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clcalifornia
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Hey some people date for years and they bomb at marriage.
Others meet and quickly marry. It might be good to have a marathon talk going over how you guys view life. And talk about. "what if's" and how you would handle things.
I think it is romantic. I would love if it happened to me.
Best wishes |
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Stranger in a Strangeland
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If you liked the wedding, you'll loooove the divorce! |
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only1wildgal
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mes felicitations,ma chere |
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idk
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I think it's too soon for marriage, right now you're still in the "honey moon stage" where your still in lust. You don't know what's going to happen a few months down the track. It's a life long commitment, and your already having doubts, otherwise you wouldn't need to ask this question. Of course it's totally your choice, if you love him & you think you want to spend the rest of your life with this person go for it, but you cant truly know a person after one month, & if you're not certain about this, don't do it. |
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Tyler L
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Marriage is a life long commitment. If you are really in love, you will still be in another 11 months. Get married at that point. Don't make a premature mistake and add to the growing number of divorces.
Best of luck whatever your decision. |
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mickeymaz
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Whatever floats your boat. |
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talbot_andrews
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You're crazy! The first few months of a relationship is spent getting to know someone... what if this guy is a felon with a HUGE criminal background? What if he's abusive? What if... there are so many "what if" questions that you should ask yourself about this dude. Wow, I can't even imagine what it will be like to marry a guy after only one month of dating...
But who am I to tell you what you can and can't do, I'm sure you're capable of making your own decisions, let's just hope they're the right ones for you. But whatever happens, best of luck to you. |
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Schizm
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congratz...
try getting to know eachother after your honeymoon...
hope it doesn't turn out like
ALONG CAME POLLY lol |
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paha_10
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I married within 3 mos. Married 23 yrs, we've outlasted high school sweethearts etc. It is what you make out of it. If you both believe in monogomous relationships and both do not believe in divorce, there is hope. We reap what we sow. Your mate can not read your mind, which involves communication and respect for each other's unique differences. You live on love the first two years. Regardless of the amount of time you've known each other, you will never NEVER truly know anyone else, So go with your heart, and gut feelings. Be sure to have more than physical attraction in common |
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Sus
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Well you're almost there - why not just take the risk? You never know. Good luck! |
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tattoomeats
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Another one bites the dust lolz. Hey I married my first wife after only dating her for 3 months and second wife after 8 months. |
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Veloce
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1 month isnt enough, you think he is a nice guy because he still acts nicely to you because he JUST GOT YOU, so he still acts nice and being so sweet to satisfy you. Most ppl will show their bad side in 3 months of relationship. I think you make a mistake. |
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Marty K
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Don't do it. It's not nearly long enough, and a young woman needs to know a man for a long, long,time. |
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sincerely, see me
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Weird, you are getting married tommorrow, but you have time to get on the internet. Why aren't you haveing a good time or getting beauty sleep. Are you lying. |
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Can you say dumb ditty dumb?? I think you are crazy but I hope it works out, Hey its your life. |
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misha
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wow so fast,you sure you know about him well?what your instinct says?.my boyfriend and me take almost 3 years now and we still don't get married.congratulations anyway.i wish you have a happy marriage life |
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christopher d
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TOOO SOON, theres alot of things you dont know about this person.. but i wish luck! |
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yep yep yep
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yea its crazy dont make a mistake that can screw up ur life |
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and,or,nand,nor
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Good luck!
My grandparents met at the KY state fair in Louisville KY in 1931. Later that night they went across the river to IN. and got married. They were happily married for 32 yrs, when my grandmother passed away!
Goes to show that you never can tell! |
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lovinonly#1
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well its like they say u make your bed then you lay in it,good luck |
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katie
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but you dont know him that well obviously!
why do something that will end in divorce? 1 out of 2 marriages end in divorce now. how fun!
i wouldnt do it, i would get to know this person better. |
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missy90
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congratulations, girl |
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PermDude
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One month? You aren't in love. You are infatuated, and will fall hard when the gloss wears off. |
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zether
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pretty stupid, there was another question posted earlier about some girl that married her man after about a month or two of dating and now she wants a divorce after like 5 months because she doesn't want him anymore |
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hockeyxgirlie
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That's rushing into things, don't you think?
Sometimes things work, but often they do not.
Think hard about your decision. You will share everything now - debts, bills, etc. Are you ready for that? Are you sure you really know him? It might be love, but a month is too soon, especially at such a fragile stage in a relationship. I'd hold off. |
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berry
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Too too soon. Very dangerous. Have you made a background check on him? |
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vaivagabundo
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Go for it, what the hell, nothing to lose.
But be prepared for a short marriage, its a whirlwind romance that will probably fade as quickly as it started. |
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chrissy757
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I think you are probably making a mistake. You really need to know someone and be able to accept their flaws in order to stay married. There is no way you can know that much about each other after a month. It took me living with my husband (boyfriend at the time) for about 8 months before I was sure I could love him forever. |
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Roy
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you think? you dont even know if he is a good person or not..i think you know what the right thing to do is, you dont need to ask strangers. |
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coldilocks
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i would say it's going pretty fast but sometimes those relationships work out better than the ones where people have known each other for the longest times this is because you guys will learn about each other as you move on and hopefully the love will grow! Go for it you only live ONCE! |
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miss chemist
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1 month??? wow, you're brave!
i don't know, i mean i probably wouldn't do it... i wouldn't feel comfortable marrying someone that soon just because i don't think i could know how he'd react in situations...
i mean, for most relationships, the first few months are all happy... but what happends when you disagree on something? do you know how he reacts when he's angry?
plus, i mean you've got time. there's nothing that says you have to get married so soon. if you're that commited to each other then waiting another few months shouldn't be a big deal.
but it's up to you! and each person and relationship is different, so if this is what works for you then run with it! it doesn't really matter what i think or what anyone else thinks, the important thing is what you think. you and him both. that's it.
best of luck! |
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