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My Partner wont marry me....because of my name....?

Hi i'm russel, my long term partner, colleen ( coli ) does not want to marry me purley because of my name. We have a son together, Brockley , he also is not keen for us to change anything.
I do understand her their concerns but coli says she would be embarresed if her name was called out at doctors or dentists etc.
My surname is Sprout, ok not the best name, but should it be reason enough for us not to become a familly. Her maiden name was cheaze and did not like that either, but said i can take her married name instead of mine, Florrette. I dont think names should be an issue.......


    




AT
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cheers for the giggle well thought of have a good day


Brooke's Mommy
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my last name is jablowme. my dad's first name was haywood and my mom married him!


fierylegs
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Are u serious!!! Sounds like u have a whole mess of veggies at ur home!!!


BettieRulz
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dude amazing.


Rockhead
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Why don't you asked advice from your parents, Mr and Mrs. Turnip and Brussel Sprout (also known as your mum and dad).


?
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If I took this at all seriously I would be a fool at best..Brockley Sprout? Russel Sprout? If it was true though I'd take the name cause it would be cool in a humour sense.


SurfCop
Like it. Your bored aren't you.


vvvlambert
you really are bored.


cheryl
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lol My ex is called Russel and when my sister took our kid on holiday she sent him a postcard and called him Russel Sprout!! I was pissin my self and when I asked her why she said she thought thats what it was cuz it rung a bell!!! The postie must have been pissin himself too!!

I cant believe the people on here takin it seriously hahaha


mommato4boys
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HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! Thanks for the laugh!


ladysteelersince1976
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LMAO! Good one! And to think I almost answered it. Thank goodness I read it a second time. Thanks for the 2 pts.


katehughes2706
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Oh boy, you know I actually believed you until I got to the "Florette" bit.

cute!


mommightknow
that must have taken a lot of time to come up with. Bravo on your creativity and your imagination.


lavenderroseford
LOL - what a funny guy you are!


Baby Angel
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funny, how long did it take you to think of that?


Queen Victoria of Port
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LOL. Oh that's good! You've made me smile, thank you.


giftfromgod
You don't have enough to do


bull
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you can call yourselves,Mr, and Mrs goulash


kookiboo
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Awww you sound like two peas in a pod to!


Karen?
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Lettuce see.....I cannot produce a good answer to this. If she is really the apple of your eye, then the pear of you could get out of this pickle.


iamalion
I think this is really a very silly argument. If you two want to marry then you do, and you find a compromise with the name. In many countries there is no need for the spouses to change their names. And if she does not like your name, then why dont you take hers? or make up a new one that you both like? I mean... what the hell! are you going to let that get in the way to your goals? Think twice.


juls
one thing she don't have to take your last name. but it is pretty inmuture reason you maybe in luck don't sound like she is muture enough for marriage


Angel
My name was Castro. How would you like that name... and yes, I'm first generation american. I'm white, but still. I married into Rutherford and that's better.. .but do you know how many people don't know their presidents?! Rutherford B. Hayes. 19th president. I'm forever having to SPELL it to them!


MrsFrye
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Most brides don't have to change their last name anymore. It's becoming more and more popular these days. However, your partner should really accept all of you no matter what if you are going to have a healthy successful relationship.Names should definitely not be an issue. Good Luck!


gweneth lynn paltfeir
do you have better stuff to do other than this?


Tired of lies
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What?


kim
NEXT


nert
She doesn't have to take your name if she doesn't want to.


Wisdom
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I kept my maiden surname,West. my hubby kept his - johnson...


Erica, AKA Stretch
Names should NOT be an issue! There may be other things going on that she is using the last name excuse to cover her real reasons. Legally you can change your name(s) to anything you want. If I wanted to I could legally change my name to Elizabeth Smith, which is not something I want to do...but legally I could.

My husband and I have no issues with our last names. I am using my Maiden name along with his last name and my WHOLE last name. When is he ready he will take my maiden name and put it with his last name as well. A lot of couples combine last names as one. Or you could combine letters in both your last names and create a whole new last name.





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