoning the behavior. Make a stand and leave.


peaches
How can U be confused? Re-read UR own question - the answer in obvious. Get professional help, U sound like UR suffering from "battered wife syndrome"... get out now and NEVER take him back! Stop being FOOL.It's women like U who end up "dead". Take care of YOURSELF... get out NOW!


Gloria H
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Get a divorce lawyer now.


heather S
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Dump him!! you deserve better,


Jai
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Run as fast as you can from him.


Killer Queen
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i think you were actually looking for it.
What? he did it before and u actually ended up marrying the guy? What does it take for a woman to dumb a cheter and a liar? i dont get it...


mobildik
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Why are you still with him? Do you like be abused?

Move out and get a divorce lawyer.


daisee1203
I'm sorry to hear this has happened but you need to take care of yourself. Taking someone back over and over again, exposing yourself to abuse (both physically and emotionally) is not good for you and on some level you have to know this. I don't think children are a reason to stay married, but you don't have them so just get out. I know its a really hard thought to swallow but really, do you want to do this for the rest of your life? Really?

Hugs


vote NO for hilary cllinton
RUN AND HIDE HES A MONSTER IN DISGUISE HOW SCARY IS THAT SERIOULY HIDE!!!


Kathy R
Dionne - go to www.divorcecare.org and find a local church where you can gather with other people going through similar or (believe it or not) even more severe situations than yourself. Even if you are not Christian or don't attend church, you will find plenty of folks going down this same road. If you have any trouble with the site, please email me directly @rollwagedc@yahoo.com


John M
se a doctor, get help, and then a head doctor is in line for both of you, for different reasons if you want to keep this marriage together.


YUMMY1
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Punch yourself in the face for being so stupid and taking him back over and over then leave this douche bag and never look back!!!





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