My bf cheated and the gyrl is pregnant i love him but i cant except it what should i do?

Niki C

Dump him. He doesn't deserve you, and he has some other issues to deal with.

sshazzam

Ya have more respect for yourself. This man screwed another woman and now has a baby. He is a big turd, leave him.

He doesn't respect you or your relationship together.

stessie

I KNOW this hurts but You have to move on with Your life because he has made his family whether he meant to or not it has already been done I am so sorry GOOD LUCK

missthang

This is the kind of situation no one wants to get into. Sorry no one can tell u what to do. He did something very hurtful to you, and u have to ask urself if u can take that in the name of love. We do this to ourselves- stick with the guys- because we think there is no life outside that person, but honey there always is. I'll advice u to think with ur head not ur heart in this situation. pretty difficult, but u gotta analyze it 4 urself. Put ur future marriage and kids into the picture and if u still see urself with him, then u might stick around. But remember u want a man who'll be honest and loving not just to u, but to ur relationships. You don't wanna be scared that he'll cheat the moment u turn ur back. and u want ur kids to grow up in a loving and safe home. The power lies with u. You can do it.
p.s. don't blame urself either for his action. There is always a deciding moment when u can decide to 'do it' or not, and apparently he did it. You weren't there for a while- big deal. **** happens.- but u didnt cheat on him, He did.

You don't need these extra problems. It would never end, her calling and needing to see him all the time. And now he's going to have to pay child support, which will come from your budget. Don't blame the baby, I'm sure you know he/she is innocent. Did you cheat on him while you were away? If not then don't feel too sorry for him getting lonely and acting inappropriately. That was not your fault and you don't have to share in the consequences unless you want to. If you had become pregnant with another man's baby do you think he'd still want to marry you?

Dump him.

funlady6632

Sounds like you answered the question yourself...You can't except it so move on

smutmonkey71

leave him and dont turn back. Sorry but he cheated on you and worse still he could have got anything and infected you. Sounds a plank.

Myke

i say you should tell him exactly what you wrote here on your question. tell him to either work it out with the other girl before you get married, or you won't marry him.

Dark Lord

leave him.
maybe a better single guy is waiting for you ...

answerman63

Drop this guy like a bad habit. Otherwise you will only be miserable...and he'll just keep cheating after you are married anyway, so why put yourself through all of that? Break it off now before it gets any worse. There are lots of nice guys out there, and you deserve to have one of them.

Arianrhod

If he loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you. The magic is gone, it is time to move on.

Blue Jean

Your BF has to own up to his responsibilties. If he got another girl pregnant, he has to deal with it. Break your engagement and tell him to go support his lover-girl.
Long-distance relationships are very hard to keep going.

javelin

You already know the answer, now you just have to be strong and do it.

Spitfire

Experienced the joys of motherhood without the stretch marks
Perfect!

MOM WHO HAS HAD THE EXPERIENCE

My ex-husband cheated on me before we were married and for 10 years afterwards. I now look back and count them as "wasted" years with a loser. No matter what they say or promise, 99% chance it will happen again. How are you going to feel him having a child to support and share custody and have that constant contact with Mama? It will eat away at you and make you the most miserable, angry person you can imagine.
Three years after our divorce I found my soul-mate. He travels all over the world and I never doubt him for a minute. You know the difference when you have the "difference".

wmp55

Leave.

beebee

your question answers itself, he doesn't love you enough to be faithful , mush less a husband, AND HE BLAMES YOU!!!! for being away, he is also asn a....le

romadgo

DUMP THE FOOL OR YOU;LL BE HIS FOOL.

tsmitha1

We all want people to support us and agree with us, but you really don't have a question as to what you should do, do you?

It may not be easy, but I promise it will be easier than living with him in that situation. Or you can marry him and think about it again when you can't pay bills because he is sending $500 a month for child support.

ladyren

Dump him, what ARE you thinking???????????? (and by the way, learn to write English, huh? or do you always want to be at the bottom of the Food Chain--- rotten boyfriends, rotten jobs, no money..... etc., etc, get the idea???? The language of this country is English, spoken as heard from newscasters. Copy them, get yourself some education and a real salable skill, and get off the bottom, honey.... by doing do, you'll have a better job, better clothes, better car, nicer boyfriends, nicer friends...yadayadayada..)

crazzzy

Get on your merry way now. He is showing his true stripes. When the cat is away the mouse will play.

protbox

get rid of him, forget him. You deserve a better man - somewhere he's waiting for you. Let your ex take responsibility for the new life he started. He's going to be a father and you should be glad that he's not the one of your child. You'll find a better father of your children.

nicci_hull_87

he shouldve never cheated on you in the first place if he loved you, especially unprotected. what was he thinking. besides if you stayed with him, you would have to pay child support.

odette

get rid, he aint no man.

Babygirl

leave him... if he cheated once ,he could do it more ... btw u will always have in yr head a thought that he have child...

jeff402006

leave him....he will cheat again

lynda_is

break it off with him.

urbanbutterfly

I am so sorry for you. What an ***. Dont marry this man just yet. Marriage wont solve anything. Best wishes. Be strong you deserve much more than that.

kindastupid

leave him, and if he loves you he'll come for you

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