My boyfriend cheated on me. Its official and I know it...should I smack him tomorrow in the library in college?

jude

i wouldn't smack him, because then u loose your dignity, and u let him know he hurt u. when a man cheats on u he never loved u anyway, and u should be happy that u found it out, instead of later on. and just because your loyal it doesn't mean everyone is. don't waste your time on him, be the bigger person and just tell him its done. and then don't ever speak to him again that will hurt him allot more than the smack.

Linda K Texan for Life

I wouldn't smack him. I would walk past him like he wasn't there and hug the first guy I saw so he could see it to. Then flirt like crazy. When he says anything tell him if he doesn't like the rules stop making them. If it is OK for him It must be OK for you too.

Then I would brush him off and find a real guy. One that has morals and values you.

Observer

Dump him.

saturn

Well you could but it would not change the fact that he cheated on you. I would just inform him that you are done with him.

Vaness U

make yourself look like the bigger person by NOT beating the crap outta him.
i may feel good but he's not even worth it, and you'll just look unattractive to other guys that are probably way better than this guy

carolynhutton1

YES- smack him as hard as you can, there is no excuse for cheating.

Knowledge24

I know your p!ssed but, you make 10 months sound like 10 years. No, you shouldn't smack him, you shouldn't even touch him.

Your only responsibility is to yourself. Don't even give him the satisfaction of letting him know that you're p!ssed off or even that you know, just move on, (if you in fact are ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that he is cheating on you). If this is just something you heard from some unreliable source, then you need to figure it out and ask yourself who you trust and if you have trust issues within yourself. Who knows, this is all neither here nor there. Just thinking out loud. Good luck to you.

-Knowledge26

Star

April - Do you want to do something that would hurt him even worse than smacking him. Ignore him and start flirting with other guys in front of him. You have to realize he is a CHEATER and you really don't want a low life like that. But when he see's you not even hurting over him....one it will surprise him and two it will make him wonder why. Hence leaving him wondering what happened. Not to mention having to watch you with another man and probably with one who is better anyway.

JellybeanLOVER

Unfortunately these things happen. Being violent will only make you look bad. Move on! & be the bigger person.

Shannon

Move on. If you had a more substantial emotional investment then you would go through the torment of reconciliation.
I don't think it's worth it for a dead-beat bf.

No. Your best revenge is to move on as quickly as possible and ignore him completely. If you do that, smack him, he will justify to his friends it was because of your temper or bad personality, instead of just allowing people around him to know he was stupid and left a great, level-headed woman. And worst case scenerio, he could press charges against you or get a protective order served on you. You don't need that added to what you are dealing with already.

albrightlesa

do not waste the hand print walk past him.

ndm1958

That sounds good and I would make sure you mention his cheating loud enough so others can hear. He does not deserve you and you deserve much better. Move on and find happiness with a better man.

mizz.sims

jus leav him alun n found another man he will regret it 1 day n wnt u bak

Joey Boy

why smack him? Just leave him.

less stress, more success

pileated

I wouldn't slap him..but I would sure make him sit there and explain himself to me. Whether he ended up begging for my forgiveness or just ended up dumping me, I would want to hear what he had to say, if anything.

Jery E

if you smacked me i'd knock you the f*ck out.

jennifersimpson422

He sounds like a big loser. Don't hit him. He can call the cops and you could have assault charges against you. Flirt with every guy you guy you see. Dress really hot. Have a guy friend met you there-hug him then turn to your boyfriend and tell him you are done. You didn't sign up for an open relationship. He could have killed your with an STD or given you one that will haunt you for the rest of your life.

I am so sorry. I know it hurts.

josie

If I were you, I would really follow Linda K's advise! She is right!

Boo

he deserve it a big cheat

yoadriannejohnson

smack him that's too good for him you should kick him in the crotch. you deserve better that him. after that you will feel so much better.

Liz O

This may be the 'crapped all over female' in me talking, but I'd slap the $hit out of him in front of everyone! I'd sure feel better anyway. I don't think that it's immature either as the previous person said....I think it's called justice. Good luck. I hope this helps.

jen_mom2maddy

grow up and move on!

Kathy R

Good god...grow up and move on. Don't lower yourself to his level.

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