My boyfriend is still married?

let's all point fingers

This is a tough question to answer. It's really early..I would suggest taking a break from talking to him for a little while - maybe a week or two and think things over. I sent you an email and I hope that helps. good luck and best wishes.

Kat H

My opinion is that you shoud take a break until the divorce is final.

Angel's Wings

Back off this guy. Even if he is getting divorced, there's probably a good reason is marriage didn't work and I can guarantee it wasn't all his wife's fault! Plus, he's got a kid...that's a lot of issues just waiting to happen.

You don't need the drama that you about to take on.

Move on girl.

Ocimom

Tell him that until he has the papers filed, he is married and you cannot continue the relationship at this time.

"Getting a divorce" and having the papers filed and waiting for signature is two different things.

Amarante

it's over when the divorce papers are signed and filed

get a break from him until the divorce is final

he's not your boyfriend

can't be dating someone who is married

Onetoplay

My twin would have plenty of advice for you. Her guy is still legally married and "working on his divorce" and it has been 4 years since he got with my sister. Walk away until you SEE legal papers in action.

Tara

Tell him to come back to see you when he gets his divorce.

Since he is not divorced .. he is a married man .. and he should not be going with other women.

Beware .. he could be just playing around for awhile.

Touch me Lord

I think you should wait until he is finally divorced because you really don't know her side of the story. He maybe for real or he maybe lying.

titania_woodland_fairy_queen

If you love him, stick out. Just be prepared for a long hard road and not getting really serious for a while.

Army Girlfriend

Sounds like my ex boyfriend Terry. I was dating this guy for almost 2 years. We had a baby and everything was great. He was married but getting a divorce they have a kid together and yady yady yada. SAME THING. she knew about me too. Well first off they never divorced bc she would never sign the papers. Second I had to give up our son bc she took everything from us. In the long end everything became too bad that his mind turned on me. Started hurting me yelling at me yelling her name while hurting me. Just be careful in your situation. He really needs to get that divorce it could really hurt yours with him.

Woogs

RUN! He is a cheater and stringing you along.

sillerious

i was separated two years before i got divorced because my ex-husband wouldn't sign the papers. it happens.....they dont live together you mentioned, i would make sure there are no secrets between them and for sure i would want to hear how he talks to her.

craig b

It's a very difficult choice is figuring out who is the more idiotic in this one..........

Hmmmmmm.........Let's wait for YOUR impending divorce and well talk about it!

You don't have a freak'n clue!

Just Surfin

"He's getting a divorce"

"He swears its over"

Riiiiiiiiight.

Want to buy a bridge?

Tell him to come to you with the signed divorce decree in his hot little hands. If it's really over and he's really "head over heels" for you, then he will get the divorce finalized so he can be with YOU.

Until he does, paws off. He's still married. And that means you're not his girlfriend, you're his mistress, and odds are he'll come up with one reason or another that he doesn't "get around" to finalizing the divorce.

LeahMaria

Well that's not your boyfriend now is it...that somebody's husband..GET YOUR OWN!!!

jude

i would not invest in this, until u see divorce papers. they also have a child together which will be in his life forever. when u build a relationship out of someone else's misery it always comes back to haunt u later on. i would cut the ties with him until he gets the divorce.

Nancy

I would take it slow and really check out what he says. Did he tell you that he was married or did you find out on your own?

Complicated

Nope, but I'm very, very smart.

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