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My boyfriend has been married 2 times we started dating when he was still married.Will our marriage work.?

We started dating when he was still married and have 2 kids together.That we had when he was still living with his wife. Now divorced and us engaged what are the chances of him cheating and divorcing me?
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Let me say that I didn't find out he was married until i was pregnant with my second child


    




mimzy
You already know the answer, if he cheated on his ex's, who's to say he won't cheat on you. I hate to put him down since he isn't here to defend himself, but the chances are good that he might cheat. But, then again,if he was really young during the first 2 marriages, maybe he just didn't know who he wanted. Good luck :)


Rule of thumb
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100% chance he will cheat and 100% chance you deserve it.


♥ ttc #1 ♥
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there's a reason he's been married more than once. think about it babe... and think hard!


lil one
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no he's gonna end up cheating on you. ha! you're not very smart. um why do you think he's been married more than once? he's probably been married more than twice!


Princess Ashala
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he will cheat on you for 3rd wife

you learn from your mistakes....

don't do it


Miss Ann Thrope
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.


Juice
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no he'll do the same thing to you. he's a scumbag


Miss Cellaneous
once a cheater always a cheater and as for u - if he does cheat it is just Karma.


Dick Pound
what makes you different from the other women, and dont give me that "I'm me!" bullcrap


Emo kid
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haha
if he's dont it once he'll do it again
so very high


JakeDigioia
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high


Ben Dover
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If he cheated on his other wife, then there's a good chance he'll do the same to you.


J
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Which ex's ring are you wearing? Sounds like marriage to him is a punchline.


Sweet
he's probably cheating right now.

thats what u get for helping him cheat. doesnt feel good when you're on the other end of his cheating ways now, does it?


Angie
I think karma is going to come back on you with a vengeance. Both of you. It may not even come in the form of marriage problems. Karma doesn't always come the way it started. It could be with sickness, problems with kids, etc. I'm not saying this WILL happen to you. I'm just saying that usually when people do things like this, bad things happen. I don't understand why people do things like this and at the same time expect good things to happen to them. Just doesn't make good sense to me.


MVP2810
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he should get a divorce or finalize it first before u get to serious


Liz O
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I've always wondered why in the world would anyone get into a relationship with a cheater?? If he cheated on his wife with you....when you're the wife he'll cheat on you too. Good luck.


Lee H
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love is a strange thing hun dont waste time in the past just enjoy what you have now MILDRED SENT ME


Great one
Most likely not, that's how your relationship started on cheating and that's how it will most likely end. Why do people think that when someone "leaves someone" to be with you that they won't do the same to you


Kuri
YOU'LL LOSE HIM, HOW YOU GOT HIM!! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you! Plain and simple! Plus...Karma is one heck of a "female dog"!!! You knew he was married, you should of made your karma better for yourself, it'll come around to bite you in the rear!! Best of luck! You're gonna need it!!!

By the way, in the words of Dr. Phil, . . . ."You can usually predict future behavior by past behavior!!!" So what is that telling you??? (I'm just saying!)


Crystal LeeAnn
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You will never know unless you go ahead and marry him. Look at his track record and find out the reasons for those divorces. Some men will put the whole blame on their ex and none for themselves. They like playing the victim to us women. My ex is doing such a good job in that aspect. He is working on his 4th marriage. He cheated on is wife with you. What was the reason for the 1st one? Also, if he cheated on her, he may not have full knowledge what it means in the vows to keep only onto each other. Or does he know and it is only temporary for him.


NYCMorena
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um repeat this question to yourself. what do you think??!!!
How do you have 2 KIDS! with a man and not have any clue he is married.
This man has been married twice, cheated in probably both his marriages. Had a whole other family during 1 marriage. And some how you think its possible that this dog will magically change and things will be different with you!
you need to check if he has any other children now.
i think the chances of him cheating on you has already been done!
and i think you will end up comming to your senses and divorcing him first.


Thomas
you must be very young, huh? I just don't understand why would have kids with a married man? the odds are against you, did he tell you why he was married twice? here is some of questions you should ask yourself and see if you fall some where in the profile of his relationship in the last two marriage.

1) did he really love his first wife, or second wife?

2) how long into his first marriage before he cheated on her.

3) was his second wife is the woman he cheated with on his first wife?

4) do he have any kids from his first two marriage.


Liz
Your marriage will turn out to be a happy and lifelong one the day Satan ice-skates to work.

LOL

Seriously, this guy LIED to you about his marital status for years. Do you really think lies are what successful relationships are based on? Think again.


lwomar
He will cheat on you. You are no better than the last or the next.


cleopatra_adkins
you silly little girl. he'll cheat. He was married when he knocked you up, twice. He was still living w/her, likely that's not all they did. Why would you think it would be different w/you? What else has changed w/him that would give you that impression? You should've thought of this before having kids, that's so selfish.


trouble_11668
OK, you didn't know he was married and living with a wife until your 2nd child? RIGHT..........where do you think he went at night. Why didn't you question him not living with you?


redbaron1625
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Only time will tell if he is willing to change his ways. Chances are very high that he will cheat. Make him earn the trust he lost, don't just marry him because he is single right now. It is something that marriage can't fix, only he can chose to do that. If you think marriage or kids will prevent him from doing this or change him you are wrong. No matter what, make sure you have a set plan in place in case the worst happens. Remember that no matter what, those kids come first!


Jeeess ♥
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Oh my GOD!
WOW!

even though you are in love with him if he started your relationahip opn a bad note what makes you think it would work out, basically he lied to be with you and married twice holy cow i think that he will do the same to you. Yes you might wanbt to keep your family together but is that right?
what makes you any different from the first or second wife?

Hope we helped

Jeess+Kaaylah





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