My boyfriend proposed two after I found out he was still talking to his ex...he apologized.should i say yes?

LittleLady

I'd give it a little time and make him earn your trust back, the last thing you need is to get tangled in a web of deceit.

CRYSTAL S

If you are asking this question i think you already know the answer & just dont want to do what you know you should do!...at least you should put it off dont do any thing too soon & see if his actions with his ex continue!....there is no need to rush into something that you may and probably will regret...and im not trying to sound insensitive just being honest,i wish you all the best!

Mia L

I would think that he's just asking you that because you found out his secret. That's his way of having the best of both worlds.

kimberly

no girl say no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

M. S.

How is he talking to her..? Just casually or? I would not go forth with marriage at this point. Just give it more time since there are trust issues still there.

nwnativeprincess

if you want to have a dysfunctional life, your choice.

butch

If he's a Dog now he'll be a BIGGER DOG later. Say NO and run the other way like someone is chasing you. Okay?

koldpl

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

Rather Dashing

daj11551

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

mz.thang

you need to put off saying yes for a while put him on probation and see if what he saying is true he has to prove to you not you to him .

Douglas D

Don't be silly. Of course not. He has shown he can't be trusted.

i L0VE 0NNiE!

no.. you should wait a little longer.. cause he could still be talkin to her... just wait to see =]

lizisbored

Do you love him. He was just having a converstation, one does not mean does he not love you. Think of it this way he proposed to YOU, maybe he was asking what she thought you would like, guys ask other girls before they propose.

persnicady

It's up to you to answer yes or no, but from what I perceive, he;s a bum that might cause you a lot of concern later. It appears you don't trust him. Marriage or long-lasting relationships will fall apart for lack of trust in each other. Send him packing, and make sure he understands that you deserve his complete attention.

Jenna

If he loved you to begin with, he wouldn't have talk to his ex. If he can't forget about her now, there will probably be others in the future. If you don't satisfy him, then you can probably do much better anyways!

lilac b

You already know that you shouldn't. Don't come online looking for someone to calm your conscience. You know that what he did is MAJOR. Marriage isn't the band aid that is gonna stop a GAPING wound.

All you will do is be LEGALLY JOINED and miserable. He isn't worth marrying if he didn't ask BEFORE, and if he was on the phone with his ex.

I'm not saying never marry him, that is entirely up to you. But you better let some time pass, and work these issues out because just because you get a marriage license, have a ceremony, and get a ring......doesn't mean that if there is an issue of dishonesty and infidelity then it will go away. Be smart, and take some time out to evaluate everything.

Give it a year from today. If things get better and not worse, if he is honest, considerate, mature, ready for marriage, as demonstrated by his ACTIONS AND HIS WORDS.....then go right ahead. But don't think that getting married will mean fidelity. And don't think that another woman won't sleep with and pursue him just because he is married. It will happen even MORE SO, ESPECIALLY if she was an ex.

Please use other door

If you have ANY doubts say no.

Jewells

Clearly the answer is no.

shondak

Talking to his ex like what? Trying to have a relationship more then a friendship? The, duh, HELL NO! Why would you do that? Nope, definitely not.

I would wait to see if he's talking to her as a friend or if there's still some unresolved stuff there. If he truly loves you, he'll understand and respect your decision, and if he doesn't, drop him!

Clints_wench

Nope not if he is talking to his ex. Girl are you looking to get hurt. If you marry him he will hurt you. Trust me.

slow-n-sexy

If him talking to his ex was done behind your back then run!!!!!And if YOU know that the only reason he proposed was because he got caught....say HELL NO!!!!

Blondie

nik

If him *talking* to his ex is that much of a problem for you, then no. He even shouldn't have had to apologize.

If you were implying whether he was husband material or not, then yes. I don't see any problem in talking to ones ex as long as it's really just *talking*.

Your_Star

No. If he can't be honest with you then, what's the point of giving him another chance. You're always going to wonder if he's calling behind your back. Which is HIGHLY likely.

Danette

I wouldn't say yes because it could be just some type of guilt thing!

sweetpea

Say yes, but watch his ways, if you find that he's too chatty then deal with it or break it off. You should also talk to him and find out where he stands with you and his ex-girlfriend and work something out.

lily

if you are doubting being with him already, then its obviously not a good sign... and it does look like you are doubting, because you are asking us... sorry sweetie

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