My Husband cheated on me whith both my pregnancies....?
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My Husband cheated on me whith both my pregnancies....?
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I am currently 9 weeks pregnant with our second child. The first time he cheated on me i was 21 he was 23 and the girl he cheated on me with was a 17year old. This time he is 25 i am 23 and the girl is 21. i Feel like people think i am over reacting, he lied to me about the extent of the cheating he said just a peck on the lips then later find out they made out and the 17 year old stopped him from going ne farther. It was really hard cuz i was on bed rest and very lonely then he just went out and did that. now he says nothing happend with this new chick but he intitally lied about her too he said he didn't see her then come to find out they went on a date! i don't know what else happend but i am trying to find out! i can't believe him. i have made up my mind to get a divorce for sure and nothing anyone can say would make me change my mind i just want to know how many of you would do the same? i have been faithfull the whole time and tried to get him to go to counciling to help with other martital probs,
o and btw he didn't tell me for 2 and a half years and i got to the bottum of it!
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i just found out he cheated both times last week i didn't know when i got pregnant we were trying for 9 months with fertility drugs and all I was very shocked!
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jude
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i totally agree with u, there is no way u are going to be able to put the marriage back together, plus he lied and covered it up, that's sometimes the straw that broke the camels back. |
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Queen of Beer
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Why did you get pregnant the second time? By the way...what he did was ILLEGAL. |
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YOU'RE a towel!
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I'd be more worried as to why my grown *** husband hooked up with a child than anything. Cheating is cheating and you should have booted him then- the fact that she was 17 is disgraceful, disgusting and immoral...and illegal. |
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tinkergirlbella
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Cheating on a pregnant women is one of the lowest ways a man could cheat and cheating itself is pretty low. Stop talking about it to those people who tell you are over reacting. |
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Nadia
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So sorry to hear this but I'm sure I echo what most would say here: get out of this relationship! 'Nuf said...... |
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mms13
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well your doing the right thing i would of definitely of left befor when u were pregnant the first time but speaking of right now you should get a divorce "!
you dont deserve this neither does ur kids !"
he will come back begging u back when he realizes what he lost |
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daljack -a girl
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Oh yes.....I would definitely divorce him.
He's not ready to be in a committed relationship and staying with him puts your health at risk. You have no idea what kind of STD he's bringing home with him. |
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♡ ту & яι'ѕ мαмα ♡
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I would've left him the first time around.
If you think you are doing the right thing, then go ahead with the divorce. If he can't be faithful then give him the boot. If you don't stand your ground, he'll never stop and keep cheating. |
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Honey
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I wouldn't have reacted that way. My impression of cheating is larger than just my spouse going on a date with another women. I would've been most upset about him lying to me rather than if he confessed to almost sleeping with somebody.
If it had happened as long as ago as your situation, it probably wouldn't bother me too much at all. Well, I would've been bothered but I probably wouldn't have reacted. |
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ahmad h
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If i where u , i will look at what will be the best for my kids. I guess my kids deserve to live with a dad and a mum. Sure it is hard to live with a cheating husband, just give him a last chance for changing. try to improve your relationship , try having a vacation and start a new life. If no change happens then unfortunately you have no other choice but divorce. |
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Blue T
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I think that you should forget about it. Think of the children. I think he is a rat, but very few people are happier after they divorce. You will likely not get another man who is any better. |
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