My b/f drug deals?

Dana A

You should tell him he needs to choose between a life of crime and you. He needs to get an education and make something of himself. Most drug dealers get caught eventually.

Dana (M.S. Marriage and Family Therapy)

missmel

Run! As Fast As You Can!

*sparkles*

from personal experience ....... end it with him, harsh but the best thing for u as this is bugging you

s and d e

duh---dump him. "he's going to cut all this off soon"---not gonna happen. forget about him, make yourself the priority. if you stay with him, you will end up dead or in jail--believe me, he won't sacrifice himself for you.

Jerry M

consider breaking up with him, drug dealers end up dead or in jail.

Jennie

LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

~NIKKI~

Tell him to put A LOT of that money aside and save it up !!! Trust me he will need every penny of it for lawyers!!!

And i do mean Every Penny that he makes will go to lawyers fees (if he is as big into it as you say he is) so he might as well earn his money the honest way and keep it for himself

J'adore

um he's not going to cut all this off soon for you.. it's his way of life ... it's his source of income and a free... you should stop considering being so naive... i spent my teen years living with drug dealers... they normally don't change..... even after spending years in jail.

Rhonda L

brack up and go with some who is better.

nervousenergy73

run away now and don't look back addicts will NEVER change!!

litl m

Get out of Dodge. Do not even consider it just do it.

BabeHeart

Why the hell are you dating a drug dealer? Think of the kids whose lives are ruined by people like him.

Move on and make better choices in the future.

Sydney

Dump him. He's not worth it. What will you do if he goes to jail? Or if someone comes after him?

everybody loves 3000

3 months is nothing. leave this guy before you get labeled "retarded".

Perigee

Well how big of a drug dealer is he? If he makes more than $2000; especially if he makes more than $4000 a month; he's not going to leave the game. Sorry, that's just the truth...if he makes less, then it's not like a total prosperous job for him and will probably quit it for you. But if he makes more....I am sorry, I've just rarely even seen it go good for the girl when it comes to pushers with lots of money.

So if he makes alot...then leave him, he won't really leave the game. Oh yes, if he makes alot of money...he's cheated on you at some point.

Doodlebug

It sounds like you hate the way he makes his money...but you like the money....
Soooooooooo, you need to decide what to do....
It's risky, staying with a drug dealer....you could go to jail right along with him...especially if he keeps the drugs in your house....
Then YOU TOO will lose everything...and you'll be sitting in jail asking yourself "Why didn't I leave when I thought about doing it?"..
The money that he brings in is great, I am sure...but you know what? Money ain't everything...and it certainly can't buy your freedom....and it's ironic that because of this money and the way he obtains...YOU RUN THE RISK OF LOSING YOUR FREEDOM.

I mean really, do you want to be behind bars? For years? Because he got caught with maybe a kilo in your house....that's 10 years in jail, at least....so you've got some pondering to do....
And let me remind you....you don't know what he is doing on the streets...I mean, he could rip some body off and really piss them off, then they could come to your house, and take it out on you in god knows how many kinds of ways...so you'd better be careful...
So, do you like the money more? Or do you value your freedom and peace of mind????????

nick g

you havnt got a say in what he does. Its his life and he's got a good lifestyle and everything that goes with it. Why would he quit for someone he has known for 3 months?

When you started dating him, you knew or you found out he was dealing and you continuing to date him when you know what he does, is like saying I dont mind, even though you do.

Its doent sound like romeo and juliet to me :(

puppysyndrome

In my opinion there is nothing to consider!! Move on........and quickly. No good can come of this. Girls/women dont have to settle for this kind of relationship..........we deserve more and we deserve better!

dmj_369

Get out while you have time!

romababe2001

Drug dealer? And you are OKAYYY with this? You might want to consider how l@@king out of bars feel...since you could get into a bit of trouble being with someone that does this. If you are with him at the wrong place at the wrong time...good luck to ya!

NoseyNelly

If you think he's going to just stop, you really need to rethink some things. If you decide to stay, realize your accepting the things that go on.

~â™¥Truckers Wifeâ™¥~

I think you need to explain to him that this is dangerous... and that you could get hurt while he is doing this,,,

Craig D

Get the hell away from this loser as fast as you can! With the life he's living, he's going to prison or an early grave. What if someone comes to do him in while he's with you? That's right, you become a victim of a violent crime as well! Get away from him ASAP!!!!! Good luck!

Machaira

Do you really need to ask what to do?!? You shouldn't be having anything to do with him, plain and simple.

xxmummy08xx

Leave him!! xx

Salt&Pepper Apricot

Leave, unless you want to be arrested with him. Like he's really going to stop doing this for a 3 month fling. He ain't gonna stop just because you want him to. That is not how they work. They stop when THEY want to, and to heck with everyone else. And most of the time they never stop. And I don't believe for a second that "everything is good except..." See, that's a HUGE deal. You could get killed should there be a bad drug deal somewhere. Druggies don't care who they kill to get to the dealer that they think cheated them. Is that what you want? This should be a no brainer. Most people wouldn't have ever started dating a drug dealer. Or they'd break up the minute they found out they ARE dating a drug dealer.

Fujoshi

I understand that it isn't an "instant death sentence" like some people would try to tell you...

There are millions of drug dealers around the country and they don't all end up going in a hail of gun fire...

But enough of them do that I would be worried... REALLY worried...

You can be used against him by the Police, The DEA, his rivals, the people he gets his drugs from, people that want to black mail him into getting drugs or money...

If you don't end up in court testifying against him then you might just end up in a coffin or in Jail as an accomplice if he has ever had drugs in your house or ever sold drugs from your car or even if you ever even SAW him with/sell drugsâ€¦ The pigâ€™s donâ€™t care that you had nothing to do with itâ€¦ They will use the charges to â€˜turnâ€™ you on himâ€¦ then turn him on his superiorsâ€¦

Donâ€™t â€œAbandonâ€ him like some people will tell you to do but make it clear that he is putting your life and freedom at riskâ€¦ And that you wonâ€™t put up with that.

Good luck!

silent6970

It depends how long he has been dealing. The longer he has been dealing, the harder it will be for him to stop. Also, what education background does he have and what willingness does he REALLY have to get an actual job. I live in a low class town, pretty much a high crime rate town, and I know plenty of old friends that kick the habit only after they were arrested. Most though keep dealing because of the money it brings in....
Now on the relationship side. How are you possibly sure he is not cheating? There is not much communication through the phone and you do not see him as much...and only at night? There is a high likely chance that he is using you. Drug dealing is not an all day thing (barely more than 3-4 hours)How long have you known him before dating? If its only 5 months and you've been dating for 3, then how good do you really know him?
Take yourself out of your position....now ask yourself what would you do if he doesn't stop? What would you do if he was actually cheating on you? If you can deal with the risk, then stay. If not, then question your relationship.

Eddie B

its very dangerous being around him. tell him your breaking up with him and leave.

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