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tylrshmk
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yes you should bring it up....cause if she i not telling you than there might be something shady going on..but try not to aruge and let her explain herself |
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Chryssie♥
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Bring it up! There is nothing worse than a liar |
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what ever!
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totally bring it up |
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Tsuki
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yea ask her |
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Gillian
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yea you really should. ye should never keep any secrets. |
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Jizzle
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I had a similar situation, but it wasn't her ex-husband (which i would assume is more of a reason for concern). My girlfriend (now ex- ) was texting her previous boyfriend of 2 years. At first she told me every time and all was fine, but 6 months later she stopped letting me know and ultimately I caught them in bed together a month later. I am not saying this is what is going on, but it is worth bringing up at least. I wish I would have said something ... |
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mamaz
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hell yea you should its over so no need to talk |
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Erik Williams
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bring it up and tell her to stop before it gets to serious. |
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omaira m
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If you guys are seriouse then i think you should. dont sound upset or demanding just bring it up casually and if it bothers u also tell her but in a very calm way |
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DrChele
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yes you should bro u don't want it to go worse |
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The T
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bummer....yea bring it up |
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Future Rich Girl
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Do they have children together? If so, communication between them is acceptable. If not, then I would mention it in a calm way. |
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Rusty
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a good relationship is based upon communication, being able to talk openly...however if youre afraid of what may be the truth, then maybe you shouldn't..youre between a rock and a hard place...but if you are suspicious then you should confront her in a gentlemanly manner.. |
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kirsty likes betty boop
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this is wot happend to me i told him i was uncomfterbul about there calls and then he took it well. and they stopped for a year then it happend again then i stared to date someone else coz i found out that they were dirty talking.i wanted to get back at him he is just coming to talk about it
take my advice |
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Harry
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Yeah, and read what they're texting too. |
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Preg#2,due29/11/09
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1st off saying you checked the records will make her think you do not trust her , so approach her & ask if she has heard anything from him lately she may just tell you . If she doesn't & denies it all then mention the records that you were checking something else & saw it.
if she doesn't have children with the ex then there really is no need to be keeping in touch unless they have remained civil which again wouldnt need texts x |
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John W
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You're screwed. Yes, I would definitely make an issue of it. |
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Lekebie
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Hell yes bring it up. Do they have any good reason to still be talking to each other? They should have just stayed married if they get along so well (you have permission to use that line)! |
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Mikki No. 674♥
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i think u should only bring it up if she seems preoccupied around u if not there probably just trying to be friends |
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Braniac Pipe Layer
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he's gonna stroke her...do something...fast |
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jewel
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yesssss |
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sweetie
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25 text a month aren't alot. Would you have a problem with them remaining friends? I mean as long as you know she loves you and not him I don't see a problem with it and its just going to show to her that you don't trust her and your not very self confident. No one can tell you weather or not to tell her but really it doesn't seem like a issue to me that I would be willing to bring up. |
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Panky39
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Oh yes you should ask her about it! A good relationship doesn't have any lying in it! Don't yell or be mean about it, but just ask her outright about the texting and tell her exactly how you feel about it! I don't think texting is good between the exs!! I would put a stop to it soon, or it will get out of hand quickly! |
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Heather
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Yeah bring it up. Suprise her and tell her you want to look at her phone.
If ALL of the texts are erased, theres something up.
If the texts that are there dont add up with the texts on the bill, somethings up.
If all the texts are there and dont seem suspictious... dont worry.
Just... be careufl about it. |
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alchemy
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a relationship cant work without trust.
do they have kids? that would justify the texts
if not maybe you should ask her if she still has feelings for him.
there is no use wasting your time, but at the same time 25 texts isnt a bunch, if it was 250 then i would think the worst. |
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bridget f
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Ask her is she has heard from him lately, then depending on what she says go from there. |
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lilcoombsy
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Just let it go man... My gf texts her ex bf of about 2 years that was the only person she talked to for a very long time so I was understanding and shes now starting to get closer and closer to me cause she knows I trust her |
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D R. F O S T E R ;
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ok what i would do is
first bring it up ramdomly like say you were eating with her and say .
i saw your ex-husband today and the markey or whatever and start asking her if she has been talking to him lately BUT DONT TELL HER YOU LOOKED AT HER TEXTS she will think that your invading her privacy and thats wrong cause
if you need more help just message on my yahoo :) |
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dubbhottie
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if they had kids.. then maybe it could be about them. if not then yea bring it up, but dont loose yourself, just let her have it calmly and if she cant be woman enough o give you an explanation, then leave her alone, only 6 months apart isnt a long time to get over a husband.... move on you can do better |
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Brian
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Its not a real divorce if they still like each other enough to text. divorce is suppouse to be a grumpy hating thing. A kind of evil; that only should be mutually shared by both seperatedf partners. |
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