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Charlie Bucket
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He's a control freak. The only way a relationship works is if each person has their own interests, space, and privacy. |
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Bluris
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Maybe thats true once your married and you know for sure 100% that he and you are in it for the long haul but I would never give a boyfriend or girlfriend access to any of my passwords. He doesnt need them he just wants that control. Stand your ground. |
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holl
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PLEASE take the advice from all of these people and GET OUT! I had a relationship that started like this, it got worse and worse and it took me a year after we broke up and finally a restraining order to get rid of him. It is a sure sign of him being a control freak and this can be very scary. He has a lot of insecurities and is NOT ready to be in a relationship until he gets that under control. I am dating a guy now for about 7 months and never once has he asked for any passwords. We both are very faithful and honest but respect each other's privacy at the same time. BE CAREFUL WITH THIS ONE! |
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alienokey
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they are limits on your confidentiality in a friendship if he keeps asking tell him to take a hike |
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hpfan14wyo
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Ditch him. Everyone in a relationship needs some sort of privacy. Tell him to either deal with the fact that you like some privacy or leave! |
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bigbrat81792
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I know what you meen. My boy friend was the same. I was not alod to even have friends that were are guys and when I was out with the girls he calls to make sher I am were I am supoed to be.Finly I told him if you you cant trust me I don't think we shoud be together.finly he baked of and let me have friends that were guys and the calling stoped when I was out with the girls. you should do the same.because if you to were ever to get maired you would not last long. |
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devins_sugarpuss
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tell him theres no relationship without trust and he needs to trust your not hiding anything |
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KB
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Always be weary of someone who is afriad that YOU are lying. They usually have a guilty conscience.
if you were married, I'd say that a) you shouldn't hide anything but that b) you have the level of trust that you don't need to see everything
my hubby and I still have separate email accounts. I think we know each other's passwords just from checking email for the other while he was stuck in an airport, or driving or something. but I have never logged in just to see who is emailing him. I have faith in him, he is allowed to have friends and a life away from me, and I don't need to know everything. if I did, what would we ever talk about? |
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rachel
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Wanting privacy doesn't mean you are keeping secrets.His insecurities are getting the better of him. Kick his controlling *** to the curb. |
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s4ndm4n2006
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A good relationship is based on trust. For you, if you care about the person, it might do you good to give in, if you have nothing to hide. The refusal to people who don't trust so easily brings out more suspicion. |
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mary
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You don't wanna do that.That's why you ask everyone.Right?My answer is dear,NEVER.Oh!Not just that....Please leave him.He is dangerous and dishonest.This type of guys always end up in jail for abusing wives.Watch Oprah! |
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Mr. Malaprop
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Run away....now! |
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dsaidem
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Dont give it... He may be cheating you!! |
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lotsalovetanya
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This will only escalate.He's insecure and controlling.Stand firm,but better yet-forget him. |
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wingame
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sorry but i find this hilarious. passwords affecting relationships. they're other matters of great importance than passwords in a relationships. |
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sunkistOJ
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that's bull sh*t. he doesn't need your passwords, that's your stuff not his. what if something happens in the relationship and he changes your passwords before you can and you get locked out of your stuff? i wouldn't recommend using that as an argue point though cuz it would disprove your faith |
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mopargrapeape
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What does he say he needs it for? Sounds like a definite trust issue here. Ask him for his and see what happens, bet you won't get them! You may want to re-consider this relationship, he sounds slightly controlling and will only get worse if he is. And yes, there is privacy in a relationship, it's called respect for one thing. This guy has issues. |
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Ginny Lou the Peachy One
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He has some serious control issues and I suggest you either leave him alone or watch your back.....
Sounds like a "Stalker in the making". |
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jaimestar64cross
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here's what you do --- give him all the passwords --- then ask him why he wants to know all your business when he's the one who's cheating and being controlling in the relationship --- then kick him to the curb... |
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Annie Oakley
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Do not give him that information unless YOU want to. No where does it say that when you enter a relationship you are required to now not have a personal life. Everyone needs their space. He has some serious trust issues and I personaly would get away before it escalates. |
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quijibored
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If you were smart you'd dump him now because this type possessive behavior is a very bad sign for your relationship's future. |
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Not Allie
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Seems like he's insecure and a control freak to me- this relationship probably won't be too good for your mental health. Leave him now, before you're dragged in any deeper. |
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aam112
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Ask him if he is willing to give you all his personal information. |
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Beer Advocate
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Sounds like he has severe trust issues, if he can't trust you maybe you should find somone else. |
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letmesurpriseu
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No he doesn't. You are an individual first, his girl second. What he is doing is controlling. Don't be bullied into giving over something u don't want to. If he doesn't trust u, then you both need to address that problem. And if he doesn't want to then, you found one boyfriend, u can find another. |
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curious
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Everyone needs a certain amount of privacy, and needing it doesn't equate to being deceitful or dishonest. Tell your boyfriend to back off, your password is your business. You don't need someone in your life who feels that have to have total control over what you do. |
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michele36567
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no don't dooooooo ittttttttttttttt |
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free_angel
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He's not respecting your privacy, he wants to invade it. This is not a good sign and red flags are going up. Pay attention to them, they are telling you something about him wanting complete control. |
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kathy059
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That is a trust problem on his part. If you can deal with that sort of behavior and have nothing to hide, hand them over, but make sure you get his in return. |
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las vegas golfer
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DUMP HIS STUPID A$$, HE WILL BE NOTHING BUT TROUBLE... |
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Been there
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Ok, so tell him to give you all of his passwords, and see how he likes it when you check in on him! From personal experience, I would say that he is hiding stuff from you and therefore is suspicious of you doing the same. Why else would he be so suspicious? Make sure you NEVER give him any banking passwords!!! |
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