My bestfriend cheated on wife at my bachelor party?

It's a sure thing

I agree with sending an anonymous note! He'l probably deny the whole thing and she'll stand by him but at least you did something and you won't feel so guilty.

SweetGGirl

You tell your best friend "Tell Lauren by the end of next week, or I will."

People continue to get away with this Sh!t because no one will hold them accountable, so make him accountable.

JesCe

coming from a female knowing that would break my heart......but I would rather know then walk around like an idiot.

clio

You've told it to us, now forget it.
Sooner or later she will find out that he is the kind of man who cannot be trusted. This won't be the only time he has cheated on her just because he thought he could get away with it; in his mind, if she doesn't know, it doesn't count. He's the kid who sticks his hand in the cookie jar every time he thinks no one's looking. Eventually she WILL find out, though. If you are really his friend you should mention this to him, but you are unlikely to change his ways.

cjmessy

Have you ever heard the phrase::: Don't shoot the messenger.

They say that because everyone gets mad at the messenger. You will ruin your relationship with your best friend, and the wife will probably decide to forgive him (although she won't really), but will never want to see you again!

Sit your friend down and tell him what he did was totally not cool. You respect his wife and his marriage, and you don't want to see him ruin it. After that he would certainly not do anything in front of you again. Tell him if he cheats again, you will tell his wife.

Monday Monday

Why is it bothering you? did you want some head too. Mind your own business as you don't want to come between a husband and wife, she will find out so enough without your input. In the meantime take care of your happy home keep your wife happy. And be a friend to your friend, and keep your mouth shut.

John P D

keep your mouth shut. It is THEIR relationship and you need to keep out of it. As for the stripper, if you are looking and thinking about her, you cheating in your heart if not with your body.

Mandy

You cant tell on your friend, stay out of it, it's none of your business.

Ocimom

That's his problem - not yours. You were wise to turn it down. I feel sorry for his wife. That is why so many wives, gfs, etc hate bachelor parties and what goes on.

I think its very wrong to encourage cheating at any kind of party. If you would not normally do this kind of thing, why would you do it then? Too bad you couldn't have a tamer party.

I would just tell your friend that the right thing to do would be to confess to his wife. Is this guy IN your wedding? If not, I would not invite him to the wedding and if he asks, tell him why.

consider_this_today

Well, you have to make up your own mind, but think of these things.

1. People get by with so much because everyone else is afraid to say anything or speak up about what they know is wrong.

2. Put yourself in the wifes shoes? Would you want to be told your mate was cheating on you?

3. Never let anyone else put you in the spot of being forced to facilitate their doing badly or wrongly. You do not need to feel badly about doing what is right and you should never let the wrongdoer make you feel as if you did badly toward them by doing the right thing. Infact, part of what wrongdoers count on is silence from everyone else.

4. Pick a better class of friends.

5. Evil abounds when good men do nothing.

6. Silence is also taken as silent approval.

7. Doing the right thing is never easy and it usually will not make you popular. If it was easy or made you popular, everyone would do it. What you have to decide is what kind of person you want to be and then follow the path that helps you be that person you wish to be.

Annie

Do not tell his wife. He had very poor judgement at best. Just tell him that if he does anything loike that again, you will tell her. Then let it go. I think you were very strong to avoid this mess. Good luck to you.

xo_cuddly_kitten_xo

If he cheats once, he will cheat again! Tell his wife before she finds out!

IndyGirl

Keep your mouth shut.
He's the bad boy; you're just the HELPER.