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My Husband Is A Loser?

He is totally worthless and has failed at life.
A monkey with no arms could do literally ANY job better than he could.
Do any employers out there want to hire a big fat worthless slob who will sit around the workplace like a blob all day long? If so my husband is available.
I just feel sorry for the world that someone so stupid and useless is in it.
Some pertinent information about my husband:
Accomplishments: 0
Special skills: 0
Any redeemable qualities: 0
Fat rolls: Too many to count
I am 40 and my husband is 44.
We have been married for 18 bad years. Does anyone have any advice for me?


    




jude
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if u feel this way about him, may be time to divorce him before u get too old and set in your ways. employers don't want a person like this, no hope for him with all these people out there who are willing to work.


itsmetrea
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Get a job and leave take care of yourself.


blueberry
why is he still your husband? i don't know who to feel sorry for between you two


nuclearbroods
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His Wife sounds like a loser too.


nanakschd
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Maybe your husband would do better in life if he had a supportive wife that believed in him and did not criticize him so much. Behind every successful man is a good wife. Help him to make changes and tell him you believe in him. A person that is beat down and constantly hears it begins to believe it and instead of changing they become exactly what you make them out to be. If constantly told you are a loser you lose faith in yourself. I imagine with your view of him , his self esteam is at an all time low.


Piggy
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What are your accomplishments, skills, redeeming features?
You sound like a nag and a whiner. What do you contribute to the marriage other than misery?


~Charity~
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Do him a favor and divorce him. I'm sure your negative attitude isn't helping him AT ALL. Are you THAT great?


Mrs_Jester
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If you would even disrespect the man that YOU married on a public website like you just did, then you need to get out, because regardless of what he does, you are not worthy of him!


Swirlybirdman
Rather than talk mad crap about him, why dont you help him. Thats what most people do, they try to HELP the other LOVED ONE rather than talk mad dirt. No wonder why the guy is a bum he deals with you.


It's me
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You obviously don't even like your husband, so how can you love him? Just get out of the marraige...


oh my!
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Get a divorce


ღ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ღ
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Be a friend and hep him. We have to except people for the way they are. It is upsetting at times but getting mad doesn't help the situation any. It is also not very good for you. There is tests he can do that will tell him what jobs he would be good at. Try looking at the good parts and bring them out. Just my suggestion. I wish you both good luck. Please don't get upset. It's not worth it.


Kristiane-Cubical ninja
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Hmmm, well if he is that bad, it says a lot about your judgement of character. It also speaks volumes that you come and slander him to a bunch of strangers.
If he is that bad, leave. Or realize that water usually sinks to its own level and look at yourself and why you have spent nearly two decades with someone you obviously have no respect for?


Julie
get a divorce if he's that bad


SharpGuy
40 is still plenty of time to find another relationship. Sounds like theres no point in the relationship if thats your opinion of him.


Clevis Dillard esq.
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My advice: have him run for Congress. He's perfect for the job.


thatartistwin
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You are nothing if not honest Mrs. Diamond. LOL Did you ever consider leaving your Yahoo Answers profile open so he could run accross your questions just incase he has even the slightest glimmer of a hope that you have any love left for him? :)


CwboyBill
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I still don't understand what the problem is....


He sounds like all my friends -- (actually, he may be one of them....)


Pocky
I suggest you become Annie Wilkes from "Misery", and act accordingly.


☺ Jaker Maker ☺
Well, the one redeeming quality is that if you are quarantined, you will always have a secret stash of foods in his rolls. That's gotta be good for something right?

(:


Dark_Light09
Well thats not very nice to say about your husband
maybe he would be better off without a gold digging s.l.u.t like you!


T@zz
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He should contact ACORN or his Democrat party county commiteeman. The Democrat party needs more people like him.


Mrs. Mink to be..
get a divorce!


Harry Potter Maniac
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Um, well you seemed to have answered you're own question. My advice, do what's best for you, if you're not happy, get out of their and make your self happy.


Mac
i think you answered your own question.dump him and get on with your life what makes you happy.i assume you already tried to fix the problem.are you the same 18 years later?


dollymizner
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If you arent happy, try to fix it. Work on fixing it together, but if it leads to divorce, then that might be the way to go. dont deal with more then you can handle


that boom boom pow
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sounds like your disappionted in the marriage. if u don't like him then get a divorce. tell him that he needs to do something with his life


chamriv
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get out before he drags you down too.


Penny♥Lane
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Hmmmm........ advice....Leave him!! There's nothing to work on by the sounds of it, you sound like you absolutely detest him, can he really be that bad?? You're still young, so get out of your miserable marriage and do something you have a passion for. Neither of you deserve to be in this relationship if you're not happy.

I'm not married yet, but my biggest fear in life is being with someone I can't stand to see, hear, touch and spend my life with. I do feel for you. You have one option, you just need to take action. Good luck. x


Mseger
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WOW my sugestion is to leave. Its sounds like you tow have nothing for each other left. Leave before it only gets worse. Good luck and wish you the best.


BlankBriton
have u got a kid? dont break up if u do specialy if the kids name is james


Sara
Think about it, you married the loser so what does that say about you. With your attitude you'll probably attract another loser so stay with the one u married & go see a counsellor to quit bashing your husband. Your self fuifilling negativity is making your situation worse. Your husband probably has severe depression living with your bit@# Azz





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